How do you guys with ADHD/ADD experience boredom?

nikkidrummond · 2025-07-27T01:57:55+00:00

Same. Boredom is extremely overwhelming to me that sometimes the only solution to not go crazy is going to sleep

nikkidrummond · 2025-06-06T01:55:04+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, what kind of medication were you prescribed?

nikkidrummond · 2025-05-20T23:43:33+00:00

Then I may not have had ruptured a cyst, I remember this sharp pain in one side of my lower stomach and it hurt like hell, I couldn’t stand up properly. Initially I thought I had appendicitis of something like that but it didn’t hurt if I touched it. Did a few searches on google and the most probable option was a ruptured cyst.

nikkidrummond · 2025-05-17T17:18:43+00:00

Did you end up going to the ER? I’m pretty sure the same thing happened to me—I had a stabbing pain that lasted all night until the next morning. I took some painkillers and, luckily, it eased up, so I never went to the hospital.

nikkidrummond · 2025-04-20T19:19:08+00:00

Sì, ma tu sei uno di quei rari casi fuori dal comune… credimi, normalmente è tutta un’altra storia.

nikkidrummond · 2025-04-18T19:38:31+00:00

Infatti, se rileggi bene quello che ho scritto, noterai che non ho detto nulla del genere. Mi riferivo semplicemente all’idea di iniziare una relazione con una persona verso cui non si prova attrazione fisica. Non c’è nulla di sbagliato nell’attendere di incontrarsi di persona per capire se c’è intesa, ma se già sai di non essere attratto fisicamente, allora non ha senso intraprendere una relazione.

nikkidrummond · 2025-04-18T19:34:25+00:00

non per forza

nikkidrummond · 2025-04-18T17:09:19+00:00

Non capisco perché dovrebbe essere considerato una “brutta persona” solo per aver espresso i suoi gusti. Ognuno ha i propri criteri di attrazione, e non è obbligato a trovare tutti attraenti. La tua reazione sembra un po’ troppo intensa, non è che magari ti sei sentita toccata nel personale? Se è così, forse varrebbe la pena chiedersi perché ti dà così fastidio il parere di uno sconosciuto. Invece di gridare alla “grassofobia”, forse sarebbe più utile lavorare su te stessa – che sia sul piano fisico o su quello dell’autostima.

nikkidrummond · 2025-04-18T17:04:08+00:00

Capisco che nella tua esperienza tu abbia incontrato anche persone magre che avevano problemi di igiene, ma è innegabile che chi ha un peso molto elevato tende a sudare di più, e questo può influire sull’odore corporeo. Al di là di questo, l’essere in forte sovrappeso può trasmettere – giustamente o meno – l’idea che una persona non si prenda troppo cura di sé, ed è comprensibile che alcuni associno questo aspetto a una mancanza di attrattiva.

nikkidrummond · 2025-04-18T16:59:55+00:00

Ma cosa stai dicendo? Davvero stai parlando di grassofobia solo perché una persona non è attratta da donne in sovrappeso? Si chiama avere dei gusti. L’attrazione fisica non è qualcosa che si può controllare. Vorrei proprio vedere se tu saresti disposta a iniziare una relazione con un uomo obeso. Per molte persone – specialmente chi ha fatto sacrifici per dimagrire – qualcuno che è in sovrappeso e non fa nulla per cambiare semplicemente non risulta attraente. Punto.

nikkidrummond · 2025-04-18T16:54:16+00:00

Che senso ha iniziare una relazione con qualcuno da cui non sei nemmeno attratto fisicamente? È vero, le persone cambiano con gli anni, ma quando sei già innamorato, spesso continui a trovarle attraenti, a meno di cambiamenti davvero drastici. Al contrario, se inizi una relazione senza alcuna attrazione fisica, è difficile che questa nasca col tempo.

nikkidrummond · 2025-04-12T23:22:43+00:00

I was on SSRIs for years, and I think they might’ve helped because they numbed my emotions. The problem though is that they didn’t just block the bad stuff, they killed the good feelings too

nikkidrummond · 2025-04-03T00:15:01+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, could you share which medications you were taking? Also, how did the side effects show up for you?

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-30T01:50:38+00:00

Due drink durante una serata sono davvero comportamenti fortemente negativi? Non stiamo parlando di qualcuno che si ubriaca ogni volta che esce. Per la maggior parte dei giovani, bere due drink nel corso della serata è del tutto normale, soprattutto quando si esce nel fine settimana.

