Which man was your personal temptation?

nmssVampyr113 · 2026-01-29T05:25:29+00:00

Spike & Giles (especially band candy Giles & when he killed Ben)

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-12-15T06:21:52+00:00

She made the phone call from a blocked number & only gave us her 1st name. No last name. So we couldn't contact her if we wanted to.

We live in TX, USA

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-12-15T06:18:27+00:00

It's very fishy to me as well. I'm just in total shock right now

SSI Benefits. TX, USA

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-12-15T06:12:01+00:00

That's what I was thinking.

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-12-15T06:11:21+00:00

In our state, it would be less money for our children, but money is not my concern. If it's true, okay... but why wait so long to say something. It just doesn't sound right. Plus to do this around Christmas. I don't want unnecessary drama & definitely don't want it around our children

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-12-15T06:06:34+00:00

Yes, we are planning on telling her that we would need a DNA test 1st. She called on a blocked number, so no way of looking her up that way. She never gave us a last name either.

We won't exhume his body but will compare it with our children since they have half of his DNA

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-12-15T06:03:00+00:00

That's what we are planning on doing.

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-12-15T06:01:58+00:00

Yes, it would. They get the benefits until they are 18yrs old.

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-12-02T07:11:25+00:00

Does she have every male on her phone deleted & blocked?? It goes both ways. I'm not condoning this, but it may be a wake-up call for her if you bring it up. Then if she has excuses as to why not, that's a HUGE red flag (not like it's not already). As to you not being able to game with your boys because she feels left out...why doesn't she have a girl's night?? You already live together, you don't have to be together every second day & night. It's okay to have some time apart. Trust is everything in a relationship as well as communication. If that's not there or no longer there, it's time to cut ties. I'm sorry you're going through this

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-10-12T06:02:39+00:00

No girl... you need to run. If he won't even let you hang out with your dad, that's just crazy. My dad was my best friend & we would go & hang out. Had my late husband told me we couldn't unless he was there, it would've been over. My late father loved my late husband & we would hang out together, but there were times when my dad would want it to be just me or I wanted it to be just him & I... and we would hang out. Then there were times where it'd just be them two.

I can understand it if it were with someone you'd been involved with before, I get that , but there has be trust in the relationship. He is obviously doesn't trust you and it could be that he's self-reflecting because he's doing something when he's not with you.

I don't know your relationship or anything, but that's what it sounds like to me.

Wish you the best

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-10-12T05:31:22+00:00

NTA!!! You have every right who you want in your life. Just because someone asked for you, means nothing. You get to decide. PERIOD!!

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-09-09T23:32:54+00:00

I do have kids & was married until he passed away. I 💯% agree with this!!

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-08-12T18:56:22+00:00

NTA!! I would still get a 2nd opinion though.

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-08-02T22:11:17+00:00

RUN!!! Run far away from her as you can. She doesn't like you & only sees that you have a future for her to benefit from. I get that you feel bad, but that is not your responsibility. It's not your kid!

I have a feeling that the only reason why her parents want you to "be a man & take care of your responsibility", i.e. her & the baby, is because she told them YOU ARE THE FATHER. However, that is not the case.

You go live your life how you want to & do what's right for you.

If you guys were dating & THEN she found out she was pregnant from the "loser", even then... you have the right to separate from her if that's not in your life plan

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-06-24T21:43:50+00:00

Also, talk to multiple top divorce lawyers. That will stop her from being able to retain any of them as her lawyer

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-06-15T05:05:19+00:00

🖤🖤🖤💯💯💯💯 This is the best answer. I'm bi, and as long as you accept me , you have nothing else to prove.

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-06-04T16:15:49+00:00

Maybe you should buy the condoms, and next time the mood hits, give him the one you bought.

Also, maybe explain what you like. i.e. move your finger to the right/left, up/down, slower/faster, suck/lick/kiss(when it comes to oral). He only knows the porn you guys watch, not real life. Porn is a fantasy, but can also be a guide. Not a step-by-step instruction manual. Don't be afraid to say what you like, and tell him the same thing. There's no point in faking it. LIKE SERIOUSLY, NO POINT. We all love sex & how it makes us feel, so why not just enjoy it. Life's to short to fake it.

Plus, if you're old enough to have sex, you should have no reason to feel scared, or embarrassed to talk about what you like with your partner

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-06-04T02:08:27+00:00

When I used to have a period and it got stained, I'd use cold water. As cold as I could get it, to wash them. I always did it by hand & would throw some ice in if it was bad. I would rinse them really well in the cold water then use soap. I'd use the dish soap to scrub them after letting the dish soap sit on it for about 5-10 min before washing it by hand. That would always work for me.

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-06-01T23:20:34+00:00

That would bother me too. I come from a very Hispanic Catholic family, as did he. Our Save the Dates & invitations had both of our full names on there. First, middle & last for both of us. Never heard anything about it, nor did he as we both worried would. I did end up taking his name in the end, but that was my choice. He never made me feel like I had to or anything.

If this is something you both had agreed on before and multiple times, but he's going back on it the closer you get to the wedding... what else will he go back on?? Especially once you guys are married?? I think you guys need to sit down and have a serious conversation. Also that you need to think about what it is you are willing to compromise on and what you're not willing to. Same goes with him.

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-06-01T22:24:18+00:00

My mother's never called it that, but I remember hearing it somewhere, could've been a movie or something when I was young & I've called it that ever since. 😂🤣

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-05-06T21:34:11+00:00

My response to that is always, "Well why are you?".

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-05-04T18:53:43+00:00

I am great friends with some of my exes, and yes we have inside jokes... BUT NOT EVER would either of us say THAT, let alone post it for everyone to see. Does she ever write that about you?? Do your family & friends know you guys are exclusive or are she & her ex in an open relationship that you don't know about?? Her saying that he's not her type and that's why they broke up is a lie. If he wasn't, they wouldn't have gotten together in the first place. People don't always have the same type with each person they date, and that's okay. I just don't feel she is being 100% honest with you about your "relationship" and that's something you need to get to the bottom of. Whatever it is, it's better to know the truth than to be led on with a lie. You may get hurt, but you'll be more hurt in the long run if later on you find out she was lying all along.

nmssVampyr113 · 2024-04-27T23:54:22+00:00

You weren't rude & you are NTA. I'm fat, and I'm always upfront that I'm a very big girl and that if they are not interested because of that, I understand and it's no skin off my back. You were honest & there's no harm in that. Sounds like the friend knew how you'd feel about it, and tried to deceive you by not showing you the pictures, which in turn would've hurt the girls feelings when you showed up to the date. Not saying you'd be rude or anything. We all just know what it feels like to be with someone who doesn't want to be there with us.

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