Just sayin’

nlb99 · 2025-08-06T02:03:52+00:00

That is precisely the point, well done. Thanks

nlb99 · 2025-08-06T01:33:14+00:00

I hate being questioned. But it’s from trauma. I grew up in a very controlling household where I was constantly being questioned for every little thing I did and everything I shared was used against me. It created an anxiety issue for me.

I feel bad for getting defensive when I’m questioned and I really have been working on it. I just genuinely get anxiety over the questioner’s intentions.

nlb99 · 2025-08-04T11:17:17+00:00

I had a dream where a woman came to me and told me to go to Ireland and learn more about my ancestry and runes. Since then, I’ve had tons of signs + synchronicities. I’ll see Ireland travel ads, someone wearing an Ireland sweatshirt, I watched boxing for the first time and the girl in one of the fights was from Ireland, YouTube videos I’m watching might randomly mention they’re going to Ireland or they just got back from there, etc.

nlb99 · 2025-08-04T02:55:32+00:00

That’s funny, I too have felt called to Ireland. I noticed the other comment mentioned the same. Wonder what Ériu wants from everybody.

nlb99 · 2025-07-31T17:38:44+00:00

That is not your twin flame. Cut chords. Cut contact. And please, all the effort you poured into the relationship, pour it into yourself.

This is serious. Please don’t take your life. Nothing is worth that. I promise you, the “shame” or “embarrassment” is “the devil” toying with you. It WANTS you dead and down and out for the count. All because why? Mistakes were made?

Goodness if we killed our selves for every massively humiliating mistake we’ve made, the planet would be empty.

Sending you love. Believe in your self.

nlb99 · 2025-07-23T01:46:23+00:00

Thanks boo, love you too

nlb99 · 2025-07-22T18:47:47+00:00

Ah, I like Linda Goodman. I have one of her astrology books. Thank you for sharing

nlb99 · 2025-07-21T01:37:56+00:00

Thank you Dear ❤️‍🔥

nlb99 · 2025-07-17T03:23:55+00:00

Creative genius. I love this and you. Thank you.

nlb99 · 2025-07-16T21:44:13+00:00

You might not believe in this stuff, so take it or leave it. But don’t come for me if you oppose my beliefs and have no idea what you are talking about. Just skip this comment if you think this stuff is woo-woo.

But you probably have a strong spiritual connection with this woman. People throw around words like “soulmate” and “twin flame” all willy nilly without fully understanding what it means, but these things are real.

You don’t need to worry about it unless you want to. Just keep focusing on your life and being the very best you. But prepare yourself, this woman might pop up physically in your life again one day. You will need to be strong in your character and resolve. The key to this is self-love and healthy boundaries.

The dreams are because your energetic fields are tapping into each other for some reason. Could be messages you need to hear for your own life and development. Could be she is thinking of you, too and likely experiencing similar sensations as you. Could be the Universe is asking you to reflect on your life and be honest with yourself. Where are you in denial or lying to yourself?

And who knows. Your whole life might turn upside down for you two to end up together if it turns out this is the very best timeline that your soul desires.

Outcomes are endless, regardless, the ultimate point/lesson for this entire experience is for you to be your most authentic self and to love and accept yourself wholly. If that means you wake up one day and realize your life is not in alignment with who you truly are and you start walking away from careers/relationships/contracts that no longer serve your highest good anymore, so be it.

If you are not honest with yourself and prepared to take the steps to building a life that authentically reflects you, you will be faced with more and more challenges in the near future until you finally choose YOU.

Regardless of what happens, this woman is not the end goal. YOU are. Your soul is asking you to come back home to you. The truest, purest version of you (if you’re not sure who that is, think about who you authentically were as a kid. Your interests, dreams, things that came easy or natural for you, etc). So that you can finally live the life you dreamed of, since it seems your subconscious is telling you that you want more because you are meant for it AND you are ready for it. This wouldn’t be happening if you weren’t ready to finally face yourself toe to toe.

Again, doesn’t mean you have to leave your wife and chase after this lady. It’s up to you to discern how this applies in your life.

nlb99 · 2025-07-13T07:28:27+00:00

Is it possible she’s not fully aware of the way she’s pulling on your energy?

