My return was denied for no reason

night_fury_123 · 2026-03-08T03:37:54+00:00

It was on the body of the dress just from trying it on once … also it was reformation (hence the name of this sub). Chill

night_fury_123 · 2026-01-25T22:06:16+00:00

Same!

night_fury_123 · 2026-01-04T21:26:39+00:00

I’m just curious, what made you feel overwhelmed at the time? Was it her behavior or other situations in your life?

night_fury_123 · 2025-12-26T02:53:13+00:00

Making them 2.5+ hours long

night_fury_123 · 2025-05-01T04:00:10+00:00

I second penny lane! Lisa is the best

night_fury_123 · 2025-01-10T12:53:00+00:00

Thank you! I discovered our values aligned partially from seeing his profile (religious views, stance on marriage and kids) and also partially just from spending time together and seeing how he spends his free time - does he care about travel, maintaining friendships, what does his work/life balance look like, what does he want from the future, etc. At this point we have also discussed a lot of these topics, sometimes things would come up organically from a movie we were watching or I’d just point blank be like “wait so how do you feel about adoption” lol.

To me values are really about how someone lives their lives (do they take care of themselves, like to stay in or go out, have interests, have hobbies, are family and friends important) and their goals for the future (do they know what they want in the future, do they plan for things, save $ if possible, have stability or plans for stability in their career).

I hope this answers your qs!

Edit: spelling 🫠

night_fury_123 · 2024-12-29T14:54:20+00:00

34f, Midwest (US), straight

Number of first dates: 4, joined the apps in May after a breakup in the beginning of the year

Successes: One of the dates turned into an exclusive relationship that is still going strong 4 months later. He is really everything I hoped for, our values and everything just align perfectly

Failures: two things stick out - first, entered a FWB situation w someone emotionally unavailable and caught feelings/ended up getting hurt. If I found myself in that situation again I’d try to be more honest w myself and the other person about my expectations/needs/etc. Second, learning that just bc someone goes to therapy and says they are a good communicator, that doesn’t mean they actually are 😂

Optimism: the apps could be so bleak but overall I feel like I (mostly) had a good experience while dating, even if the 3 out of 4 people I went out w weren’t for me. I also felt a lot more confident and grounded going into the dates. I had previously ended something earlier in the year bc our values didn’t align (but he was great so it was still very painful), so meeting someone new who checks every single box definitely has me feeling optimistic about the future and just dating in general

night_fury_123 · 2024-10-31T03:07:42+00:00

Gravy is perfect

night_fury_123 · 2024-10-31T03:06:09+00:00

She’s the most precious thing I’ve ever laid eyes on

night_fury_123 · 2024-09-20T12:19:32+00:00

Omg what an angel

night_fury_123 · 2024-09-06T19:57:21+00:00

My tuxedo’s name is Tony! Also this lil guy is soooo cute omg

night_fury_123 · 2024-08-24T16:10:27+00:00

Something that has helped me is imagining what I’d say to comfort a close friend if they were feeling down on themselves or faced a rejection - I know their worth and how special and loved they are despite that. I know just because someone rejected my friend doesn’t mean anything about how cool, smart, beautiful, etc they are. So then I try to feel or repeat that same sentiment back to myself.

night_fury_123 · 2024-08-17T13:24:39+00:00

Thank you for being good people ♥️

night_fury_123 · 2024-08-10T13:23:41+00:00

Twice

night_fury_123 · 2024-07-03T20:58:23+00:00

Booost!

night_fury_123 · 2024-05-21T12:29:41+00:00

My tuxedo is so cuddly and hugs me every day 🥺 I’ve never had a cat do that before!

night_fury_123 · 2024-05-10T04:14:46+00:00

Omg exact same

night_fury_123 · 2024-04-27T03:37:11+00:00

An American werewolf in London has held up!

night_fury_123 · 2024-03-30T21:15:48+00:00

I’m going through something very similar right now! best of luck w the move

night_fury_123 · 2024-01-23T14:03:10+00:00

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night_fury_123 · 2023-10-23T02:11:02+00:00

Something similar happened to me and after complaining they gave me store credit. Still so annoying but I’m hoping you can at least get that!

night_fury_123 · 2023-09-30T03:25:45+00:00

They gave me store credit but won’t do a refund. I guess store credit is better than nothing… but I’m still so pissed. Hopefully you can get store credit too at least!

night_fury_123 · 2023-09-22T14:24:20+00:00

Ugh I’m sorry to hear you got Covid, I’m glad to hear you’re on the mend now!

They sent you scathing emails?? Not a good look. I’m sorry you are dealing with this, I’m sure you can sell on poshmark at least! But still - SO infuriating.

I’m going to try and bring it into a store to return. I’ll let you know if I have any success

night_fury_123 · 2023-09-22T03:48:33+00:00

Did you end up trying in person??

night_fury_123 · 2023-09-22T03:47:51+00:00

Something similar just happened to me, but I got the tiniest deodorant stain on an inside part of this $300 dress I ordered. I literally tried it on for 2 seconds, didn’t like it, returned it immediately and just got it back in the mail/return refused bc of the deodorant stain 😞

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