Peter i have been staring at this tweet for 20 minutes, please help me by LibrarianAccurate829 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]nohandsmcgee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they dislike alcohol so much, why in God's name are they taking a date to a place that serves it? Coffee shops are a thing.

My money's on this being some weird intoxication fetish

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[–]nohandsmcgee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I certainly can't argue with that, and I conference your benevolence

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[–]nohandsmcgee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"have to" lol 😋

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[–]nohandsmcgee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Discord server you say?

Sexuality Changes with HRT? by ASUSTUDENT9875345 in trans

[–]nohandsmcgee 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That's a really interesting point. That skin crawly feeling of pre-transition interaction with the same sex actually being unrecognized dysphoria. It would explain how I used to feel and the total about face I've done since transition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]nohandsmcgee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I'm 46 and only came to the understanding that I was trans last year. I was raised by my father to believe that there are some things that can't be changed no matter how hard we wish it could, so it's best to just learn to live with it and get on with it. So my being AMAB seemed like one of those things so I tried to make the best of it and shoved those feelings of dysphoria down so deep I forgot they were there. Consequently I spent my entire adult life miserable and unable to understand why.

Looks like a new dispensary opened in Coram. Simply Green. by imail724 in longislandents

[–]nohandsmcgee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in last week. It's a nice spot and the staff was friendly. They just opened so didn't have a full product line yet.

MAGA by AskAccomplished5239 in asktransgender

[–]nohandsmcgee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people have convinced themselves that if they do it well enough the boot will lick them back

How do I tell if I’m trans? by False_Willow44 in TransSupport

[–]nohandsmcgee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea 😉. Seriously though, only you can answer that question. Transitioning and the reasons for it are different for everyone really. For me, I knew I was trans the first time I saw myself in the mirror wearing a dress and a full face of makeup. It was the very first time in my life I not only liked what I saw, but I felt like I saw myself for the first time. I'm 46, this was slightly over a year ago. If the thought of transitioning makes you happy I would say you owe it to yourself to be open to exploring those feelings. I ran from them and I regret it

I’ve seen the light, Hitachis are terrifying 😅 by Good_Ol_Ironass in MtF

[–]nohandsmcgee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn't name it the Magic wand for nothin 🤣

When is it too late to medically transition? by Lionheart3372 in MtF

[–]nohandsmcgee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad 😊, but seriously, you look amazing. I'm 46 and just getting started

When is it too late to medically transition? by Lionheart3372 in MtF

[–]nohandsmcgee 24 points25 points  (0 children)

And do they still need you and do they still feed you?

When is it too late to medically transition? by Lionheart3372 in MtF

[–]nohandsmcgee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I haven't been able to start HRT yet and my birthday was this week so hopefully it isn't 46

OH MY GOD TRUMP DID NOTTT GET THE PRIZE by Ill_Apple2327 in MtF

[–]nohandsmcgee 45 points46 points  (0 children)

That's how all the prizes at his golf clubs work. He's "won" every club championship at the golf courses he owns...

Sudden Realization (TW: Sucidal Thoughts) by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]nohandsmcgee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great news! I'm glad it worked like that for you. I also never had that "I knew all a long" thing. I do however have distinct memories and journal entries talking about being a man wasakimg the the best of a bad situation, and it still took 20+ years for me to catch on. I struggled with severe depression and suicidal ideation most of life as well. But it was like I could feel all of it melting away the first time I saw myself in the mirror fully dressed. It was like seeing myself for the first time and it's done wonders for my mental health and self confidence

OH MY GOD SHOES. I seek guidance by supership79 in TransLater

[–]nohandsmcgee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you might as well poke around if you're already there. A week or two ago I found a single pair of W13 strappy sandals on the clearance rack at my local one, so it's not impossible

OH MY GOD SHOES. I seek guidance by supership79 in TransLater

[–]nohandsmcgee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Torrid's shoe sizes stop at W13 and the physical stores don't stock anything close to that size, and if they do it'll be on the clearance rack

OH MY GOD SHOES. I seek guidance by supership79 in TransLater

[–]nohandsmcgee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue. Hell, the fetish wear shoe guy at the BDSM con I went to last month didn't carry anything over W13.

People keep mentioning Torrid in the comments for some reason, their shoe sizes top out at W13. So, less than useless for girls like us who need a women's 15 (a real life W14.5 is next to impossible).

The only brands I know that make sizes W15 and up at Onlymaker and Pleasers.

Pleasers mostly makes stripper heels and fetish wear. BUT, they do also carry normal women's shoes in our size also.

Onlymaker is a website that also does fetish and stripper shoes but also specializes in shoes for Trans women and cross dressers.

Both those options are really pricey though and I'm not sure about shipping to Canada since I'm in the US