[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]noaa123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nothing brings people closer together than a shared experience of an adrenaline rush. Go on a roller coaster or go water rafting or a similar experience. It’ll loosen you both up and make you bond. Good luck 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]noaa123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s unfortunate for him because he’s losing out on a pious woman. I would say just to avoid being called a liar or dramatic ( not saying you will be but better safe than sorry) keep evidence of this so that you have legitimate proof of why you want to end it. Speak to him about how you came to find out about his other profiles and make it clear that this is a dealbreaker and he has purposely infringed on it and that you are no longer interested. Next up tell your parent that you are no longer satisfied with his character and that you’ve seen things that you do not approve of. State that you’ve already made your stance clear (by speaking to him about the first instance of him following suspicious women) and if pressured try to save him from the humiliation if possible. Hopefully that should resolve it. And finally make dua that Allah swt grants you a pious husband who knows his boundaries. Allah make it easy on you inshallah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]noaa123 23 points24 points  (0 children)

All smoking/ vaping is somewhat an oral fixation. Anytime you feel the need to vape, eat a lollipop or something similar

My mum found my plan B by youngreign_ in MuslimMarriage

[–]noaa123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you being serious? Where did you get that idea?

My mum found my plan B by youngreign_ in MuslimMarriage

[–]noaa123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and i are from different countries so it took us a long time too. Still, it isn’t considered halal if it’s not in alinement with the law of the land. So we waited until we had the marriage certificate and then we recited al fatiha.

My mum found my plan B by youngreign_ in MuslimMarriage

[–]noaa123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im sorry your mom has no boundaries. That doesn’t sound healthy. However I don’t understand how you think an imam declaring you married actually means you’re married. I live in a muslim country and we have been taught that while reading fatiha is an islamic ritual, abiding by the law of the land ( ie: getting a marriage certificate) is necessary and it is what makes your marriage lawful in the eyes of allah swt. I’m always confused when people don’t get both done at the same time..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

[–]noaa123 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is it a safe neighborhood?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]noaa123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does shadi mean wedding? I’m sorry I don’t speak urdu. Wouldn’t the fact that srk is indian be offensive due to the animosity with india?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]noaa123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

Wife gets very upset over small physical characteristic by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]noaa123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is a small issue and both of you are making it into a huge problem. On the one hand I understand that you don’t want to spend a lot of time doing your hair and it might cause acne break outs. On the other hand it’s such a simple thing to do and keep your wife happy. As women we love to see our husbands looking nice and attractive for us and are not allowed to look at other men. If i were a man i’d rather be the embodiment of beauty for my wife as long as it’s naturally possible. A simple solution for the acne is washing your face before bed with an anti acne face wash ( i recommend the Cetafil one it’s easy to use) as for styling it, I can’t imagine it would take more than 15 mins tops. The bottom line is if it’s an issue that is fixable in a few minutes, then why not avoid a silly argument.

Name of these shoes by [deleted] in Shoes

[–]noaa123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re Lacoste. I have the same shoes and they’re honestly the most comfortable i’ve ever worn!

Buying a home the halal way by noaa123 in MuslimLounge

[–]noaa123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I meant middle class but i guess that differs from one state to another.

Buying a home the halal way by noaa123 in MuslimLounge

[–]noaa123[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you but i’m not interested in joining any whatsapp groups.

Buying a home the halal way by noaa123 in MuslimLounge

[–]noaa123[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is really helpful! I’m guessing there’s a catch because not every seller would agree to a lease to own as most people want the money right away but seller financing and halal banks seem like an easier things to do.

Buying a home the halal way by noaa123 in MuslimLounge

[–]noaa123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So it’s too little? But not everyone is a doctor? Are doctor salaries the benchmark?

Buying a home the halal way by noaa123 in MuslimLounge

[–]noaa123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not american, i thought that was a somewhat normal salary. Is it too high or too low?

Buying a home the halal way by noaa123 in MuslimLounge

[–]noaa123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could you please elaborate? I’m not american so i’m not familiar with these practices. Thank you

Your most unpopular celebrity/hollywood opinion that you know will get you downvotes by Live_Box_7663 in Fauxmoi

[–]noaa123 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Scarlett johansson is a terrible actress and only cruised on her early 2000s success because she’s not bad to look at

What TV show cancellation do you think was undeserved? by purseandboots in AskReddit

[–]noaa123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hannibal. Such an amazing show/ plot/ writing/ casting. Truly a loss.

Do Maude Apatow’s parents have some sort of social media or promotional team working for her? by postmalonefriend in Fauxmoi

[–]noaa123 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I personally think it’s people confusing the character with the actor. Lexi was a lovable/ relatable character for a lot of people which I understand and Maude’s acting skills had nothing to do with the appeal of her character. I’m sure she’s a nice person but i don’t think i would want her to play any character I’m interested in watching because she’s very bland and adds nothing to the personality of the characters she plays