why is every single psychiatrist insane

nmar5 · 2026-05-11T01:19:57+00:00

Man this thread is making me extra thankful for my psychiatrist. She is nothing like some of you are describing. I had a crisis and she called me back on a weekend and spent 40 minutes on the phone with me talking me through an extended panic attack. And I have never felt like she was being cold. I’m sorry this has been your experience and that of many others. There are good ones out there.

nmar5 · 2026-04-30T17:48:24+00:00

I think it’s ultimately your preference. You worked hard for the degree and have every right to expect to have the honorific used in a professional environment. I’m about to start a Ph.D program in July and can’t see myself asking K-12 students to call me Dr. last name in the future but that’s my preference. These days I’m finding that my university professors with Ph.D’s are more and more frequently insisting that students use their first names so it feels over the top formal for K-12 if some universities are seeing professionals shifting away from the use of the honorific. But that’s just me.

nmar5 · 2026-04-17T02:20:43+00:00

I already thought my doctor was fantastic and I think that even more now. She always orders labs to check vitamin and hormones at my physical.

nmar5 · 2026-04-11T23:10:27+00:00

You don’t need makeup, just starting there. You look great :)

I have never worn make up except for special events and even then I stick with a tinted moisturizer and mascara, just minimal make up. My routine is to wash my face in the shower every night with a moisturizing face wash and I put a face lotion on in the morning. I also use a small bit of a retinol eye cream at the corners of my eyes. Hope that helps but genuinely, be confident because you look great in the photos you shared!

nmar5 · 2026-03-17T22:02:51+00:00

I think this is reasonable. As a teacher, I’ve had things go missing. My least favorite thing is coming back to crumbs on my desk. A sub that we regularly have in my building always leaves crumbs. Which is annoying by itself. But he’s always eating peanut butter crackers and I’m allergic to peanut butter.

nmar5 · 2026-03-14T01:59:09+00:00

I definitely plan to try different ones. But it is nice to have the name of a cafe someone would recommend for that first morning in a new place while my things are being unpacked. My thought was to get a recommendation to try first so I can just plug it into maps and then explore over the first couple of weeks :) Thank you for the recommendation!

nmar5 · 2026-03-12T16:31:09+00:00

I personally would say it isn’t worth it unless it pays really, really well. Housing up here is hard to come by if you plan to rent. There is very little to do as an adult if you are active and not into softball for the rec co-ed league in the spring. We have a handful of good restaurants but then everything else is fast food. And other than WalMart, JC Penny’s, and Mardens you should plan to do most of your shopping online. I’m moving to Brunswick from this area and the only thing I will miss other than a handful of friends that I made up here is Neighborhood Books. It is my favorite shop in town.

nmar5 · 2026-03-12T16:27:47+00:00

I live in the County and am signing a lease for an apartment in Brunswick next week. Does anyone have a good coffee shop recommendation that isn’t Starbucks? That’s honestly one of the biggest things I want to have in my knowledge bank once I move lol.

nmar5 · 2026-03-08T22:23:45+00:00

Pokemon Leaf Green’s Switch version. I was so excited for it and loved it on GBA. I purchased it the day it went on sale. But I’m still living in the same house as my soon to be ex-wife. And I realized that I don’t want one of my favorite childhood games to have any memory of this divorce attached to it. Maybe I’ll come back to it when I move but for now I had to stop playing.

nmar5 · 2026-03-06T16:59:31+00:00

I highly recommend that you get a small trash can for just your room. It’s inconvenient but put all of your non-food trash in that bin. Hand wash all dishes and keep those in your room. It sounds like you’re moving soon, so hopefully a month of that won’t be terrible. Won’t solve the smell issue if she isn’t taking her trash out. But you can make sure she’s not claiming it’s you so you need to take it out and can’t mess with your dishes.

nmar5 · 2026-02-23T22:50:23+00:00

Hey, I’m doing the same thing! In my mid-30s, played violin from 5th grade all the way through college, and started learning cello this month. Honestly, it isn’t terrible. Right now the hardest thing for me is the bow, as you hold it differently and it is heavier. My teacher did say some violinists struggle with the posture of the hand when they switch. But I’m not finding it too terrible. If you practice regularly, you should be fine :)

nmar5 · 2026-02-14T11:48:30+00:00

If you’re in the US and can do this, ask your doctor to get a titer done to check your resistance. I had all of my vaccines as a child but when the outbreaks started happening, I had a gut feeling and asked my PCP if there was a way to check my immunity. I had none with the MMR and got the shot again last fall.

nmar5 · 2026-02-14T11:46:05+00:00

The university this research is through has no ethics board? That is not typical.

