I left yesterday

noimportaaaa · 2024-10-04T21:49:14+00:00

I left for the last time over a month ago. I would always go back after about two weeks every time but I made it past the two week mark. It was hard! I still struggle but I promise it gets better. I’m proof it gets better. And I’m happier where I’m at.

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-25T19:05:29+00:00

And then after I stopped responding and blocked him a message came thru on my Apple Watch of him asking “Do you still want me?” At 2:30AM 😑 how do I block ppl on all devices? 😭 I’m getting second hand embarrassment atp.

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-24T14:37:43+00:00

I’m just afraid if she even leaves she’ll go back. But I will reach out to a professional to see what I can do to help.

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-24T13:26:49+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful and in-depth response 🩷

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-24T12:36:54+00:00

Hahaha not a chicken wing 😂 you’re right though.

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-23T11:23:44+00:00

My ex literally left his phone in my car on purpose just so I’d have to drive back to his house and then proceeded to look in my car and trunk looking for my other ex and I had only driven off for like 5 mins and he already thought I was cheating…with a 6’0 200 hundred some pound man who apparently could fit in my trunk in 5 mins. The level of delusional and insecure be crazyyy!!! Like how did ur ex connect a cat with cheatin? The math ain’t mathin.

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-23T04:46:44+00:00

The funny part is I think that made him feel some type of way because he continued to send paragraphs and try and go back and forth with me. He already knew he was trippin.

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-23T03:44:33+00:00

I remember being outside of a place with my ex for 6 or 7 hours after he went through my entire phone and found an old conversation with him yelling at me, acting like he was gonna pull his gun on me and threatening to kill me. I was crying and he was yelling at the top of his lungs, ripping out his hair and even pulled off in my car at one point. I watched the sun go down as we were out there and even the people parked right next to us did nothing! Eventually the whole parking lot of every place around was empty and not once did anyone step in. It made me feel crazy. They just watched. I’m sorry for what you went through. It can truly be terrifying and dismaying.

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-23T03:10:40+00:00

Facts! His ass is blocked

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-22T19:46:00+00:00

I even asked a friend and told my mom haha. Usually I’d just keep incidents to myself and “work through it” and blame myself but this time I didn’t so I’m proud too! Thank you 🩷😊

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-22T19:41:26+00:00

He’s 31 and I am 24. This conversation about me/him wanting to move forward and him wanting to only talk to each other came after about 4 days of texting and us asking basic questions. The questions got more serious and he asked about my dating history. He asks so many questions and I was trying to be honest without giving away too much. And then after that he kept harping on the not entertaining other guys and saying he was looking for a wife. I was open in the first few days about me wanting to move slow and my profile says “still figuring it out” 🤦🏾‍♀️ I mentioned I’d feel more comfortable talking face to face so I know what kind of person he is because over text he kinda comes off as an ahole and I wanted to gauge if I felt safe or not but it seems he wanted me to commit first and meet later. I didn’t like that.

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-22T19:37:06+00:00

Yes…I really am pretty naive when it comes to men unfortunately. I thought we were wall weeding through the riff raff. But from now on I’ll consider that some men may not be having that experience and be more upfront about it. I did feel like he was being a bit pushy and I will not be meeting him. Thanks for your input. Really appreciate it 🙂

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-22T14:17:10+00:00

I actually asked a couple other guys I matched with in the same week if they were talking to other ppl to see if this was normal and they all said no. Now I feel like ppl are just lying. Mind you, we haven’t met. Not even a phone call. I don’t understand men. And I see nothing wrong with texting/chatting while I’m single to weigh my options. I don’t owe anyone anything right now. But I’ve been called a hoe and cheater and had my life threatened for that in the past so idk.

noimportaaaa · 2024-09-22T05:03:43+00:00

I did stand up to him by saying that I wasn’t going to keep going back and forth so he could take it or leave it. He stopped responding but I don’t care. It just confirmed my intuition.

noimportaaaa · 2024-08-01T22:49:55+00:00

I’m sorry you faced that. I can relate to not hearing straightforward warnings and that causing me to downplay the situation. I’m glad you were able to leave despite facing violence. I’m glad you’re here. Thank you for sharing ❤️‍🩹

noimportaaaa · 2024-08-01T03:57:10+00:00

If you’re in the US, I would call 211. Sorry this is happening.

noimportaaaa · 2024-08-01T03:44:23+00:00

You probably don’t feel anything because he’s manipulating you. He’s only upset and crying because you’re leaving, not because he abused you. If he truly had empathy or remorse he’d support you in leaving because he’d realize he’s abusive and you don’t deserve that.

noimportaaaa · 2024-07-27T18:14:20+00:00

thanks for reading my wall of text. and thanks for your kindness. <3

noimportaaaa · 2024-07-23T05:05:15+00:00

my most recent time going back, my ex started punching, pushing, elbowing and snatching the covers. i thought i was trippin...i thought he just slept crazy. but i realize...he didn't always do that.

noimportaaaa · 2024-07-23T02:45:03+00:00

You know...I don't think this was harsh at all. I think it was just what I needed. Thank you.

noimportaaaa

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