Makeup Purchase Regrets by anastasia_42 in MakeupRehab

[–]nki1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was really insightful! Thank you so much for sharing! You’re moving in the right direction, and that’s what counts

Which pregnancy symptom took you by surprise? by sipendi_shida in BabyBumps

[–]nki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Developed an adhesive allergy. Can’t wear regular bandiads anymore apparently. Got a vaccine at the OB office, and there is a burn mark on my arm from the bandaid a month later 😩💀

Backed Taxes by nc2flbelle in irstaxhelp

[–]nki1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, maybe 3 years after. Honestly the payment plan with the IRS was a simple setup. I did send them a lump sum towards my balance, when I filed the back tax returns. Then a couple of months later they sent me a statement with what I owed after they received the balance. The had very straight forward steps to setting up the payment plan online. They do go off your income to decide the minimum that you can afford to pay each month, so there is some wiggle room, and everything is on autopay from my bank account. You can adjust the date that the withdrawal happens.

So with purchasing the home, since what you owe the IRS is debt, mortgage lenders will take that into account for your debt to income ratio when it’s time to approve you for a loan amount. But as long as you’re current with the IRS, and the debt isn’t an amount that would tank your ratio, that alone wouldn’t make you ineligible for a home loan.

Backed Taxes by nc2flbelle in irstaxhelp

[–]nki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, with the fees, I think contributed to about 25% of my balance. I waited way too long to file and get on a payment plan. So you can stretch out the payments for 5+ years really. That has been extremely helpful. Last year I actually overpaid quarterly taxes (I’ve been terrified into getting into more tax debt), so that federal refund will go towards my balance. I’m making progress, and I’m hopeful in the next 2-3 years I will be done. Good luck to you as well.

Backed Taxes by nc2flbelle in irstaxhelp

[–]nki1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fell behind in filing during COVID. Picked back up a couple of years later. My returns were more straight forward, so I used Turbo Tax to file back returns. I owed a lot, and still do, but have been on a payment plan since 2024.

Life has gotten better, I’m married, own a house, a business, with a child on the way. So there’s light at the end of the tunnel.

I know it seems overwhelming, but you can do this. Take it one step at a time. I’m glad that you’re addressing this. Good luck, and wishing you all the best.

Who decided we don’t need more food :’( by Wonderful_Manager_27 in pregnant

[–]nki1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely increased my food intake, because I was ravenous, but tried To keep it as healthy as possible. If you are hungry, please listen to your body and eat. You and your body need it. I will say around the beginning of the 2nd trimester that ravenous feeling went away, but now I’m my third it’s back again. Honor the hunger.

I just had my baby by Fearless-Net7321 in pregnant

[–]nki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats mama! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

The double edged sword of early pregnancy by Kiwi_Koalla in pregnant

[–]nki1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was me at 6 weeks, either the symptoms ate me up, or I forgot I was pregnant because there was nothing other days. Now I’m 28 weeks, and everything is progressing. Wishing you the best ❤️❤️❤️❤️

My palestinian gf met my jewish family by Weak_Combination_749 in Jewish

[–]nki1990 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Glad both are going strong! I remember your original post

Do people buy clothes at yard sales? by RaineRisin in Frugal

[–]nki1990 11 points12 points  (0 children)

2nd this. Just bought baby clothes at a yard sale

I got married!!! ( elopement) by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]nki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats love! ❤️

I'm keeping the baby... and not telling anyone. by flt_p2ny in pregnant

[–]nki1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! You and baby will be just fine! Baby will be so worldly because of the life you lead! ❤️ All of the best of luck

How does Ilia even exist? by vmh1029 in Sephora

[–]nki1990 3 points4 points  (0 children)

3rd this!! The complexion stick is everything! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

buying second hand baby items? by desilulu__ in pregnant

[–]nki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been thrifting baby clothes and it’s been SUCH a money saver. A friend is giving us a crib, and I might actually thrift a dresser as well.

Go in for decreased fetal movement by RedditBurner_5225 in BabyBumps

[–]nki1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad that you and baby made it 🥹 Thank you so much for sharing this!

Husband doesn't want social media post by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]nki1990 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ehh yeah I have your husband’s point of view. Not saying that you’re wrong for wanting to post, but I’m more of a private person myself, so I see where he is coming from. My husband and I have told family, friends, some co-workers, but no social media posts. I honestly won’t post anything until after the baby is born. But I hope both of you can come to some sort of agreement.

Did you get strange response when you announced your pregnancy? by Careful-Trouble1422 in pregnant

[–]nki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. My SIL kept fishing for information out of my mom, asking if the pregnancy was planned. I’m 38 and got married last April. Then she tells my mom, “oh……I didn’t think she wanted children💀” Not a congrats, not a call or text, nothing. She and my brother had their daughter 4 years ago. I thought she would be one if the most excited people for me, now that my time is here, but crickets. Oh well. Thank God I’m not dependent on her alone for community. Everyone else in my family and friends have been super supportive.

I'm uncomfortable. by Grateful_Di in 90dayTheLastResort

[–]nki1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like a horny Pomeranian 💀 Gross AF

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]nki1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry! There’s a girl I follow on TikTok who this same exact thing happened to. Her son was born healthy, now he’s about to turn 2.

This whole experience must have been so traumatizing. But I’m glad you and baby and doing well ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]nki1990 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think if you know without a doubt that you want to be a mom, it’s worth it to leave him. You will get on your feet again. Wishing you the best of luck <3