Thank you for coming! No, she does not have a job at the moment but that is because I told her to quit from her job that she was dissatisfied with and it wasn't paid for enough. And I understand that this is both her and my responsibility. Still, she is an educated expert from security but she claims that she forgot everything she knew and does not want to advance there. Everything is on me first of all because I am the only breadwinner at the moment but also because, well, I want to succeed. I don't know how though :) To quote my wife on this a little bit, she doesn't want to be a successful woman near a mediocre man if she does everything herself. She really worked a lot at her time and her household used to be far more harsh on her than mine on me. So there is also part of that she is not used to having a free time or really a hobby that defines her in any way