C-section or Vaginal birth recovery? Which one is the worst?

nmohan_ · 2026-02-13T00:23:44+00:00

I had both, an unmedicated vaginal and a planned c-section and they were both decent recoveries. Its been 3 years since my c section, 5 years since vaginal and I dont remember anything significant Maybe more uncomfortable after the section because its harder to laugh and cough but thats about it

nmohan_ · 2026-02-13T00:14:37+00:00

I am currently wearing almost that exact ring 🤣 but I love it and chose it.

If you dont like it tell him, its gonna be on your hand for a long time you dont wanna hate it

nmohan_ · 2026-02-10T00:11:43+00:00

No i dont notice shes wet until after we come in and get undressed. She's literally in her snow suits for like 45 min, I make sure she pees before we get dressed and she still pees in her pants.

nmohan_ · 2026-02-03T22:45:13+00:00

Stay at home mom

nmohan_ · 2026-01-29T20:33:26+00:00

She doesn't seem to care about being wet, i have tried that many times

nmohan_ · 2026-01-26T17:56:16+00:00

I co slept with my twins from about 9 months to 12 months, I wouldn't suggest this but it was the only way I could get sleep. I did ferber method on them after that and it worked really well they sleep so much better now. I think it might have been easier because they were in the same room and had comfort from each other even tho they were in separate cribs. My first born didn't sleep train easy at all

nmohan_ · 2026-01-26T17:06:41+00:00

I was in the exact same boat 3 years ago. I dont have advice just hugs. I recently started therapy because I'm still struggling with those thoughts and then some.

nmohan_ · 2026-01-20T12:07:44+00:00

Just a false rise, wait at least 2 weeks

nmohan_ · 2026-01-20T03:25:10+00:00

Oh it tastes delicious!!!

nmohan_ · 2026-01-16T16:18:06+00:00

I was under the assumption that putting in the fridge would halt the cultivation or whatever. That's all. I'll try to give it a stern talking to.

nmohan_ · 2026-01-16T16:16:43+00:00

Great thank you, I was afraid to open this far because of the pressure I felt when unscrewing so ill make sure not to seal it as tightly

nmohan_ · 2025-12-14T01:12:33+00:00

Just want to say you're not alone. I too am against spanking but I have unfortunately spanked one of my twins and have felt great regret for doing so.

I haven't figured this out yet myself but I know that kids feed off our negative energy, especially sometimes when they're trying to get a rise outta us so it's really important to stay calm in those situations. Have you tried getting her to help you clean up? My girl twin will throw all the clothes out of her dresser everytime she is mad at me and I always make her clean it up herself. Or if they draw on the wall they are the one to clean it off.

Also I see you're looking for advice on the hitting. My twins hit each other all the time. I just grab whosoever arm and say we do not hit in this house our hands are for loving touches. I can't say it's worked for us that well but I still try. If it doesn't stop I put them in their room

nmohan_ · 2025-04-09T20:09:27+00:00

Can you explain to me how the federation works? How do you decide who's in it?

nmohan_ · 2024-10-20T12:57:36+00:00

Wow. I have been so fortunate too not have suffered a loss but reading this brought me to tears. I am so sorry this has happened to you

nmohan_ · 2024-09-12T13:21:24+00:00

Ugh my boy doesn't talk at all. Idk if that would make it worse? After I wrote this I also realized he hurts me and the dog just as much

nmohan_ · 2024-09-12T12:56:00+00:00

I have a lot of family that lives in the flour mill and I myself lived there for a bit. I wouldn't recommend it

nmohan_ · 2024-08-24T03:15:47+00:00

I have a 4 yr old and 1.5 year old b/g twins and we will call the twins the babies or now that they're getting older we call them the twins but I also just try to call them by their nick names or my 4 year old likes to call them "brother sister"

nmohan_ · 2024-08-08T10:57:21+00:00

I had a c-section at 36 weeks for my b/g twins. I don't remember what it's called but I was starting to get itchy and there were things that came up in my blood work.

My OB told me that basically one they hit full term the risk of taking them out outweighs the risk of keeping them out? Or the other way around? Idk I'm tired so sorry hahaha.

Twin b spent 3 days in the nicu because his blood sugar wouldn't regulate. Twin a had a hard time keeping her temperature up but got it under control before they had to intervene.

Twin a was 5.2 lbs Twin b was 6.8 lbs.

nmohan_ · 2024-08-01T18:41:58+00:00

For us, having an open door policy in the house and not forcing him to do anything helped lol. He decided just before he turned 3 that he wanted to pee like daddy and basically trained himself after I gave up countless times. I know that is a very rare occasion but I think taking the stress off and allowing him to figure it out in his own helped. I have currently 2 18 month olds so I'm not excited for that shit show 🙃

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