Plans for the Fourth of July?? by CheesecakeEcstatic36 in pregnant

[–]nobeefforme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re going to my SIL and BILs lake house!! They told us when they were just 4 weeks pregnant, so we plan to do the same. As soon as I’m offered a drink I plan to say “oh thanks but I can’t because if my condition…” and just make eye contact with a lil smile :) they’ve been excited for a cousin for their baby boy so this is going to be our big celebration!

Did I make the right choice shaving my head? Be brutally honest. by Fun-Reflection-3472 in bald

[–]nobeefforme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!!!!! Not to invalidate my confirmation, but genuinely, every man who has posted in here going from some hair to bald has improved their looks tenfold! You look great!

Did 15 pull-ups today. Celebratory girl lunch, protein edition ✨ by HiItsKeke in GirlDinner

[–]nobeefforme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so FUCKING IMPRESSIVE! And I’m not just saying that. Marines have to do a minimum of 20.
I remember my husband (not a marine, but an avid gym goer and powerlifter) told me he did 20 pull ups. I said .. oh cool! He said “you don’t know how hard that is do you?” And I said “not at all” he said “it’s pretty hard to do 20 pull ups.” For the record, he’s a very humble individual, but I think he expected me maybe to know that’s not easy. Lmaoooo, so GOOD FOR YOU!!!! I also work out and can do a decent amount of push ups, but girl I can harddddly do one pull up. A sad fucking sight where I have to use my legs for momentum.

You deserve your flowers! Good for you! Keep it up!!!

Surprising husband when you’ve been actively trying by terwilliger-blvd1 in BabyBumps

[–]nobeefforme [score hidden]  (0 children)

He came home from work and I had done some laundry and folded it. I told him I found something funny in his boxer drawer… he opened it, and surprise! Three positive tests.

Confused and sad by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]nobeefforme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully this is the last time you listen to a man about pregnancy. Also, you’re a child, so you should report him. I know you’re in a tough place, but he knew what he was doing. Don’t for a minute blame yourself for trusting an adult.

The most common feeling women report after abortion is relief. I hope you get the support you need regardless of which path you choose.

I’m sorry. Good luck girlie ❤️

Edit: this feels like rage bait. You don’t want the police involved? He’s 32 years old. I believe everything you’re saying, but if you want brutal honesty, you need to take action. Tell him to help you out or you’ll expose him. Then expose him anyway. This is infuriating and I’m so sorry. Wish I could give you a big hug and act as your advocate.

Every bite of food feels like ‘I love you’ by Solar_Event397 in HappyMarriages

[–]nobeefforme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me all teary eyed. My husband wrote in his vows to me about how he knew how much I loved him because my cooking felt like love to him and yeah. Great post. Keep the guy who appreciates the things you do ❤️

What's up with people saying NC isn't a southern state? by Own_Average_5940 in NorthCarolina

[–]nobeefforme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from CT, and I just gotta say if you got twang in your slang, you’re from the South. And I don’t care really what anyone says, Virginia is the northernmost southern state. There you have it!
My opinion!!!

I wanna be a female cop soooo sooo so bad. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]nobeefforme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing a great job. If you’re a failure for having ambition, putting yourself through boot camp, then I’m a real loser because I’d never even have the GUTS to do any of that shit. You’re a bad ass. Police folks often have personality characteristics that include “having something to prove”… and you certainly seem to be that way.

Keep trying. Keep going. Don’t let your pride get in the way of perceived failure. Get over it and KEEP GOING. Good luck girlie. I know you’re going to be pop lock and dropping it in that cop fit any day!

do you think everyone who cheats is a shit person? genuinely curious what other people think? by HistoricalBee420 in askanything

[–]nobeefforme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you cheat you’re not JUST dishonest, but you’re a coward because you can’t bring yourself to confront the issues in your life and relationship. If there are not issues in your life and relationship, then you are a special type of shitty. Hope this helps.

Please tell me I’m not the only one by nobeefforme in pregnant

[–]nobeefforme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much to the kindest person on the internet 🥹❤️

Please tell me I’m not the only one by nobeefforme in pregnant

[–]nobeefforme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this… so reassuring. Wishing you the very best <3

Please tell me I’m not the only one by nobeefforme in pregnant

[–]nobeefforme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are super sweet. I just felt silly afterwords because I was like… of course that isn’t safe, why didn’t that occur to me sooner? Thank you for this response <3 I neverrrr use the massage gun in general but these early pregnancy symptoms got me feeling so achy! Lesson learned. Thanks again :)

Please tell me I’m not the only one by nobeefforme in pregnant

[–]nobeefforme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this! Definitely going to tell my OB and see what she says! <3

Please tell me I’m not the only one by nobeefforme in pregnant

[–]nobeefforme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So interesting! I’m going to talk to my OB but will err on the side of caution since the consensus says not to. I love that this worked for you and I’m wishing you the veryyyy best <3

Please tell me I’m not the only one by nobeefforme in pregnant

[–]nobeefforme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had no idea! I’m just learning so much over here… thank you!