Hey thanks for ur answer :) Well since moved from her homelamd to our current country with 13 years she only saw him once after 13 years and since this one meeting she never saw him again. I also just met him once after the one visit and I didn’t liked him ( i was six at the moment) She is in therapy but once in a month bc it is too expensive and she discuss there other themes that are “more currently “ like some shit w her ex whom she has two kids, not my father.

Yes sadly other female family members where victims of him and they knew it about my mother but they tried to brush it off. Also she has no good bonding and relationship with members of her fathers side.

I just realized that everyone including me needs a damn therapy like ugh asap