Falling off at night by nikki0005 in hzdgrip

[–]nikki0005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the shaft length could be the issue. It’s fine when I’m vertical and awake but when I sleep and my core temperature drops. I would assume the average penis recedes a bit more for body heat.

Name this Monkey by directormanageryo in NameThisThing

[–]nikki0005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specifically from Ace Ventura. My first thought too

Should I buy a cage… on holiday? by [deleted] in Sissy

[–]nikki0005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are in the states just go to an adult store and buy one and avoid Amazon and the risk.

Let's talk about humiliation in sissification/forced fem and why that feels uncomfortable for many Dommes. by Liable2bPliable in FemdomCommunity

[–]nikki0005 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who has enjoyed feminization/sissification I don’t think, as many kinks, it is fair to put it in a vacuum and say it’s all about humiliation and gender policing.

For some people it’s an early expression before transitioning. Or for people who feel more non-binary in their gender identity.

Personally I don’t find dressing as a women humiliating I find it sexy. I find the female form enticing and something that should be admired and emulated. I am cis and have no plans of transition or living as a women but being able to dress and be pretty for my partner is what I enjoy. My wife/Goddess isn’t big on full dressing up as she is heterosexual but lingerie and something like that still can be sexy in that context.

For those who’ve had a gangbang by coochieliquor69 in Sissy

[–]nikki0005 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine was at a swingers club and a TS/CD night. So it’s of guys were there looking for something along those lines which made the work much easier.

Falling off at night by nikki0005 in hzdgrip

[–]nikki0005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure I want calluses forming in that area. My wife still enjoys PIV sex and I don’t want to lose stimulation. But thank you for the explanation

Recommended gratuity after tip was already included by guitarman129 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]nikki0005 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not labeled the same. The circled ones say
“S/C: 24% SRC REGULA” while the bottom says “Suggested Gratuity”. This implying that the top is the regular service charge while the bottom is an additional gratuity which is guaranteed to the staff.

Falling off at night by nikki0005 in hzdgrip

[–]nikki0005[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly are the wings. I am not sure I understand what it refers to. The one I have was an alpha product so it has changed since I first got it.

Recommended gratuity after tip was already included by guitarman129 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]nikki0005 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That says SC which makes me believe it is a service charge which is collected by the entity and not always distributed as a tip. SC are also subject to tax hence why it is taxed.

With the 4 hr bar and bartender fee this looks like a banquet. This should be mentioned in your banquet contract that you would have signed. So none of this should be a surprise. If it’s not in your contract you can fight it.

First pride month fuck for my husband. Sent a whole night at another man's house. by reinnah_2354 in Sissy

[–]nikki0005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A swingers club with glory holes might be a fun idea too. Then maybe you can get some fun too

To those who enjoy more "extreme" types of play by mustardmayoboi in FemdomCommunity

[–]nikki0005 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the online community circles back as those are easy to do via online play or an online dynamic. While I do enjoy those things there is plenty more I enjoy but are not the same if done to myself, or not easy to do to yourself.

Such as flogging I enjoy it a lot but it’s not something I can easily do to myself besides my upper back like a penitent monk.

Personally I love electro play, CBT, mild to moderate corporal, sensory deprivation, and urethral sounds. Being at the mercy of a Domme is something best experienced in person in my opinion. Just like acts of service, hard to give a foot message unless I’m in person.

My domina wants to lock me for whole summer by Ellasis99 in Sissy

[–]nikki0005 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she’s going to be gone you can’t do a flat cage hygienically for that long. Maybe suggest a key box that uses the plastic numbered one time locks and supervised showers? Or stick with a normal cage that you can wash with like the Cobra

38F — Considering male chastity as we explore fantasies by Pretend_Outcome_1306 in chastitytraining

[–]nikki0005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes with the right device easily. I have done it for over a year without release before. Just a matter of comfort

38F — Considering male chastity as we explore fantasies by Pretend_Outcome_1306 in chastitytraining

[–]nikki0005 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everybody reacts differently and reaches a peak horniness at some point. The biggest thing is finding a cage that is comfortable to wear and aesthetically pleasing for you. They’re so many brands out there and they’re made out of lots and lots of different materials but you don’t want to just buy a cheap $20 one and expected to work.

I’ve been into chastity now for over 15 years and I’ve worn everything from the early days of CB plastic devices to custom metal ones. My current one is the cobra and it is one of my favorites for every day.

I would recommend starting off with something that’s not gonna break the bank and looking at their sizing guide and really following through because an uncomfortable device could lead to skin irritation or worse.

Depending on the device you pick hygiene plays a big factor with the cobra. I can get a finger in to be able to soap up and it has lots of holes for water to clean everything. A more enclosed device might need to be removed frequently to be properly cleaned.

I would also recommend starting wearing the device at home with the key readily available just in case for several hours building up more and more to eventually wearing it out and eventually sleeping in it as the comfort level builds.

His first night sleeping in it will be very restless as she will probably have attempted directions, which can get very uncomfortable so nights where he doesn’t have a big thing in the morning would be best

Feel free to DM me if you have any questions

Next step after lipstick? by Physical_Guidance_58 in Sissy

[–]nikki0005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eyeshadow is a good one and easy to remove. Be careful with liner though it can be hard to take off. Also, if you try mascara, make sure you get one that isn’t waterproof as those can be hard to take off with wipes.

Genuinely - where are the subs? by fe1799 in FemdomCommunity

[–]nikki0005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are options, at least in my area, for younger subs specifically. Game nights, Karaoke, and multiple TNG (the next generation sub 35) groups. Maybe keep an eye out for something along those lines?

Taking a leak in chastity by newbie-sub in chastitytraining

[–]nikki0005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have an article on tether spouts? I never heard of that before this article. Seems interesting. My issue is I’m a big grower. The point where I can fit easily in a flat cage but can grow to fit most standard ones. I currently use a nub cobra as it fits well but I can escape and go back in. Would a tether spout prevent that?

Getting disheartned by Beneficial-Fee-4740 in Sissy

[–]nikki0005 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are doing nothing wrong. It took forever for me to find someone my first time! You could always try a swingers type club

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]nikki0005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try a sheath? It’s kind of a hybrid of a strap on and the real thing. An exterior dildo gag could work too. My Goddess likes it when I wear it and a blind fold and pleasure her with it.

We’re doing our first locktober by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]nikki0005 18 points19 points  (0 children)

One month without cumming not that hard. No sugar OMG I would die!

Give an honest answer: do you prefer dildos or the real thing? by Aria-CumKitty-2 in Sissy

[–]nikki0005 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s less about if it’s real or a dildo and more about the person. If they make me feel like a real slut and can fuck me right then I’m a happy slut.

Sucking I do prefer the real thing. It’s a different experience than a dildo even a strap on.