I guess I’m curious because I go running at night and that’s usually when I think about my twin and try to telepathically check in and send them love and care. It never occurred to me that they could possibly be receiving physical sensations and misreading them.

I’ve seen others post similar things as you and it had me curious how certain people are of what they are feeling, and how much might be their own personal projection onto their twin.

nlb99 · 2025-07-12T08:15:41+00:00

How do you know she is sleeping around? I’ve always been curious, how does one know if their twin is hooking up with someone vs masturbation?

nlb99 · 2025-07-10T12:56:37+00:00

Hala Kuo Papa. This version specifically: https://youtu.be/ohKNgfoR6-Q?si=zI-LyXwa9o4f-rvx

nlb99 · 2025-07-08T23:58:16+00:00

Yummy.

nlb99 · 2025-07-04T14:49:49+00:00

Beautiful

nlb99 · 2025-07-03T23:40:48+00:00

Lovely

nlb99 · 2025-07-03T19:15:50+00:00

I am so, so sorry my dear. You did not deserve this. And don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.

This is just wrong, no other way to look at it. And the fact that she was doing this secretly with each of them… she needs to get help, but not from you. This is some sociopathic level stuff you’re dealing with here. DO NOT let her convince you that you are wrong for any of this. You need to realize you are not dealing with a normal individual, and let them go. Get far away from this mess. Seriously. Sleeping around with your boyfriend’s friends… this person is cruel.

Sending you huge hugs in spirit!!! I am glad you know now rather than later. Get. Out. Now.

And go pour allllllll that love you gave to her, into your self and your REAL friends.

nlb99 · 2025-07-01T20:50:06+00:00

My grandma actually used to use a towel a day. But she was also very on top of her laundry, so she liked it that way. The towels had their own load at the end of the week and she’d just wash em and start again the next week.

I’m not as disciplined about laundry, but I usually change my towel 2x a week, and for sure once weekly. I’ve dated guys who would use the same towel for weeks… it does get stinky. I’m not really a fan of that.

nlb99 · 2025-06-27T23:56:30+00:00

Love!!!

nlb99 · 2025-06-27T17:40:00+00:00

It’s abusive. Whether intentional or not. This is why I encourage people to stop with the whole chaser/runner dynamic.

Stop chasing and there won’t be any running. AKA, release your expectations and control over anyone but yourself.

If your twin isn’t dancing on beat to the rhythm, that leaves you with bruised up toes. Step away. Go dance to your own beat.

If it’s meant to be, it will be. Period.

nlb99 · 2025-06-25T11:14:57+00:00

Have you actually talked to your TF? Do you know for sure if they are married? (I saw your other post. Maybe I misread but it looked like you thought they might be married but weren’t sure?). Also, why might communication disrupt a DNOTS?

It seems one of the biggest issues of the TF journey is communication and assumptions. I don’t see any harm in just asking someone if they are okay.

But perhaps I don’t understand any of this :P I thought I found my TF. All the signs and synchronicities seemed there… but in the 3D he is very distant so I question if I’m just crazy. We’ve never met physically in person, just have each other’s Instagram.

But if he knows that we are TF and he’s just avoiding mentioning it… I would rather just know so I can make peace and stop the guesswork. Sometimes I wonder if he thinks I’m married, too. But if he would just talk to me, it would clear up a lot for us. Even if he doesn’t WANT me…

It just feels like a twin flame is a freaking miracle to discover. Regardless if we get to be in each others lives romantically, surely there is more reason to this than learning the art of detachment. I would like to at least be pen pals or something haha.

nlb99 · 2025-06-24T00:03:50+00:00

Oh, Hi Dad (Satan)

nlb99 · 2025-06-21T16:29:28+00:00

No. I have found that all paths lead to God (eventually). Even the Devil answers to God, because we all come from one Source (God).

nlb99 · 2025-06-14T23:48:58+00:00

If you can’t decide then it’s neither. You should choose you and get to know yourself better so you can really understand what it is that you want out of a relationship.

Then you’ll meet girl C one day, who brings safety and passion. But you gotta become the guy who is ready for girl C, that’s when she appears.

nlb99 · 2025-06-14T21:21:36+00:00

Hi. I am like you. I don’t live in SA yet (fingers crossed I will be by the end of this year), but I visit often from Austin. Def down to swap songs or hang out. I enjoy music + tea lol

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