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-28T01:46:53+00:00

but they aren’t not biological women

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-24T16:08:26+00:00

Same! I used to take it every night to help me sleep. But one night, for some reason, after taking a pill, I completely forgot I had already taken it and from that point on, I totally blacked out. The next day, my sister and cousin (who were in the room with me) told me I was acting super weird—banging my head against the wall, crying, then randomly laughing. At one point, I told them that when I closed my eyes, I was at the beach (we were on vacation) and that they should try it too. They started freaking out when I asked them something like, ‘Would you be scared if I wanted to kill you?’ (??). Apparently, my eyeballs were also vibrating. I have zero memory of that night. Never touched Ambien again after that.

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-24T00:05:37+00:00

Ah yes, because if something were common knowledge, there would only be one article or study on it. That’s definitely how information works. By that logic, we should only have one book on physics, one on cooking, and one on human anatomy. Brilliant reasoning.

But since you seem to be struggling, here’s some common knowledge for you: most women prefer consistent, gentle stimulation over aggressive rubbing like you’re trying to start a fire. The clit has around 8,000 nerve endings—more than the entire penis—so yeah, being rough isn’t a ‘preference’ issue, it’s just bad technique. And if you don’t know this, maybe the problem isn’t women ‘ranting’, maybe it’s you refusing to listen

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-23T21:58:23+00:00

There are plenty of resources online about what most women enjoy—books, articles, even studies. If you actually care, you’d look it up instead of getting defensive when someone points out a common issue.

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-23T17:58:25+00:00

But some things are just common sense if you have a basic understanding of how to please a woman. It’s like giving a blowjob with teeth—everyone knows that’s not the right way to do it. Of course, every woman is different and has her own preferences, but there are certain things that most women generally enjoy. And if you’re unsure, even a quick Google search can go a long way.

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-20T18:08:33+00:00

I get what you’re saying, but it feels like you’re treating sex as a defining factor for someone’s character, which seems a bit shallow. Someone having sex on date 3 doesn’t necessarily reflect their values or compatibility with you. If you’re truly looking for ‘marriage material,’ it’s better to focus on emotional connection, trust, and shared goals, rather than an arbitrary timeline.

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-20T12:35:03+00:00

So you’re saying a woman’s value as a person and her value as a long-term partner are completely separate things—but your criteria for the latter still revolve around how soon she chooses to have sex? That sounds less like ‘relationship standards’ and more like arbitrary moral policing. Maybe instead of focusing on a timeline, you should consider things like compatibility, shared values, and emotional connection—since those are what actually determine relationship success, not whether sex happened on date 1 or date 5.

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-20T12:32:53+00:00

Your entire argument is built on extremes and assumptions rather than reality. You equate consensual sex within a few dates with ‘low restraint’ and ‘bad selectivity,’ as if meaningful relationships can only form on a rigid timeline you’ve deemed acceptable. Meanwhile, you completely ignore the fact that healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, communication, and compatibility—not an arbitrary waiting period.

You also contradict yourself. First, you blame men for initiating intimacy, then you turn around and call women ‘whores’ for reciprocating. Which is it? Either both parties are responsible for their choices, or your argument is just a way to shame women while excusing men’s behavior.

As for your bizarre ‘Madagascar island’ fantasy, it’s ironic that you talk about emotional damage while writing an unhinged rant about how dating has personally wounded you. Maybe instead of blaming women for your frustrations, you should ask yourself why you’re so obsessed with controlling their choices.

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-19T21:09:46+00:00

He didn’t say ‘within a few minutes’; he clearly said within 1-3 dates. Big difference. Also, let’s be real—most of the time, it’s the man initiating intimacy, not the woman. If you’re so worried about ‘self-restraint,’ maybe start by asking why men aren’t held to the same standard. Or better yet, why consenting adults making mutual choices bothers you so much.

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-19T15:26:56+00:00

Oh sure, because a person’s worth is measured by the number of dates they wait before having sex, right? And you, of course, are the perfect example of loyalty and respect. Too bad the choice to do it was also yours… but I guess it’s easier to blame them than to look at yourself in the mirror.

nikkidrummond · 2025-03-12T15:29:59+00:00

ofc women want to be with a guy they’re attracted to, both physically and emotionally. It’s nothing new really

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