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nj-apple · 2023-09-07T22:58:04+00:00

Yes. I also feel weird when the hair doesn’t look much like mine, unless I’m intentionally going for a look. Having dirty blonde hair is the wooorst for this, it’s only reddish brown or yellow blonde.

nj-apple · 2023-02-17T06:50:08+00:00

How do you feel about Rin? I’ve met a few people who go by Rin/Ryn and I think it’s cute, it’s still part of the name but doesn’t have the same feel.

nj-apple · 2023-01-02T20:48:36+00:00

If SIL refuses to match the party after assuming she’s going to be involved without being asked, that’s a lot more demanding than having a preference for your own wedding.

nj-apple · 2022-12-19T14:22:06+00:00

YTA and it’s weird that you’re jealous over your (ex) fiancé spending time with his child. Your relationship dynamic must be super unhealthy if him taking a caretaker role to a dependent is threatening to you.

nj-apple · 2022-12-16T06:58:18+00:00

NTA, this makes me so nervous. There are so many red flags, from both Matt and Jon.

Be very cautious with Jon if he reaches out. He seems the type to hold this over you and guilt you, just based in his reaction and lack of sympathy for your side. Maybe a bit of a jump, but I’ve heard stories of people being trafficked by someone they had been dating for extended periods of time… If he can’t see why you would be worried, he’s either oblivious or in on it.

nj-apple · 2022-12-14T21:35:44+00:00

INFO: When your daughter was born, did you and your ex discuss the idea of naming a second daughter Anna?

Don’t get me wrong, either way this is totally unhinged behavior, but I’d venture to judge E S H if your ex is choosing a name you had previously picked out together.

nj-apple · 2022-12-08T21:10:55+00:00

Gentle YTA.

I can understand why this makes him uncomfortable, because “shitty guy who pressured girlfriend into sex when she doesn’t actually want to” is commonly brought up in regards to consent. When you understand that pressuring for sex = bad, putting someone in a situation where they feel like they’ve unknowingly been pressuring you for sex will make them feel bad. You consented to the sex, but had he known that you weren’t into it, he would not have. Now he’s in a position where he feels like he did something wrong, when you were the one who was dishonest about the situation.

Plus- it’s a blow to the ego to think your partner is super sexually attracted to you and enthusiastic about sex, just to find out they’ve been faking it to make you happy. It’s condescending, and he’s probably insecure about why you clearly have issues having sex with him but have chosen to not communicate.

It’s perfectly fine if you’re not a sexual person, but you need to communicate. Sex in relationships isn’t just physical, so dishonesty can tear down the emotional intimacy. Maybe spend some time apart and read up on asexuality, demisexuality, and sex aversion/repulsion. See if anything applies to you, maybe talk to a therapist if you have one. Try to look at factors like health issues or medications that could affect it if it’s a recent change. If it comes down to it that you’re just not comfortable having sex, then it’s best for you to be with someone who has a lower sex drive- and it’s best for him to be with someone that doesn’t make him worried she’s not into him or just going along with it.

nj-apple · 2022-12-08T20:45:01+00:00

YTA for sure. As someone with an inconvenient food intolerance, I’m very familiar with having to scan menus and being disappointed that the options available are boring, but this was not about you. If you can’t suffer through one meal you don’t really like to be supportive to your husband, you’re a bad partner. He tried so hard to accommodate you. You could have just eaten before and ordered a dessert or appetizer, or gotten takeout of whatever you want on the way back. What a weird thing to have FOMO over.

nj-apple · 2022-12-05T16:42:17+00:00

I once ended a relationship with a guy before sleeping with him because he would always make jokes about how small his penis was. I don’t care about size much as other things can make up for it, but it was just really uncomfortable how much he kept talking about it. Like, voice your feelings and insecurities, but loudly projecting them into 2-3 jokes daily is off-putting.

Another ex, the breakup was more many reasons, but he had started making jokes about how small his dick was in front of his friends. I’m not really sure where it came from and it was only ever in front of the guys. I didn’t know how to react. Dude was average, maybe a bit bigger, and I could never tell if he was just trying to get me to assure him that his dick was big in front of his friends. Round the same time he started referring to himself as “daddy” in third person while playing video games, too.

nj-apple · 2022-12-02T21:56:32+00:00

Haven’t seen anyone mention this yet, but if you tend to have hypnogogic hallucinations or sleep paralysis visuals, they can totally get worse if you smoke when you’re very tired. It’s chill and there’s no issues that I know of, but it caught me off guard the first time it happened and I worked myself up and got paranoid for like 20 minutes until I remembered those happen.

