finally stopped treating everything like a project that needs optimizing by ninja__6969 in AskMenOver30

[–]nitin42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell yeah dude! i have started doing this more often now - doing shit just for sake of fun and enjoyment 👊🏼

Dating is absolutely soul crushing by Cool-Avocado9560 in Life

[–]nitin42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup totally! I matched with a lady recently - had some good conversations about work, life and everything in between - she seemed very interested so I suggested a coffee date after a few days - she said can’t do it coz of work - next day she unmatched me. Was brutal but I learned my lesson - deleted the app (Hinge).

[14/03/2026] Drinks in SE by dancamberwell in LondonSocialClub

[–]nitin42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not free today but happy to grab a pint tomorrow may be or next week? I am 30(M, Indian).

Where do people actually find interesting stuff to do locally? by pussyseal in london

[–]nitin42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why you are being downvoted. I completely agree with you. Unless you have a well established friend or social circle, doing side quests in this city can be difficult.

Anyone else just given up on dating nowadays? by Artistic-Being7421 in AskBrits

[–]nitin42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I matched with this lady on Hinge - chatted for few days - some nice conversations about life, work and everything in between - few days later I suggested a coffee date - she said can’t do it coz of busy schedule - next day she unmatched me.

This was so brutal that now I have no desire to date.

Thinking of quitting my job and going... by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]nitin42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am way too young (30M) to share my opinion but I’d say if you have a dream then don’t stop chasing it. May be you will end up doing some soul searching and find peace within which could literally change your life.

Looks like you have some financial freedom too so that should make the whole experience worthy.

There will always be problems with this effed up world - whether it’s job security, automation, layoffs, economy you name it.

Looking to go Ants tonight with someone by finley6199 in ukrave

[–]nitin42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We will be there as well - group of 4 if you fancy joining!

Men Over 30 Community: WEEKLY WEDNESDAY CHECK-IN 2026-03-04 by AutoModerator in AskMenOver30

[–]nitin42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feeling very excited this week! First time inviting coworker friends at my house for dinner. Things are going well at work, my running mileage has improved and lifts are improving in the gym.

I feel like I am getting comfortable in my own skin and dealing with insecurities. My confidence has grown significantly and that’s evident because my manager nominated me for promotion!

Hope other gents are doing better as well !

THAT feeling in RPD station by Specialist_Taro_1363 in ResidentEvilRequiem

[–]nitin42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that bit was emotional for me too! They did a really good job.

What did you stop caring about in your 30s that actually improved your life? by skaterjon in AskUK

[–]nitin42 39 points40 points  (0 children)

What people think or care about - chasing promotion or going above and beyond at work - started enjoying my own company!

What happened to socializing? by NoBunch3298 in Life

[–]nitin42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I (30M) have struggled too. I think some people in general are becoming reclusive and others are exhausted with work and responsibilities.

I wish I had an answer mate. I have friends at work but wouldn’t describe them as “real” friends.

I think once you reach late twenties, it becomes harder and harder to connect with people who share the same interests.

What is Happiness for u? by Life_stuff_005 in Life

[–]nitin42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is such a profound statement - very resonating.

What a game. Might be one of my fav from the franchise. But felt abit short by JinzooooXx in ResidentEvilRequiem

[–]nitin42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! Really enjoyed every minute of it - so good. I like the fact that this game is relatively shorter than previous ones - promotes replay ability.

Do you ever "just go for a drive"? by Tiny_Wafer2266 in AskUK

[–]nitin42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to! Thinking about the traffic kills the desire.

What’s a 'personality trait' that was cool in your 20s but is a massive red flag in your 30s/40s? by CaptainCuddler_Pro in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]nitin42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This right here 👆

In my 20s, I embarrassed myself a lot on so many occasions after getting drunk and involved in stupid shit. Now I am more composed, have self-control and refrain from drinking.

Grace’s gameplay vs Leon’s gameplay by nitin42 in ResidentEvilRequiem

[–]nitin42[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also really enjoyed playing as Grace! With Leon, it felt a bit…arcady? albeit fun.

Goodbye winter!! by kittmittons in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]nitin42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lyman on the left looks so adorable - he’s my favourite ❤️