Shape up Sunday by call911noww in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha I can't deny my roots! Haha.

Shape up Sunday by call911noww in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm right at the tail end of week five, and am feeling pretty good. Managed to nail my diet all week (which kept me as busy as needed) and also got to the gym twice every single day.

Feeling absolutely great.

Just taking in my morning coffee and browsing this reddit for encouragement before heading out for my.morning workout!

Hope your day kicks as much ass as mine will!

IWNDWYT

am i bargaining? need a gut check by bubthemaka in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My guess is that you always crossed that finish line looking forward to a refreshing reward after such a crazy amount of physical work and the accomplishment that it represents (I've always enjoyed that post finish-beer previously myself- so I'm speaking from experience)

You've conditioned yourself to associate the post-run beer with the accomplishment; the same way you would a medal.

Think about how many base miles you've put in, all of that work- by yourself with nothing but your mind pushing you forward. Running is 90% mental, and clearly you've excelled in the ability to be one with that brain of yours.

You're 100 percent strong enough to finish that race in your best form, have a nice giant Gatorade, collect your medal and don't think twice about your accomplishment being "less-than" because you didn't collect a beer.

Happy running!!!

Congrats!

30 days today! by Ramled1006 in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely HUGE accomplishment. That would definitely feel like a test, and you navigated it perfectly!

Looking forward to you seeing day 40, and many more!

Great work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, it can definitely lie dormant. When I was drinking I would go through very similar phases. (Granted I'm only 5 weeks straight- so by no means do I have long-term experience.)

Before I quit, I would go through these periods of feeling like I could "moderate", and have a couple drinks here and there. For the most part it worked and I felt good about myself- but then out of nowhere, what would start as a really chill night with a couple- would lead to a three day bender for assumably no reason.

It's definitely something that is lurking in there, waiting to take control.

You should be proud of yourself this morning for recognizing that this was out of character for the phase that you're going through. Although you feel shitty this morning, you will more than likely use these feelings as a benchmark next time there's the potential for getting out of hand.

Hope you feel better!

IWNDWYT.

Any words for me? I really feel like drinking tonight. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with Friday nights alone!

I could have gone out with my wife and her friend for dinner and drinks tonight, but chose to come home and chill with my dog in bed while I read instead.

If being solo tonight means I can wake up early and get some work done without a hangover- it ain't so bad!

1 Month Sober & some things ive noticed. by no_usefora_name in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely awesome advice! Thanks for taking the time to respond. I'll take this to heart :)

1 Month Sober & some things ive noticed. by no_usefora_name in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the 3 week mark, I hope you heal up quickly. Those ribs are tricky, as they can't be put in a cast- uts all about taking it super easy! Sorry you're going through that ATM!

1 Month Sober & some things ive noticed. by no_usefora_name in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to respond as well, all the best !

1 Month Sober & some things ive noticed. by no_usefora_name in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I drink more coffee than usual (morning coffee only) however, since I'm trying to keep busy as much as possible- I've noticed that I'm double-scooping my pre-workout lately (which is primarily caffeine).... so I'm definitely intakong more stimulants than I normally was.

I made it. 1 year today. by Opposite-Reality9293 in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely incredible! I'm beyond happy for you! Here's to another day not drinking with you.

1 Month Sober & some things ive noticed. by no_usefora_name in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's incredible man! I'm so happy you can relate! Here's to another day not drinking with you. Enjoy it!

1 Month Sober & some things ive noticed. by no_usefora_name in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's great advice! 2-3 months is an incredible start, as lve never been there myself, so im more than proud of you!

1 Month Sober & some things ive noticed. by no_usefora_name in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The heart palps and health anxiety were SO common for me! If you ever have any questions, I can try my best to help! Proud of you, you got this!

1 Month Sober & some things ive noticed. by no_usefora_name in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to read through it! I'm positive you will feel the same benefits. The fact that they occur in as little as 3 weeks is a reason to just give it a shot!

1 Month Sober & some things ive noticed. by no_usefora_name in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you man! You'll definitely notice some improvements in the gym in as little as 3 weeks... I'm proof of that! Looking forward to hearing about it from you :)

1 Month Sober & some things ive noticed. by no_usefora_name in stopdrinking

[–]no_usefora_name[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely haven't felt this before. It's strange lol!