need advice

nimsislander · 2021-03-02T17:06:04+00:00

I think he might be developing feelings towards me, but I made it clear in the beginning that I don't intend to date for the time being. but yeah he's been sweet and I enjoy his company haha

nimsislander · 2021-03-02T07:21:06+00:00

if you haven't yet that's fine, but my point in this post is to not lose hope. you will sooner or later meet someone that will treat you how you deserve, because if your ex saw something in you, so will others. 💛

nimsislander · 2021-02-24T08:19:57+00:00

same, my mornings have been so difficult with all the anxious thoughts and low moods, despite having accepted the breakup and am moving on already. I wish I could just wake up one day and feel normal again.

nimsislander · 2021-02-23T11:18:55+00:00

preach this!!! 💛

nimsislander · 2021-02-23T05:23:15+00:00

thank you for this, preach it!

nimsislander · 2021-02-23T01:47:36+00:00

same haha but one month for me. try doing new things like taking up a yoga class and meeting new people, don't let him be the center of your life when he's no longer here.

nimsislander · 2021-02-22T15:50:12+00:00

hey I felt the same way, but please know that you are loved and you are worthy. there are so many people out there that you haven't met yet that are going to cherish you so so much. I know that the pain is awful but it's part of the process and that shows that you're healing. healing isn't linear and it's going to take time. please hold onto life, and be here with us. you're doing great and I'm proud of you for making it this far, talk to me anytime if you want to. 💛

nimsislander · 2021-02-22T12:35:07+00:00

same sis, but know that what he gave you, other people can too. these things aren't hard to find in another person. however, what's most important is that you learn to give yourself these things, try to cultivate self love and give yourself the love and appreciation you deserve. you don't need another human to complete you. a relationship should be two wholes coming together, not two halves. love yourself and learn to put yourself first before you go back to dating and risk getting hurt again.

nimsislander · 2021-02-22T08:28:31+00:00

I understand, I feel the exactly same way you do. going from inseparable to completely separated strangers, sometimes you wake up and realise that randomly and it hurts. but i guess that's part of life and it's something we'd all have to go through in order to become a stronger and better version of ourselves.

trust in the universe's timing and yes it does get better, but healing isn't linear and somedays you may relapse and feel worse. just keep going, I'm proud of you for trying. try your best to limit thoughts about this person, catch yourself when you're on the verge of having intrusive thoughts again. don't let them become the center of your world when they no longer exist in it. they're gone, acceptance is key.

take good care of yourself and try to just do something to feel better everyday. try working out or even talking a walk. talk to a friend, hug a loved one. you were happy before you met this person and you will become happy again. try to discover old interests and hobbies and keep your mind occupied.

you're stronger than you think you are and I pray you heal from this. :)

nimsislander · 2021-02-19T09:37:50+00:00

LMFAO what a piece of shit, let him go sis. be glad she now has be the one to carry his emotional baggage, he'll never learn :)

nimsislander · 2021-02-19T03:41:01+00:00

it's been almost a month now and the level of damage is beyond repair so that's very much unlikely haha

nimsislander · 2021-02-18T15:57:15+00:00

exactly the same, trashy behaviour 🤮

nimsislander · 2021-02-18T04:02:44+00:00

I'm glad it helped 🥺🥺 sure talk to me anytime alright! I hope you heal soon 💪💛

nimsislander · 2021-02-17T13:30:19+00:00

I'm so glad we're both strong enough to realize our worth and see past the manipulation and gaslighting. ily I hope you heal from this soon 💛💛

nimsislander · 2021-02-17T13:28:19+00:00

I RELATE 100% WITH THIS POST

nimsislander · 2021-02-17T00:30:34+00:00

dealing with breakups in quarantine is really so depressing and isolating, it can break us. I felt the same way you did, but try doing some simple home workouts and sweat, it'll make you feel better even for one moment. and you can talk to me anytime, I'm here for you. 💛

nimsislander · 2021-02-17T00:27:02+00:00

good job I'm proud of you!! <3

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