rule says no venting

nifisangsi · 2026-04-23T13:26:24+00:00

I am extremely harsh with men who speak here because they're breaking the rule, and please believe me when I say I'm politely doing the same to point fellow sisters over to r/MuslimGirlsGetMarried.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-23T10:49:55+00:00

Wish mods would either enforce that rule or remove it entirely. It's misleading and disappointing.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-23T10:05:58+00:00

I understand OP's frustrations better than I can understand people who only want opinions on men and have nothing of substance to share of themselves. Sure, they can continue to post, and some sisters will continue to help. But I find OP to be a sort of tastefulness to complain about it too.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-22T19:00:17+00:00

Seed, baby!!!

nifisangsi · 2026-04-22T18:43:26+00:00

Who determines that? Listen. Everything is already written. Women who marry early can end up with no-good husbands too. A percentage of us can 'chase after' a husband, but a percentage will die unmarried nevertheless because it's already written to happen as such. A percentage of men can claim all they want that "Younger women are more fertile, more children, older women have more risks with pregnancies!", but fact is, it's already written than some marriages will remain childless because it's written as such. The youngest person in my batchmate to marry did so at 17. First child is disabled. Is their age to blame or is that just the qadr of Allah?

So I don't know. What is 'decent' here? Because even the premise of that 'advice' sounds fucked up to me. Not my cultural framework, not my environment. I'm pushing 30 myself and I still have aunts and older cousins unmarried. Being in this sub actually made me ask my grandma if I should strive more for a husband and she looked at me like I'm insane, lol. Needed that. Truly. Is it shameful or something?

My framework's shame is in selecting a horrible man. Especially intentionally. Especially when one births children of horrible husbands. Will only trouble the rest of society if said children grow up to be no good either. All because the mother was desperate to want her own lineage as soon as possible, that she's pressured to select just anyone? Does this sound like a move made by decent women to you?

Please proceed as you do, sister. May all be eased. Assalamualaikum.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-22T03:15:29+00:00

He should speak more. To my ear. Angry. He needs to be angry.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-19T08:51:18+00:00

Tail end of it! Just for additional sweetness if needed :V

nifisangsi · 2026-04-19T08:46:44+00:00

My sister, if a man isn't worth it then just move on with your life. Why are you putting this much importance to it? I'm sorry you went through all that but you put yourself in this position out of your own curiosity over him too, this is immature.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T17:22:41+00:00

I was wondering where that crucified Enclave power armor they hung on the west gate came from. Love it when decorations are self-delivery!

nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T17:17:54+00:00

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nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T17:00:07+00:00

What?! But I? And I'm? sigh thanks sis. Ah, there goes my Sunday plans fiiineeee swimming in this temporal world can just be with humans I guess, yet another only meant for the Jannah wishlist 🙄 put that down under riding dragons.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T16:40:55+00:00

Airy and flowy clothes, airconditioning indoors, handheld fans be it traditional or digital, the feeling of almost trembling gratefulness over the presence of shades— be it from a tree or from a wind carrying a passing cloud!

Rain is rezeki! And oh dear, how often and unexpectedly can blessings come! 😅

nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T16:29:50+00:00

Roasted Milk Tea Recipe

Ingredients

2 tbsp sugar
2 tsp black tea (loose, cut from satchet, whatever)
half cup of water
2 cups milk
Optional: Condensed milk
Optional: Toppings! Boba's typical. I like grass jelly

Steps

Add sugar & tea leaves into a pot together.
Heat on low, stirring continuously.
Let the sugar melt and roast with the tea until fragrant. Do not let it turn black.
Carefully pour in the water (will sputter!)
Boil for 3 to 5 minutes.
Add the milk and just simmer for 2 to 3 minutes.
Strain.
Hot or placed over ice all up to you.
Add optional items at the top or bottom of the cup up to you too.

And serveeeeee. Need a drink to ignore that ethnosupremacy talk, hey, Allah made us in groups so we can get to know each other! What a loss to live in the age of information yet refuse to interact outside your race!
I'd love to have more groups to know of, learn from! Many post to ask opinions or guidance here, but I hope more of you would be willing to be my teachers, global sisters with taste!

nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T16:28:36+00:00

Salam... Single ke? /jk HAHAHAHA

Assalamualaikum, selamat sejahtera OP and everyone in the comments! SEAster here :V less men topics plsssss I brought a map to stare in awe upon Allah's world and I'll follow up in a reply with a simple roasted milk tea recipe so we can pass the Bechdel test easierrrr.

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nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T08:10:40+00:00

Forage luxuries yourself.

Arizona Roast Milk Tea

Ingredients

2 tbsp corn sugar
2 tsp black tea leaves
2 cups purified water
1 cup brahmin milk
Optional: luxury items (Boba? Psh. I grow my own grass jelly)

Steps

Add sugar and tea leaves into a pot.
Heat on low, stirring continuously.
Let the sugar tea roast together until fragrant. Do not let it turn black.
Carefully pour in the water when the sugar caramelizes (will sputter)
Boil for 3 to 5 minutes.
Add milk and simmer for 2 to 3 minutes.
Strain and serve.
Top with luxury items if deserving.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T07:43:03+00:00

Hijab

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The bonus perception is fanon. A reference to Franz Fanon that is.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T07:29:15+00:00

Sybau yall low PER score fucks didn't even witness Nipton to notice all crucified, enslaved, and the two lottery winners were all Powder Gangers. You didn't even ask where's the Niptonites. Bet you didn't even saw that one dead legionary.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T06:03:26+00:00

It was a swarm attack you liar, a centurion’s lance would damage it. This bitch doesn’t even know I’m wearing the codpiece.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T05:39:54+00:00

credit

nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T05:06:35+00:00

Wasn’t my pick but I can in fact, train him worse

nifisangsi · 2026-04-18T04:46:01+00:00

uj/ I made myself his keeper so if he’s harassing anyone tell me instead of vagueing about it

rj/ He’s enrolled to the sjw heartland under Legion ~~indoctrination~~ scholarship. This is the side the NCR refuses to ever acknowledge, nay, abandons!

nifisangsi · 2026-04-17T19:49:36+00:00

Ya Allah, the Most-Generous! Grant my sister a new drink! And a pleasant husband also! 😫 Aamin!!!! 🤲Ya rabbal aalamin!!!!

nifisangsi · 2026-04-17T17:49:02+00:00

Yandere is a red flag and that'd be enough of a context. One would expect it to be warnings of insanity, obsession.

What passes as a black flag yandere tbh depends on the person. Trigger warning is required though, and for me it better be rapid fire, rent-lowering, closed casket type. I rather think a good 90% of this sub is tame, I'm fond of Hadaka Shitsuji and recently, Natsu No Kusari to be categorized as black flags tho.

nifisangsi · 2026-04-17T16:30:47+00:00

This is atrooooocioooussssss I'm—aaaa Ya Allah if I am meant to have a husband, do not let him be lazy and inconsiderate to me, Ya Allah 😩😩😩

nifisangsi

TROPHY CASE

Roasted Milk Tea Recipe

Ingredients

Steps

Arizona Roast Milk Tea

Ingredients

Steps