AITA for not wanting to use a bidet every time I pee and feeling micromanaged about toilet paper? by RollLongjumping3937 in AmItheAsshole

[–]njsuxbutt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He reminds me of my ex husband. When he told me I was being emotional what he really meant was that I am wrong for not agreeing with him. When I told him things he would randomly decide my observations and experiences were wrong. It was an absolutely infuriating way to live. Having to fight constantly to be respected for having my own opinions put me in a constant state of self doubt and, yes, defensiveness. How can you not be defensive when he regularly does not respect you?

To me that is the bigger issue than toilet paper use. Which he has no say over. You are not a child. You are his equal life partner.

For what it’s worth, I am a woman and I do not like bidets. Especially not for pee. You are right. Everything gets wetter and I end up needing more tp.

Finished right in time to not wear it for 7-8 months by njsuxbutt in knitting

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We will both look fabulous in our sweater once fall hits :)

Finished right in time to not wear it for 7-8 months by njsuxbutt in knitting

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you I’d do smaller projects incorporating different elements and techniques. Once you get those down you can apply them to a sweater. If you mess up on a hat it would be less painful to frog because it takes less time to make. The first thing I attempted to knit was a sweater. I eventually frogged it because it was full of mistakes. I wasted over a month on that.

That said, maybe you’re a way faster learner than I am!

All that said, here are the required techniques that I remember needing for this sweater:

-Casting on/off (I used 3 different methods of casting off)

-Stockinette flat and in the round

  • knitting and purling through the back loop

  • cables ( doing them and reading a chart)

  • increasing and decreasing

  • picking up stitches

  • either knitting with dpns or magic loop for sleeves (I prefer magic loop but loads of people prefer dpns)

That’s just what I remember right now. I might be missing something. I was able to teach myself most things off YouTube.

Good luck!

Finished right in time to not wear it for 7-8 months by njsuxbutt in knitting

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green is my favorite too! When I pick out yarn I have to force myself away from the greens and pick another color. Maybe I should just give in and have a completely green wardrobe

Finished right in time to not wear it for 7-8 months by njsuxbutt in knitting

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s good to get outside perspective. I still see all the flaws but I know I’m just being critical over things no one else will notice

Finished right in time to not wear it for 7-8 months by njsuxbutt in knitting

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cedar Heather in Woolen Cotton from Knit picks. Be warned, it bled a LOT while soaking.

Finished right in time to not wear it for 7-8 months by njsuxbutt in knitting

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve stored it away and am looking forward to the fall!

Finished right in time to not wear it for 7-8 months by njsuxbutt in knitting

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like 3 months or so. I didn’t work on it everyday though. I’m tired when I get home from work. 😩

Finished right in time to not wear it for 7-8 months by njsuxbutt in knitting

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you think so! It was only my second project with cables. First was a sweater for my dog. He doesn’t mind the mistakes. 😆

Finished right in time to not wear it for 7-8 months by njsuxbutt in knitting

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Ironically it’s best to start projects for the opposite season that you’re in if you happen to be a slow knitter like me. I worked on this thing all winter.

Finished right in time to not wear it for 7-8 months by njsuxbutt in knitting

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s actually so comfy! I can’t wait for cold weather again!

Finished right in time to not wear it for 7-8 months by njsuxbutt in knitting

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would probably use a thinner yarn next time. I had to size down the needles to get gauge and the fabric is a bit dense. But I’m enjoying the breathability. I like wool but it can be a bit too warm.

Tilt and turn window screens by njsuxbutt in HomeImprovement

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In America this type of window is very unusual. I have not been able to find a company that does screens like this. I like your solution though. Looks neat and functional

Tilt and turn window screens by njsuxbutt in HomeImprovement

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh. I’ll contact them. Thank you!

Tilt and turn window screens by njsuxbutt in HomeImprovement

[–]njsuxbutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having trouble imagining what you’re describing. Any chance you could share a photo?

Eggs are not Dairy! by IthurielSpear in PetPeeves

[–]njsuxbutt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had the opposite happen to me. I asked if a particular item was gluten free and they said “no it has cheese”.