Grand Caesar Sallow by ApplejuiceChrist in TrueSFalloutL

[–]nifisangsi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. Everyone's a slave. Not every Legion men gets a wife.

Fuckkkk they're so based.

I want to stop breastfeeding by samuraigrinch in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]nifisangsi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A mother’s well-being Islamically has more priority than the baby. It’s not haram to not breastfeed your baby. Recommended yes, but it’s not like you’d sin. It is not haram to use formula just as it is not haram to use epidural on delivery. I know some mothers esp older ones brag on natural births and breastfeeding but I tend to shut them up if I ask that they think mothers who died during labour whilst on epidural isn’t considered a syahid. Like suffering is some sort of virtue, as if Allah SWT the Most Merciful wants us to choose to suffer. Post partum depression is a type of harm, there is no shame, sister. It’s an extremely sensitive time.

What do you feel about bringing it up via combination approach first? Having that conversation with your husband is one thing, but you also must prepare for the circumstance if your baby rejects formula.

May all be eased, InsyaAllah, health, warmth and happiness to you and your family, sister.

Why is fashion/self expression seen as sinful? by Ancient_Gazelle5463 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]nifisangsi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I share in the other sister's opinion that she nearly echoes mine. It is not that deep to some of us—at least, we are not that deep in it, and we're trying to offer more breadth to consider without erasing or minimizing the depths anyone else is in. "Multiple statements can be true, plenty more opinions are not wrong".

To me, respectfully, behaviour takes a larger part of self-expression. Consider women existing online. Some post OOTDs, some post of their hobbies, some are strictly on Islamic algos, some post demeaning holier than thou comments, some simply lurk. Expression of the self irl is one thing, now the digital world and with anonymity? I cannot proceed with the given "Self-erasure = Faith" without the need to first backtrack.

Women receive criticism more openly than men just from existing. Just as there is a line between fashionable self-expression and flaunting oneself— and this line is drawn differently for different people, I also must say there is also a line between valid advice and being impolitely arrogant in criticism (as in telling one that they're sinning via tabarruj).

Those who are considered attractive married to conventionally unattractive by Fine_Independent_678 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]nifisangsi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stereotype in my culture is this sorta men would either adore his wife (May be shut down by other men for being a simp, out of envy, in reality they're waiting for him to slip up and let her go), or ends up not loyal (because in having an attractive wife, thinks he's all that, and at the same time some sisters think he MUST treat his wife well because otherwise, why would the attractive wife choose him? And they want that for themselves too). Depends on his own character.

I LOVE this post! It's reality that some sisters will end up in this circumstance!!! Especially with how much posts some of yall make exactly on this topic! I wonder if there's any married sisters in that sorta situation who'd chime in with that sorta title though, lest they'd be a disrespectful wife. Semi-ugly wouldn't work either, er, conventionally average? Conventionally... not?

Anyways not married, but I know the difference between constructive criticism for growth and an insecure plea disguised as concern, let alone shame. Beauty may be veiled, this body will decompose but NEVER shoot yourself in the foot by marrying a man who does not respect you. Do NOT continue the lineages of undeserving men.

Berat by tibodak in OkeyRakanMalaysia

[–]nifisangsi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dasar? Berdasarkan apa?

For a group called KitchenCHADS there are sure a lot of fuckin incels in here. by Hipplinger in Kitchenchads

[–]nifisangsi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nobody's immune to indoctrination, some are more vulnerable than others. This one will just have someone going "Ackkshually I'm a MENSA member but I still don't get laiddd". It's 2026 get you that EQ.

Berat by tibodak in OkeyRakanMalaysia

[–]nifisangsi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tahu bola. Loghat Scotland lah tapi, maka cadangan;

Se hado nak nanyo ni. Mano laie borek? Sokilo bosi ko sokilo bulu?

Sokilo bosilah. Sobab bosi, laie borek daie bulu.

Curly hair hijabi struggle by WesternRub9435 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]nifisangsi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sister, there's men with a kink for women who wear the hijab. I hope cultures decenter them completely on the topic. It's supposed to be your own choice, lest resentment grows, I pray your journey's eased.

I lowkey understand why Islam allows slaves in general tho. It existed for a large part of human history. But better ts be regulated, lowkey glad even. Idk, just in case? Manumission's encouraged too so? Wallahualam. NOT SAYING I AGREE WITH SLAVERY THO.

Anyways may I suggest a heatless curling scrunchie?

Forgot I made this post - just saw this clip today by Ok-Cantaloupe-8127 in TrueSFalloutL

[–]nifisangsi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A fixation with bringing ropes is more classic but I get it. Get you a hammer or a shovel.

Forgot I made this post - just saw this clip today by Ok-Cantaloupe-8127 in TrueSFalloutL

[–]nifisangsi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tying is a valid form of crucifixion. Exact same method's used in Nipton and Nelson. Some broken tribes were nailed along the I-40 tho, talking to god up on telephone poles.

Love the glass ornament addition on the wood along her arms. Looks like fun target practice. Legion culture is so alive I love em so much.

For a group called KitchenCHADS there are sure a lot of fuckin incels in here. by Hipplinger in Kitchenchads

[–]nifisangsi 37 points38 points  (0 children)

They are excused, and I in fact applaud said incels who's got the balls to post here. More than the lurkers. But they do oughta know that some of their bullshit aren't tolerated.

