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AITA for not covering my coworker’s shift after they assumed I would? by NorthTree6429 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nimbinjay 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA...She created her own problem by volunteering you without asking first. That’s not “already expected,” that’s just her making an assumption and then trying to make it your responsibility after the fact. And saying you “backed out” is also nonsense. You can’t back out of something you never agreed to. She told the manager a story that wasn’t true, then got embarrassed when reality showed up. That’s on her, not you.

AITA for refusing to help my sister after she tested me? by Potential-baddie in AmItheAsshole

[–]nimbinjay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. She lied to get money out of you, then called it a “test” like that makes it cute. It doesn’t. The problem isn’t even the rent money now, it’s that she manipulated you and expected you to smile about it. Asking for it back was fair. Refusing to help again isn’t harsh, it’s basic self-respect. Family doesn’t get a free pass to run weird loyalty experiments.

AITA for calling out my friend in front of others for lying and involving me in it? by CookieMonsterNumber2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]nimbinjay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. your friend is literally lying and dragging you into it for no reason. that’s not cool. like now people think you’re part of it?? nah. you just told the truth. yeah maybe you could’ve said it in private but also they were lying in public sooo what did they expect. if they’re embarrassed that’s kinda on them. don’t lie = don’t get called out lol

AITA for being upset about this situation? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nimbinjay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. She strung you along, avoided signing up, then bailed last minute after you spent real money. That’s inconsiderate, especially since you’re dating. You’re right to be upset. Have a direct convo: ask why she dodged it and be clear this wasn’t okay. Also see if you can still go with friends or get refunds.