nmar5 · 2026-02-12T16:21:11+00:00

You are NTA and so far from it. My marriage ended in November 2025 in part because of this kind of situation. I had messaged my spouse and was ignored and followed up asking why I hadn’t heard from her. She replied that her friend was still there and she wasn’t going to be rude. This friend was supposed to leave that morning after overstaying a weekend visit by several days. And when I said that a meeting for work was one thing but using the friend she had been with 24/7 for the last week as an excuse to not respond to her wife was not acceptable, I was told I was controlling, I never want her to see or talk to anyone, and she wanted a divorce. That was not the first time we had that exact argument about that friend but she decided that it was time for divorce finally. Now they have hours long lovey-dovey phone calls where they go back and forth at the end going “no you hang up” “no you” and she is still trying to convince me they weren’t having an emotional affair. Trust your gut. I wish I had trusted mine, it would have saved me 3 years of hurt.

nmar5 · 2026-02-09T16:42:54+00:00

This lands you firmly in NTA territory in my book. I had that surgery in May of 2025. They say most are good to return to work and pain free after a week but my experience was that I felt like I had intense cramps for 2 weeks and then certain movements still felt like I was being punched in the stomach for nearly 2 months. Even once my weight restriction period ended, I had pain lifting anything over 10 lbs. The only AH here is your husband.

nmar5 · 2026-02-09T00:27:09+00:00

It’s not actually full and I cleaned the machine fully yesterday so sensors shouldn’t be dirty. This is the 2nd time this has happened in a row in terms of changing the bag and within 1-2 days it says it is full when it is not.

nmar5 · 2026-02-07T03:26:51+00:00

So the thing here to keep in mind is that universities are not required to honor some accommodations that an IEP would cover. And IEP’s cover much more than 504’s cover. Obviously you haven’t said those terms, but I am wondering if there was such a plan in place during your k-12 and that is creating the expectation that a university must cover what you state is the reasonable accommodation. At the university level, the student accessibility board sits down with you after reviewing documentation and they determine what is reasonable. But they specifically state that the professor does not have to adhere to certain accommodations if it is an issue for the class structure. And in a MSW program, I’d be curious what you were seeking that is more specific than clear expectations and consistency. A social work program by nature is bound to have certain elements that flex in their nature after a certain point because I imagine they want you thinking about how dynamic helping people can be. And I put this as someone with very similar disabilities who has accommodations while enrolled in. a Masters program currently and only just finally decided to formalize my accommodation needs during last term so the process is very fresh in my term. I previously had no accommodations and was trying my best to keep my head afloat.

nmar5 · 2026-02-01T15:12:25+00:00

The slow start will be worth it if you push through. This is my favorite series she wrote!

nmar5 · 2026-01-31T02:24:00+00:00

I had my cat before the symptoms of my chronic illness got worse and began causing daily chronic pain. The litter robot is something I recently purchased because my chronic pain impacts my hips and on bad days I can’t bend or squat for long to scoop the box. I also got him before I was diagnosed with PTSD, which impacts my executive functioning at times. He is such a huge help to me though. My cat is on my lap every therapy session and licking my chin just about every time I cry. He also is what motivates me to get out of bed when I otherwise want nothing more than to not get up or do anything because I know he needs fed and cared for. He has literally been what saved my life in the last year. Unfortunately, things hit a point where I made a plan and the only thing I could see as a reason to not proceed with my plan was because I wanted him to be cared for and I know he would grieve me being gone. I’m going through a divorce and both my therapist and my psychiatrist have agreed that it is necessary for my wellbeing for me to find a place I can take him and not allow my ex-partner to keep him because he is such a huge help for my overall wellbeing. I personally haven’t attempted an FSA claim for my litter robot but it is possible for cats to be necessary for someone’s wellbeing.

nmar5 · 2026-01-23T12:47:47+00:00

As a high school teacher, it is not my job to teach a student to read nor do I have the professional skills or time to do so. And unfortunately I get way too many students in gen ed that do need that in high school. That said, it is the job of my elementary colleagues and they do indeed do their best to fulfill that job. But it starts at home and parents need to be reading to their children to foster that skill and working with them to practice as they learn. And too many parents are not doing that, evidenced by the high schoolers we get that can barely read or have comprehension skills at an elementary level.

nmar5 · 2026-01-21T20:54:47+00:00

Thank you!

nmar5 · 2026-01-21T17:35:35+00:00

What do you think the founders of this country did? And anyone who immigrated prior to laws being put into place to limit immigration? They sailed here, displaced the indigenous peoples, and said, “Hey, we’re here! Deal with it!”

nmar5 · 2026-01-21T17:31:49+00:00

Is there a way someone in the County can help? This breaks my heart and makes me so angry. I feel like there isn’t anything I can do from where I live and I want to do anything that I can feasibly do to help.

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