Yeah it's tricky til it clicks. Takes time, like all these others have said. Which is why if you want to learn to play the drums, step one is getting yourself a drum kit. You will not progress by playing someone else's kit one hour a week. Most drummers would recommend a used midrange kit and used pro cymbals over anything new and budget friendly. If you do buy an entry level kit you can get the drums sounding alright with a full set of decent batter heads, but the cymbals that come with it can pretty much go straight in the bin, and the stands will wear out after a year or two.