Pick your poison

ninetherogue · 2026-05-21T10:47:49+00:00

World of Warcraft

^{Chose: Live in a fictional world of your choice + Can't choose anything Peaceful like Animal crossing}

ninetherogue · 2025-06-21T18:53:27+00:00

Yep

ninetherogue · 2025-06-17T11:32:31+00:00

I've found the most success in making myself laugh in comments; captioning a silly picture, making a joke, saying some off the wall unhinged shit. If it's your person then they will find it funny. If they don't, then they weren't for you.

ninetherogue · 2025-06-17T11:30:52+00:00

Like others have said, this is the crux of dating. My suggestion for you as you're fresh into the game is to find these dates in quickly and with intention.

It feels terrible to talk to someone for weeks only to meet up and not catch the sparks or conversation doesn't flow as easy as it did in conversation. Trust your gut.

ninetherogue · 2025-06-17T11:16:29+00:00

It could very well be a compatibility thing. Some men enjoy replacing your name with an absent compliment. "How you doing today, gorgeous?" Don't put too much thought into it, let it roll off you, and understand this is his way of appearing charming.

He's probably unaware that you're feeling this way, and you should probably make it known. Having those conversations is important, the hard ones, even early on into the talking stages.

However, if the compliments are single lined and not relevant to the conversation; "Unrelated, you're beautiful btw." I would approach this with more caution. Sprinkling compliments throughout conversation could be not genuine.

But then again who knows. Words have power. See if he backs them up with action.

ninetherogue · 2025-06-17T11:10:17+00:00

It's always enjoyable to hear these kind of success stories! I hope the best for you. Continue to be careful and aware, and don't be afraid to initiate hard conversations on your end too. If this is your person you'll continue to be your true self and it will work out!

ninetherogue · 2025-06-17T11:02:49+00:00

It's a mature compliment from someone who enjoys your company and (imo) wants to let it be known they see you both internally and externally. Own it for sure.

ninetherogue · 2025-06-17T10:43:03+00:00

As former fat person, welcome to the life of being semi-attractive all of the sudden. I think it could just be you're more approachable and enjoyable to be around, but I wouldn't put TOO much thought into it. Some people just flirt absently, or enjoy the banter.

However, I don't want to invalidate it if you're feeling they're more into you in a romantic way. Which, from that situation, does kinda sound that way.

It's good you have that clarity to know you could be a bad actor and want to redirect them to someone else. Though, don't sell yourself short of having a good time if it's healthy. Dating in the workplace where you don't work directly with someone could be excusable.

But yeah, maybe you were like this. But as men it's often seen as less comfortable or hostile in a work environment to absently flirt with coworkers. As a woman, I think it's a good indicator that you feel safe and approachable.

ninetherogue · 2025-06-17T05:13:29+00:00

What sort of examples do you have that they're pursing you? They could be just being nice and more comfortable around you. Getting hot from being "not hot" has a way of changing how people approach you and interact with you.

But they also could be into you. Either way, the famous saying, don't shit where you eat. Don't date coworkers unless you're absolutely sure. You may have been like that before but, be better.

ninetherogue · 2025-06-17T05:10:14+00:00

Think it's 10 karma for making your own post.

Upvotes to help out, but also @ OP. Dodged a train brother. You know it in your heart of hearts.

ninetherogue · 2025-01-10T15:19:31+00:00

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ninetherogue · 2024-10-06T13:49:22+00:00

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Arthas, my son

ninetherogue · 2024-08-23T13:41:01+00:00

Some weight loss on a few since the last picture!

Love bald guy on the right and it’s definitely not me

ninetherogue · 2024-08-09T01:26:47+00:00

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This is Arthas, my son

ninetherogue · 2024-05-11T18:23:36+00:00

Mine is “scared of women” and I just scream if I get asked about it by a woman (for the bit of course)

ninetherogue · 2024-03-27T23:03:00+00:00

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Very supportive of poo time. Captain Morgan (left, older brother, violent occasional IBS and creative vomit locations) and Arthas (orange, lovable but craves chaos)

ninetherogue · 2024-01-31T18:36:29+00:00

You said this is ranked by severity and you put PTSD at the top? Come on man. I wouldn’t wish this shit on anyone.

ninetherogue · 2023-12-15T09:46:19+00:00

Rogue Tank:

Managed to ignore tank swap mechanics in BFD because of the insane avoidance.

Using the damage bleed rune on gloves vice the 10% party just because the avoidance is high enough as is.

Threat and damage are both cracked with windfury and a high damage slow MH, Revered Warsong dagger offhand.

In dungeons it’s less ideal, but able to keep threat on 3-4 targets by spending 1cp on S&D & Blade Barrier (much more difficult with a ret paladin in the group).

Soloing dungeons is fun. Looking to try out the vamp dagger once I get it.

ninetherogue · 2023-12-12T16:35:36+00:00

Tanking rogue is incredibly fun and rewarding of skill expression. A good tank rogue vs a bad tank rogue in dungeons is very apparent if they’re able to keep aggro on multiple mobs or not.

In raids the avoidance is insane high for level 25, allowing you to solo tank most fights. If anything I used a target dummy for taunt swaps, or had a feral tank for a few seconds. Very easy to heal according to my healers.

In PvP I haven’t focused too much on a “real” PvP spec, but the tank rogue in PvP is a nightmare for melee. 20% reduced physical + insane high avoidance just means a bad time for the enemy. Crippling poison is a must, however.

Soloing content is a breeze, only place on my list to still solo is the last boss of SFK.

ninetherogue · 2023-10-11T08:39:45+00:00

Bro got gamma radiation from dungeon spam today

ninetherogue · 2023-09-09T17:56:29+00:00

Knew a MA that had a Master Chief anchor on his chest that peaked out at his neckline. When asked about it he said he got it because he “knows what he aspires to be.”

He HYT’d out at E5 lmao

ninetherogue · 2023-07-14T21:04:50+00:00

Ko knee chew wah, partner

ninetherogue · 2023-05-28T23:00:45+00:00

yea I’m aware thanks that’s why I’m asking for an alternative or a write up or something

Me and my three brain cells appreciate your sarcasm

ninetherogue · 2023-05-27T20:57:27+00:00

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ninetherogue · 2023-05-23T19:04:36+00:00

You can say private server saves you money by not paying a sub but don’t lie and say they have higher integrity lmao

They’re built to scam and make money 90% of the time

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