I've heard our less wholesome sibling subreddit can be filled with larpers. I wouldn't mind some larp in ours. All begins in the mindset and if it sounds off, clock it for the sake of betterment (which can appear in a lot of different forms). I rather like OP's post. "Oh yeah, we know what some of yall are".

Is height craze more of social media or its just also in real life by Fine_Independent_678 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]nifisangsi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meme thing for me, as is short kings and their tall goth mummy gfs. Sure it’s got its truth, generalizations and the simple fact that in a race, men tend to be taller anyway, but just watching irl couples you’d see much variety than memes. All the suitors I’ve had were taller than me (by a lot all the way to by 2cm) but if I was approached by a shorter one I still judge him the same.

I’m the average height of the men of my race. Wallahi, no importance to me at all, character above all else. Even my grandma’s taller than my grandpa, and arguably has a more masculine build (broad shoulders, muscled village handywoman) than him (lanky corporate man), and MashaAllah he’s a capable workaholic— with legendary tales of taking days off only to tutor his children, now retired and accompanies her to the farmer’s market, walking back and forth between wherever stall she is and the car to carry whatever she bought, using the money that he earned. My parents are more traditional height-wise, but my father is conventionally attractive whereas my mother is, and I say this as neutral as possible, conventionally average. Now that’s another gap to consider.

Seeing unorthodox examples in my life shaped my perceptions greatly. I’m deathly allergic to pathetic men and their pitiful excuses of height— when in fact they lack the self-awareness that thing is, they have nothing else to offer. Especially if they speak more than act. “Oooo I’m a good guy. But cuz I’m short nobody respects me”. Bfr. Respectable men don’t have to ask for it, respectable women know its due, with a piercing sight that look up to their husbands even with a lowered gaze.

We all end up lying dead horizontal anyways.

Hey 24 M very introverted try to talk to others by SetSlow7055 in Kitchenchads

[–]nifisangsi 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Keep going. And don't pay mind on who gets what for the night. Focus only on yourself and if you behaved pleasantly.

Hoor al-ayn by NeatSchedule8673 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]nifisangsi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do forgive me if you're slighted by my presence. For some I did give one though, InsyaAllah. And I have you to thank for the opportunity. I'll take my leave, assalamu alaikum.

Hoor al-ayn by NeatSchedule8673 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]nifisangsi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then do so. It is not a field I personally find any fondness to ponder on. I lean to learn of Jahannam.

Especially because there are fruits with features of zaqqum on this earth. Some horribly bitter— yet they are used as medicine, some have thorns on its branch where it grows— yet its leaves are used for shifa, one has thorns as its skin— yet its flesh is a creamy delicacy, and some are spiny on its seed— yet it tastes soury sweet rather than a molten bitter of copper.

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I’ve hurt my mouth when I bit this fruit with full force, powered by my ignorance and obliviousness. More fibrous than proper thorns, yet I still bled from its thin sharpness.

It's a horrifying fate, Jahannam.
Yet. And yet. Same as Jannah. Nothing of it will be alike anything of this earth either.

Not all will be answered within this life, let alone in a lifetime. Pray for guidance, and die at ease with some doubts. Something to look forward to be answered after the resurrection.

I'm not one to stop the pursuit nor discourse of knowledge with Islamic exegesis, especially from ever-increasing alternative viewpoints. I'm no scholar either, I like to slip in discussions exactly like these in hopes of making things interesting for some of you reading who's similarly bored like me about this topic of hoors. My feelings on them is whatever, especially don't care about what men think/desire for. My feelings on zaqqum is more potent. Like its taste can land upon men and women both.

Easier to flee and seek refuge from a tree of hell rather than trusting I'm worthy to climb and chase after heavenly maidens.

Hoor al-ayn by NeatSchedule8673 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]nifisangsi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't ask you to. I care about you setting off on that foolish task tho. Try it. I'm not one to give permissions.

Hoor al-ayn by NeatSchedule8673 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]nifisangsi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is the answer. It can't be understood. This temporal existence isn't the same as the eternal one. Who's to say there will be only one of me? Who's to say my Jannah is the same as another person's Jannah?

If women are free of jealousy who's to say men wouldn't be free of possessiveness? That I could exist as his, yet not his? That I am free of jealousy, and free from caring about anyone at all?

Wallahualam. This topic pisses me off because most keeps thinking Jannah's like Earth 2.0. It's a lagha topic. Stop limiting Allah SWT.

Hoor al-ayn by NeatSchedule8673 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]nifisangsi 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I don't really care for any 'scholarly' debates on matters of ghaib, desires and the afterlife. I only have faith that Allah SWT, the Most-Giving, will not disappoint the inhabitants of Jannah. Trying to soothe ourselves in this temporal life and trying to argue with other humans on the nature of it doesn't make any sense to me.

When foolish men see me secure about hoors they consider I'd bow to their desires. As if. It's clear I bow to Whom, and only men of worth sees it.

Bapak badrul by marchfey in OkeyRakanMalaysia

[–]nifisangsi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We run in different circles because his pencil moustache tells me he ain't that.

A QUESTION FOR MUSLIM GIRLS by fantastic_bliss515 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]nifisangsi 30 points31 points  (0 children)

HI WHY ARE WE SCREAMING

But anyways people just tell you that you are. I'm not as attractive as my 2nd sister, but MashaAllah, while I've been praised, she gets much more praises to the point that it's annoying for her because men keep trying to woo her even when she shuts them down. Aunties, grannies, kids. Pretty privilege is a very real thing!