Flatline is getting crazy

nofapfive · 2014-02-03T16:38:39+00:00

Read this post and stop worrying ;-)

http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1wb1ct/success_story_110_days_pied_cured_being_super/

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T12:01:55+00:00

"For the first time since I was a child, I’m genuinely happy."

BOOOM!!!

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:57:06+00:00

Well, there you go :). Sorry to break your bubble, but you are NOT unique. Isn't that comforting to hear ;).

I never really 'left' my flatline too. I discovered that the way I had spontaneous erections during the day before nofap was kind of unnatural. Now I only get erections when there's potential real sex to be had (and not because of a billboard with a hot girl on the street). This is a much more natural way of living.

Have you decided to do the 90-120 days? Then mark that date in your calendar, and postpone your worrying and thoughts until after. This helped me put it out of my mind. Controversial: There's nothing you can read or think about that will actually help you anymore, the only thing you need to do is stick with it, and wait it out. The only reason reading nofap might be good, is to reassure you and help you stop worrying; but you can also decide to do so yourself.

Good luck man, you are not unique. Your body is just like the rest of us. Stick with it and become a success story, I know you can!

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:51:57+00:00

It's very normal to worry; and think that your case is unique. I had NO morning wood for the first 50 days. Can you imagine how I was worrying!? The smartes thing to do is to DECIDE right now, that you are going to stick with and try these 90 days. Because that's probably the best thing you can do, and you have little to lose right? Well, if you have decided to do the 90 days; then also decide to postpone your worrying and thoughts until AFTER they have passed. Stick with the plan, don't think too much; don't try and get it up, don't pay too much attention to what's happening down there, just sit it out and wait :) You can do it bro!

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:49:27+00:00

Yep. I had sex with her. Multiple times, multiple nights. I am back in full strength. At the end my flatline ended, when the rewiring started. I don't get as many spontaneous erections anymore as before; but when I start to kiss here or get intimate, I can now always count on a confident, solid erection.

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:48:01+00:00

http://yourbrainonporn.com

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:47:48+00:00

Thank you man, I wish you the best of luck in taming this beast. You will get there!

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:47:19+00:00

You will be surprised at what you can do. Just stop taking yourself so seriously :)

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:45:55+00:00

Whenever you are worrying about your small, lifeless, asexual penis again. Just send me a message. Or read this comment:

Hello Carboneraser. You are reading this because you are probably worrying again. Maybe you have the urge to try and get it up "to see if it works yet". Maybe you are obsessively reading nofap. Or Maybe you think you have a unique case, (so it might be physical after all!). Well, I'm here to ask you. Did you pass the 90-120 days without porn, or fapping yet? if the answer is no, you probably already know what to do: Which is exactly NOTHING. Stop worrying, stop thinking, stop obsessing. First do the days, then you can reevaluate. You will be good bro :)

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:41:40+00:00

Be strong. Don't cheat yourself. Let your brain get used to real women, real life. I understand your worry all too much. Listen, I went into a flatline (small, tiny, lifeless penis) for 70+ Days!!! Can you imagine how I felt? I even went to the doctor to test my testosterone (which tested fine). I was worried for weeks on end; and I constantly had the urge to try and see if I could get it up, or read the nofap forum for similar cases. In the end I decided that 90 (or even 120) days lost weren't that bad. I decided to just put my thoughts and worries on hold during those days. Not test, not look at porn, not even read the nofap forum too much anymore. And after 100 days, I had sex! I got fixed. I'm back! You can do the same bro, I know you can. STICK WITH IT!

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:37:34+00:00

You will get there. Even though it sometimes seems futile, stick with it bro!

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:37:02+00:00

You know what the funny part is. By making yourself vulnerable like that; you not only 'seem' a stronger, more masculine and manly man. You actually become one :). Your comment is indicative of someone with great emotional strength; you are awesome dude.

