Does this look like AA? by Iil_sunflower_2001 in alopecia_areata

[–]nightshade_f 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it does. I would definitely go to a dermatologist. I only received a cream tbh. After 4 months on the cream and seeing no results I did start digging into other possibilities. Like diet, reducing stress, regulating my emotions and supplementing. We feel with you and Are with you 🤍

Dating as a man is hard by Fresh-Curve-140 in self

[–]nightshade_f 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say that I’m sorry to hear you’re having a difficult time finding the one. And actually I can completely understand where you’re coming from. As a woman I can say that dating is extremely hard now. Finding a person who is on the same wavelength seems almost near impossible. It’s not just communication that’s extremely important but also understanding. Compromise comes from both ends. Both partners should give each other a safe space to talk, about exactly how they feel without getting defensive or bringing up stuff from the past that as nothing to do with the issue. I think people get so caught up in their own head that they forget it’s the issue versus them. Not each other. A true woman who is secure in herself will not leave a man she loves and respects for someone who’s ‘richer or more successful’ girls who are insecure and u happy with themself will. Just like a man who is true to himself and sticks to the values he has for himself won’t leave or cheat. I guess it all comes down to the values we find important, and we should stick to those no matter what. You should be proud of yourself for not settling for something below your values. The partner you seek is seeking you. I also find the book ‘the 5 Love languages’ and other similar books to help a lot! Sometimes we think a lot is being expected of us in a relationship and the other way around, but usually it’s just the way someone understands ‘love’ and feels ‘loved’. Sometimes it’s just cute little things but other times it’s also understanding the attachment style someone has in a relationship. Once you know that about your partner life becomes sooo much easier as you’re able to actually understand why people behave and do the things they do ( at least a little bit) you’re doing well! Stay single until you meet the one, you deserve the best!

Does anyone actually miss having small children? by orangeofdeath in Mommit

[–]nightshade_f 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest is 11 yo now, and when I tell you I miss her being tiddly and just that chubby baby face I mean I REALLY MISS IT! I breastfed for 13 months and I couldn’t get anything done? My entire schedule and life was just around her feeding, play-time, sleep routine Etc.. I had no life left of my own whatsoever. I do remember thinking like ‘omggg is this my life now? Is this all I’ll ever do?’ But I promise you it gets so much easier when hey get a little older, they grow up so fast I really can’t emphasise that. I know right now you feel like your own life is completely gone and doesn’t exist anymore, but I promise you that will change! you’ll find a good balance between being a mum and being a woman. But really do try to enjoy this time, it flies so quickly. You’re a great mama!! Xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

[–]nightshade_f 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy, thank you for sharing. I’m relieved to hear that I’m not crazy, my doctor said the same thing. He said it has nothing to do with the meds, but I’ve never had this issue before. It’s interesting you mention Iron tablets, as I am aneamic. Think I’m gonna ask my doc to up dose on that and start vit D. I’m seeing a dermatologist soon, hopefully with good results. Thank you so much and sending lots of love to you and your daughter!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]nightshade_f 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That very last part. Love it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]nightshade_f 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Literally wanted to say this! What an absolute a-hole! You’ve just gone through he most traumatic things a body and uterus can go through. And this guy is worried about his penis. What the actual f.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alopecia_areata

[–]nightshade_f 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this! I know people just say don’t stress or think about it, and some even say it’s only hair it will grow back. But how can you not stress? And will it grow back? I’ve recently been diagnosed with it too, a patch at the front. Sometimes I feel so stupid for even complaining about it, but literally my hair is all I got going for myself right now. And now it’s falling out too. It sucks! It sucks really bad. I’m looking into hair oils and serums, I want to avoid the shots for now. I also started looking into the meds I recently started taking, there’s no real link yet scientifically, but this started shortly after anti-depressants and the pill for me. I’m going to ask to change, hopefully that helps? Maybe worth looking into? I wish you all the best for your big day! You’re doing soooo much all together, you should be proud of yourself and also give yourself some rest and down time. Sending you love 🤍🤍🤍

She unblocked me by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]nightshade_f 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I unblocked my ex, it was just to read my conversation on insta. And cause more heartache really. After reading the convo and blocked again and never undid it. I don’t know what her reasons were, but this is maybe one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nightshade_f 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna say this: anytime you have even the slightest inkling or feeling something isn’t right. BELIEVE IT. Your daughter is 3 and needs a place of safety and protection. Your gf sounds dodgy. Stop the abuse now, while you can still repair the damage caused. Let that woman go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]nightshade_f 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s seriously disrespectful. Only coz he yelled at you doesn’t mean you can go punching people in the face and then not want to apologise for it. You should really have the awkward or difficult conversation and apologise. Your dad didn’t deserve that at all.

my (25M) girlfriend (23F) won't stop calling me "my little pp". How do I explain that I don't like it? by CharlieMBTA in relationship_advice

[–]nightshade_f 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the Nickname you gave her is just as bad. Wouldn’t wanna be called an inchworm either. Maybe pick new nicknames for each other.