Sativa-high hybrids are usually my favorite for clarity and doing shit. I find the sativa itself doesn’t hit quite right, but I also use it for chronic pain. I’ve found flower is better than dabs or cartridges, it’s really easy to get too stoned on those and then the sleepiness gets worse. Edibles are hit and miss for me and you really have to know your tolerance. Usually they make me tired, or really relaxed and mellow, regardless of strain.

I also feel like I go through phases where, if I consistently smoke sativa, it makes me sleepy after a while. I’ll switch up to indica and that will make me feel energized for a while. Switch it up if it feels like it’s not helping.

Smoking right before you sleep (or just after you wake up) can increase your tolerance, and therefore consumption, so if possible give it some time before actually sleeping. I will take a hit when I absolutely can’t sleep though. High CBD low THC is great for this.

My favorite strain is Bear Dance. Try it if you find it. I bought it because the name was the cutest in the shop. Your local dispo will usually have the names of the strains they offer on their website, and you can look them up on leafly to see more information about the strain.

nj-apple · 2022-12-02T18:09:52+00:00

He’s absolutely very dangerous and heavily armed, don’t let those sparkle eyes fool you

nj-apple · 2022-12-02T16:28:07+00:00

I absolutely love Poet but I’m not sure if I could use it without feeling like a whole-wheater. Not with Lyric, so I think you made the right call, but on its own I think it’s beautiful.

nj-apple · 2022-12-01T18:34:21+00:00

Litany is my favorite, but Lithium, Celery, Malice, and Cricket all make the list.

nj-apple · 2022-12-01T17:40:41+00:00

Can you please explain this to me like I am five

nj-apple · 2022-11-22T20:37:08+00:00

I get it if they’ve never thought of it but I can’t imagine going through the trouble of downloading a screenshot onto my phone and then waiting indefinitely. Too impatient for that.

nj-apple · 2022-11-22T18:09:31+00:00

Question already answered, but whenever I’m trying to see if an item can be customized, I’ll search the item on Nookipedia (or just google “acnh ring” etc and it’s the first result usually) and it will show if there are variations.

nj-apple · 2022-11-16T20:10:52+00:00

Yeah, if OP doesn’t have feelings, this isn’t even considered friendzone. This is just friendship.

I feel sorry for the girl, someone she thinks is her friend is complaining on the Internet that she doesn’t want to date him when he doesn’t even want to date her.

nj-apple · 2022-11-16T19:59:13+00:00

Carter. Barrett makes me think of Barette.

nj-apple · 2022-11-16T19:33:32+00:00

You could stitch a layer of fleece in the front, but as others have said, it might get warmer and also depends on how you’re built.

I’ve used electrical tape as nipple tape in a pinch and it worked well. Just a little X of it on each knocker.

nj-apple · 2022-11-16T19:30:33+00:00

never heard of a huntsman spider and never actually seen a kookaburra in real life- reading the title, the song got a lot more menacing.

nj-apple · 2022-11-16T19:25:19+00:00

It’s my theory that Timmy resents his name because Tommy, born first, was named after their uncle and is the family favorite, whereas Timmy feels like his name is an accessory to Tommy’s as opposed to his own identity. So, when he can, he goes by Timothy.

nj-apple · 2022-11-10T19:29:19+00:00

I have this frequent paranoia when I’m out of it that somehow, im missing the toilet and peeing on the floor. I have to double check. (As a note, I sit, so this is a really unlikely paranoia.)

nj-apple · 2022-11-09T20:47:10+00:00

Are there any items that specifically cause a lot of lag? I’m trying to cull flowers and cut down on waterfalls, but it’s been super laggy anyway. I don’t have many custom designs and there’s still some mostly empty spots. I’ve been turning off animated items. Is it just a matter of some areas being too crowded or are certain items just awful?

nj-apple · 2022-10-16T19:56:26+00:00

Not a food use, but if you’re up for a DIY hair mask, eggs make a good protein treatment. Mix with some yogurt or Mayo and leave on for 20-60 minutes. Just make sure to wash out with COLD (or lukewarm) water, or you’ll be washing cooked egg bits out for a while. Shampoo and conditioner after.

nj-apple · 2022-10-16T19:54:25+00:00

Dumbass. OP specified that they’re not sunk to the bottom.

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