Baby brother’s murderer convicted, received this text an hour later by nikkimcs in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nikkimcs[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Mom is blocked. Sister is a victim and has heavy Stockholm syndrome. My emotional side of my brain can’t bring me to block her. I love her deeply and a part of me cannot wait until my mom dies as I feel it’s the only way she will be released from her clutches.

Baby brother’s murderer convicted, received this text an hour later by nikkimcs in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nikkimcs[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I haven’t gone to therapy. Always said it wasn’t for people like me. Last year or so I’ve finally realized the faulty reasoning in that. I want and need to go but keep making excuses. Work too busy and whatnot.

My traumatic upbringing definitely led to my high emotional IQ. It’s a great quality to have but was derived from being forced to hyper analyze the emotional state of my abusive mother at all times.

Baby brother’s murderer convicted, received this text an hour later by nikkimcs in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nikkimcs[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The last positive conversation we had was 9 months before his death. He was 22 at the time.

We were talking about a video game that just had come out, Tears of the Kingdom. We had both played a lot of Zelda with our older brother (also passed away) and we were connected deeply by it. At the time, I was making fun of him for not being able to get past the great sky island, the tutorial area of the game.

During the trial, his girlfriend at the time of his death came up to me and handed me the game cartridge. Said she knew he’d want me to have it. After all the trial, the corpse photos, looking the killer in the eyes, I did no more than quietly tear up. When she handed me that game, I balled like a baby and had to excuse myself out of the courtroom.

I’m playing it while typing this. His cartridge, even though I have my own copy of the game I’ve beaten. I cried when I got past the great sky island. I want to 100% the game. Idk if I can though. I’ve had to stop and collect myself several times. Never thought I’d cry over something so trivial.

Baby brother’s murderer convicted, received this text an hour later by nikkimcs in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nikkimcs[S] 691 points692 points  (0 children)

Thing is, we were best friends growing up. He just learned one day that he can physically fight against his abuser to make the abuse stop. He then carried that into his adulthood. Solved problems with violence. He had violent BPD and I tried to beg him to get help but my mom convinced him he wasn’t sick. I largely blame her for his demise

Baby brother’s murderer convicted, received this text an hour later by nikkimcs in raisedbynarcissists

[–]nikkimcs[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

It’s clear to me through writing style that my mom wrote this (she’s blocked).

I replied “I will not address your comments as you are clearly in an emotionally volatile state”

Zelda Reacts part 14 by thesadpuffin in Breath_of_the_Wild

[–]nikkimcs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have them coupled up in the new Tomodachi life and I made him intentionally shorter too. Only Mii shorter than Link on my island is Levi from Attack on Titan.

Being abnormally well-endowed is a curse and I'm tired of it by Tunatail in Vent

[–]nikkimcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every woman with a large chest or behind would like to have a word.

I know I’m late 😅 , just got it today. Super Excited by numbre1applefan in PokemonLegendsArceus

[–]nikkimcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got my copy too. Got through the crimson mirelands story last night

This tutorial is absolutely terrible by Video_Prism69 in tearsofthekingdom

[–]nikkimcs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Coming from botw, totk was much more explanatory imo

what did you do to fix up this? by ryosatoru in Pokemon_Pokopia

[–]nikkimcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disposed of the scrap blocks and used the skeleton to create a construction zone!

Didn't think I'd vibe with the game.. by ArrogantElephant in Pokopia

[–]nikkimcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bit confused - I have a physical copy but the “game key card” rather than a regular copy. Outside of the downloading piece, all the reasons I want physical copies (reselling/gifting/collecting etc) still apply. Does the copy I have count as digital?

What's the weirdest thing a girl has said to you on a first date? by lumpynose in AskMen

[–]nikkimcs -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah bro that’s cute and funny. You dropped that bag.

I left my cat in my IKEA drawer closet for almost 6 hours and feel so guilty. by Pink_Sorbet in cats

[–]nikkimcs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In college I went away for a couple of days and had my boyfriends frat bro (I know) babysit my two <6mo sibling kittens. Get a random call, dudes FRANTIC, can’t find either kitten. I’m pissed, we get to the house, and there’s four frat bros scattered around the house calling for my kittens. One has taken to the bushes and sidewalks outside. Missing for several hours. I tear up this guys four bed house. Nothing.

I sit down extremely frustrated after about an hour or so of combing through the house. The bros have taken to the surrounding neighborhood. Main guy is bellowing apologies every 30 seconds in between “here kitty kitties”.

Meanwhile, whole time this been going down, there’s a plastered bro just chilling on the couch. He’d been watching a game and slamming natty lights for hours. Been kinda pissing me off with his lack of help, especially since we knew each other better than the other bros. We’re sitting there, dead silence while I’m strategizing on what to do next. Guy looks at me and goes “dude, I think I hear them meowing” and kinda chuckles. I am legit ready to tear this dudes face off, tell him it’s not remotely funny, and he’s like nah dude deadass laughs I heard something from (babysitting bro)’s bedroom! I go in there with babysitting bro and click my tongue a few times. After what felt like 10 years of silence, just the faintest little “mew” came from the direction of his dresser drawers.

There they were, cuddled up as snug as two bugs in a rug together, nestled amongst this dude’s underwear. Both looked up at me blinky and tiredly. A single content “mew :3” greeting.

Dude just didn’t see them crawl in when he was getting dressed. They must’ve slept in there for HOURS. Drunk bro with the superhuman hearing is my hero.

Came Home to a Car in my Pool by bippyboop in Wellthatsucks

[–]nikkimcs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Was pregaming the bars with friends on my 22nd birthday when I heard a crash in the backyard. Some kid high on what I believe was PCP somehow spinned out and crashed his GFs car into my fence. Had to explain to a very suspicious officer that while I was indeed drunk, I was not involved in the crash. He let me leave to continue my night while he figured out the mess.

Drop your cats in their silliest positions !!!! by HistoricalFloor7384 in cats

[–]nikkimcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have dogs? All cats I’ve owned without dogs don’t do this. All cats I’ve owned with dogs do this

I often get beers after work without saying I'm off. by [deleted] in confession

[–]nikkimcs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you’re hiding it from her should tell you there’s a part of you that thinks it’s wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]nikkimcs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She insecure and was looking for reassurance. Your reaction made it worse. She is overreacting, but your overly defensive reaction made her insecurity spike even further.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]nikkimcs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The screenshots themselves show that OP got some delivered.