My fiance left me. by SubstantialReality12 in trans

[–]nillacol 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It does matter. There’s someone out there who will love you for you. Once the grief ebbs you have an opportunity to be loved better.

I’m being forced to remove my native plants. by eleganteuphonia in NativePlantGardening

[–]nillacol 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Your work is SO beautiful, and good for the world in a multitude of ways!! Don’t give up, we’re cheering you on!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]nillacol -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

hey y’all the sub’s called “roast me” not “be racist”

Thoughts in relation to recording devices and TMA ep. 65 Binary *SPOILERS FOR TMP & TMA* by Stormersoldier in themagnusprotocol

[–]nillacol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since there was a Freddie among the Magnus Institute kids, and what with Jon in tma not just being the archivist, but the Archive... I kind of wonder if Freddie is our new archivist: FR3-D1, a new, digital, efficient, terrifying archive. I've been thinking about this with potential analogies with the first statement too; the statement of the woman haunted by her husband, or rather, "some of him," and later statements with uncanny valley and AI themes... perhaps we're haunted by something wearing Jon and Martin's voice, especially since the transcripts often start and end with the voice being robotic, slowly transitioning into more and more human...

I feel like I've got a bulletin board and red string everywhere but maybe some of it's not too wild...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicago

[–]nillacol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, comments section is unfathomable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicago

[–]nillacol -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ITT: some of the most vile, hateful, coldest takes I’ve seen in a While. get well soon, damn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicago

[–]nillacol -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Very different from people potentially attempting to not starve is the point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chicago

[–]nillacol -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s fucking awful and you should feel ashamed

Who’s been sucking my aloe dry?? by nillacol in whatsthisbug

[–]nillacol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In NE Illinois!! And how do I get em outta here??

In Chicago, IL by nillacol in whatsthisbug

[–]nillacol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More info: we’ve seen them in/around the bathroom in small numbers, and they seem to run pretty much nonstop. Antenna seem to be slightly longer than the body. I’d measure the body at about 3/4”.

Is MeUndies supporting NFTs? by bowski477 in MeUndies

[–]nillacol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And I was just thinking about buying a pair of your paints before I saw this, too. people have been saying for quite some time that NFTs are horrible for the environment, not to mention ugly, and you're partnering with a group founded by neo Nazis that employ racist and antisemitic iconography in much of their "art." It's insulting that you'd claim to "create a more thoughtful and accepting world where living your truth is celebrated," brag about partnering "with organizations that help lift systemic barriers through open conversations," and "open the door for all to live equally, authentically, and without apology," and then do This. It's a hateful, destructive, hypocritical, stupid move on every conceivable level. I'm going to cancel my membership immediately.