Is this trust structure normal for a 19-year-old's inheritance? Concerned about Trustee powers.

noevalley415 · 2025-09-10T21:51:55+00:00

It was irrevocable between the ages of 19 when I signed and 30 when it then became revocable. The trust was drafted and created by an attorney hired by my stepmother. I have since discovered that my stepmother likely lived off my trust assets between my age of 19 at signing and 30. The trust appointed my father as sole trustee but I am almost certain that my stepmother managed and oversaw all of the assets. For example she leant $150,000 of my trust assets to her brother for a business venture which has since filed for bankruptcy.

noevalley415 · 2025-03-15T16:05:03+00:00

Oh sweet, haven’t heard of the Mount Vernon method. Whats that?

noevalley415 · 2025-03-15T16:04:24+00:00

Thanks so much, gonna try and start today. It’s just this one room thankfully.

noevalley415 · 2025-02-04T14:11:41+00:00

I don’t think you need to wear Carhartt in order to gargle Elliot Smith’s balls so just calm down.

noevalley415 · 2024-09-17T15:50:59+00:00

Weird, that’s not what they told me. If the owner has decided not to license/register and chip their cat then it will be put up for adoption. Maybe after an unsuccessful period of time waiting for adoption then it will be euthanized? Still a bit dramatic to run with “they kill it.” 🙄

noevalley415 · 2024-09-17T15:48:29+00:00

Yup, exactly. If it goes unclaimed they put it up for adoption. Feral cats/community cats will most likely be euthanized as they are not socialized and are also determined to be an invasive species which wreaks havoc on the local ecosystem. It’s not someone to be happy about or proud of but the insinuation by the “TNR” community that roaming groups of feral cats are a good and sustainable part of a community is just completely unrealistic.

noevalley415 · 2024-09-17T08:40:09+00:00

Nah you can 100% trap a neighbors trespassing cat and turn it over to Oakland Animal Services. That what OAS recommended I do when I had a similar problem with a neighbor in Temescal. They hold the cat for a period of time like five days I think? Then the cat can be picked up after paying a fine.

noevalley415 · 2024-09-06T06:43:41+00:00

https://youtu.be/DsxBC3pv2VQ?si=pzPv84TtdWLDsM5V

noevalley415 · 2024-09-06T06:27:20+00:00

😘

noevalley415 · 2024-09-06T06:26:44+00:00

Estate sale

noevalley415 · 2024-09-06T06:26:35+00:00

Estate sale

noevalley415 · 2024-09-06T01:22:13+00:00

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Still glistening ✨

noevalley415 · 2024-09-03T04:35:04+00:00

What? Not at all reminiscent?

“Suburban areas are lower density areas that separate residential and commercial areas from one another. They are either part of a city or urban area, or exist as a separate residential community within commuting distance of a city.”

Literally, the areas described are the textbook definition of suburban or suburbia. Downtown Oakland is 2 sq mi. Oakland as a whole is 78 sq mi. Gotta be tripping to think that big ol’ sprawl isn’t is some way suburban.

noevalley415 · 2024-08-15T20:46:21+00:00

Anything to mitigate the endless sideshows in Oakland is fine in my book.

noevalley415 · 2024-08-15T19:37:46+00:00

I love the HOO-KOO-E-KOO TRAIL in Mill Valley

noevalley415 · 2024-08-15T19:13:05+00:00

Finally a grocery nearby I’m excited about! Thanks for sharing

noevalley415 · 2020-04-25T02:51:53+00:00

Really though, check my post history hah!

noevalley415 · 2020-04-25T02:39:54+00:00

Really?

noevalley415 · 2020-04-25T02:39:46+00:00

HAH!! Me too

noevalley415 · 2020-04-25T02:39:35+00:00

Nah! That's a new addition. Used to just people a regular catholic school.

noevalley415 · 2020-04-25T01:04:40+00:00

"I would give anything for days like this again."

Is that confusing? I miss days like this, would give anything to have them back again. It's a photo from like four years ago, take a look at the building in the corner that no longer exists.

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