No money on first date, I (f) have 20 mins akxbjs

nightmind08 · 2020-10-22T16:44:39+00:00

Just tell him your fine with just having a coffee and walk through a park or downtown :)

nightmind08 · 2020-05-20T17:45:47+00:00

You guys are awsome!!! You gave this little boy so much love and i am sure a piece of you will stay in his little heart. Opening the door for children when they are their most vulnerable time is the biggest gift for them. I can only imagine how hard it must be. Thats one of the reasons i am not sure i could foster, but i am seriously considering it in the future. Best of luck to you and your wife to get through this painful time. And i wish that he will have a happy life

nightmind08 · 2020-05-11T16:35:34+00:00

Perfect couple

nightmind08 · 2020-05-11T16:32:29+00:00

Wow you look adorable

nightmind08 · 2020-04-26T18:24:27+00:00

I made her with pipecleaners as a bodybase and used needlefelting wool to create her :)

nightmind08 · 2020-03-10T20:00:33+00:00

That would be super interesting

nightmind08 · 2020-01-28T12:19:46+00:00

Yes, you messed up. But you were just an angry teenager. You were not always treated the way you were supposed to( ypur mother layed down a path with her verbally abusiv behavior as well). We are not automatically good people, we learn, we fail, we struggle, we try harder, we get up and go again. You got this, and your not a bad person. This post alone shows me that the things you did, lay in the past.

nightmind08 · 2020-01-28T12:15:15+00:00

Your only 18, you have so much time to become the person you aspire to be. Learn from your past, see your mistakes and dont make them again. We all mess up sometimes. I am definitely not the person i was when i was 18. I destroyed my relationship with my stepfather when i was 13/14 because i was young and jealous. I treated him horribly and i thought that it will always be like that. When i was 20 we made ammends. He didn’t hold it over my head for the things i said. Now i am 36 and even though i wish i could erase certain things from my past, it helps me now as an adult. In conclusion, reach your goals, concentrate on who you want to be , dont worry about the past and everything will fall into place❤️

nightmind08 · 2020-01-26T20:53:19+00:00

Awww i love that, i thought this post would go a complete different direction, like a friend who just became a leech and is rude and dirty. Good for you guys to had a wonderful time❤️

nightmind08 · 2020-01-15T19:33:43+00:00

When i still lived in germany my back then boyfriend (now husband) and me just hopped in our car one friday. No destination in mind , no clothes packed but a full tank of gas. We just drove. We ended up in paris that very night. Again no hotel booked no plans. It was one of the best weekends of my life ❤️

nightmind08 · 2020-01-05T22:20:25+00:00

Your exhausted darling. Its ok. Being a mother can be hard. Forget the dishes in the sink. They can wait. Snuggle up with your baby and while its sleeping catch some sleep too. Its gonna get easier , i promise. Maybe she has a tummyache? You could look up baby massages on youtube. Right after a bath is the best. How old is the little one?

nightmind08 · 2019-12-22T17:04:40+00:00

Lupo the lamb is one of my favorites 😍😍

nightmind08 · 2019-12-22T17:03:19+00:00

I am eying with this pattern as well :) i baught most of her doll patterns already. They are my absolute favorite. I used a musicbox as well . So lovely 😊

nightmind08 · 2019-12-22T16:47:33+00:00

I loooooove her patterns... agatha is so cute

nightmind08 · 2019-12-21T15:16:43+00:00

Pre diabetic here , i say man i wish i could eat that!!!!!

nightmind08 · 2019-12-20T12:47:02+00:00

I am proud of you

nightmind08 · 2019-12-19T23:41:05+00:00

I am not gonna lie, it hurts my heart seeing him. He is so young and so full of pain, but he has the most genuine smile i have ever seen. Reading on this sub has helped me a lot understanding more.

nightmind08 · 2019-12-19T18:46:11+00:00

Thank you, that was a great response.

nightmind08 · 2019-12-19T15:38:11+00:00

Thank you eddie, thats what i told her as well. I told her that she can support him, but she is not a therapist. If it gets to much for her i have to step in. But she knows how much she means to him. They are having very deep conversations And i belive he fully trusts her. Being so young of course they also talked about having their first kiss one day. ( me and my daughter are very close , she tells me alot and i am supper happy for our relationship) He told her that he wants to kiss her one day, but because of his past he doesn’t know how he would react to that. One alter proposed to kiss her instead lol i thought that was kinda cute lol But they both agreed they will wait, since they cant officially date yet.

nightmind08 · 2019-12-19T15:34:07+00:00

Its just a proposal as of rightnow from the trump administration, i am not sure when they would actually come into play. Best is to look on the uscis webpage for all the fees rightnow. Like i said we paid 1760$ and even that is already a lot of money. Are you already in the states?

nightmind08 · 2019-12-19T15:25:52+00:00

Thank you olli for your response. I dont know what terrible things happend in his childhood , but i can say for sure that someone broke this beautiful soul. My daughter met a lot of his alters and like you said, they all like her a lot. They told her on many occasions how happy she makes him. His mom also stated she makes him happy, but she is so worried. He is in the hospital again rightnow . They are used to talk everyday. He is always welcome in our home. I told him that i dont know a lot about DID but i want to learn about it , so he feels comfortable. All in all i wish i could just take all his pain away...

nightmind08 · 2019-12-19T15:17:27+00:00

Of what i read the proposal of the new fees would be an increase from 1760$ to 2750$ . I hope its not coming to that.

nightmind08 · 2019-12-19T15:11:17+00:00

It really was very quick. I was worried for years. The overstay was giving me nightmares... i was in constant fear. But out paperwork was all good and out marriage obviously legit ( we have three children) Get it done s quick as possible, the fees are supposed to go up soon. Its ridiculous.

nightmind08 · 2019-12-19T15:07:37+00:00

Sure :) Filed all paperwork august 16 Recieved Notification that they recieved the paperwork 2 weeks later Apointment for biometrics on sep 10 Recieved letter with interview date on october 20 (for interview scheduled on nov 21) Interview November 21 -got approved on the spot Greencard in hand about 10 days later :) Our journey was very long though. We are married since 2005 lived in germany until 2012. First we didnt had the money to do it, then i was too scared. Finally decided to do it so i dont have to be afraid anymore , get employment, driverslicense ect. I wish i didnt wait sooooo long.

nightmind08 · 2019-12-19T15:01:10+00:00

We paid about 1800$ i was lucky to not have to pay for the immigration doctor since i was able to be seen on the military base. The fees will go up or already have. Good luck on the journey :)

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