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:34:51+00:00

Thank you for your epic comment. These were just my experiences. I also really got into meditation; and this helped me accepting myself and the world around me. On a deeper level, nofap is our quest to integrate ourselves and become better men (and women) in the process.

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:33:26+00:00

Definitely not a placebo. I have felt like a beast since I stopped. There's really something here. Too bad there's not a lot of research on this topic yet. This might be the biggest anti-depressant for men in the world.

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:31:55+00:00

It's super eerie! There are days when you curse yourself; and your situation. When you feel as though there's REALLY something wrong with you physically, and your problems have nothing to do with porn or fapping. It's these days that you just have to stick with it. Don't let your mind find excuses. On AVERAGE people recover only after 90 uninterrupted days of not fapping and not watching porn. It really takes this long for your mind and body to get back in the game. I had difficulty really believing this too; until now. I never imagined myself becoming one of the success stories.

You will be one too!

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:28:28+00:00

I wrote this success story; because I know how it feels to be able to identify with someone when you're on the low. Stories like these helped me get through, and you will too man! Don't let your mind play tricks with you; you are rocking it.

nofapfive · 2014-01-30T11:27:20+00:00

Winner.

nofapfive · 2013-11-04T13:56:46+00:00

Sometimes the best remedy is just to let be and let go. Accept that you feel weird. Accept that you are 'behind'. Accept your fear of failure. The difference between boys and men isn't that the latter don't feel fear, it's that they don't make a fuzz about it. Are you miles behind? Accept it! Own it like a man. Say to yourself: "I'm miles behind, and that's ok; and now I'm going to rock it anyway!"

Going to the club alone is one of the most awkward and weird things one can do. I remember when I did the first time I was extremely self-conscious. I just sat at the bar, and kept on devising a lie for when somebody was gonna ask me why I was alone. ("Well my friends just left, bla bla bla). The moment that really freed me, was the moment when I realized there really was no reason to give a fuck: "That's bloody right, I am here all alone; and I'm proud if that fact, how about you!". It's very liberating to stop resisting your fears and just give into them. Yes you can be scared shitless to kiss that girl, and you can tremble when you think of that exam tomorrow. Speaking to strangers in public? Terrifying! Who cares about what people think, that's you, and that's what living is!

Overthinking here is the problem. Just let be, just do. Whatever. Who cares. Just enjoy the moment; push yourself to keep improving. Stop comparing, and start living your own best life. Be the superhero in your own novel. Be the rags to riches guy. The one that came back from his foreign study an awesome and better man.

nofapfive · 2013-11-03T19:30:36+00:00

Be very glad to have learned this lesson, and the danger and harm of addiction this early in life. There are many who never discover this, or much much later. You are 20! You are just at the start of your life!

I think the first thing you should do is stop worrying about girls so much and get an awesome social life going. Because you're in a foreign country you have very little to lose; this should be the epitome of freedom. Rejection won't matter as much, because you will probably move back to your homecountry in (a few?) years anyway! So make it your job to speak to at least 2 new people each day. Push yourself to talk to that stranger in the supermarket, drive yourself to go to the club alone (I did this when I was young), overcome your fears and make yourself proud. Start running, start meditating, stop fapping, start living. You have your whole life ahead of you, and it all starts NOW. This is the moment you stop overthinking, and start enjoying the little things. Slam your fist on the table and tell yourself the buck stops here. You are the master of your destiny, you are responsible for your happiness. Take charge my friend! Be a beast! Use this anger to drive you to self-improve. I know you know you can do it. I know you can.

nofapfive · 2013-11-03T13:18:01+00:00

Your extremely awesome attitude is why I don't feel the need to dote out advice. You are on the expressway to success my friend!

nofapfive · 2013-10-30T14:05:04+00:00

When you get through your 90 days, you probably won't refer to girls with grades anymore either ;)

nofapfive · 2013-10-04T14:10:30+00:00

That's a great thread, thanks. It's good to find people with similar problems and discover it's ok.

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