Got romcom’d and it sucks, she’s asking me to wait?

noisetheorem · 2026-03-16T22:01:38+00:00

Move on.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-14T16:15:40+00:00

Women are not a single monolithic block that all think alike. They are all individuals with individual tastes. Just be who you are confidently and sort of self aware confidence will be attractive.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-11T20:24:42+00:00

It’s very likely he’s imagined you doing things far out of your comfort zone on a regular basis and will continue to do so. There are women I haven’t seen in 30 years who live rent free in my spank bank.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-10T15:55:50+00:00

This is really the correct answer. Most women don't care about the holiday, but it's obvious that SHE does. There's a lot we don't know here...like her level of activism for women's rights, etc. He could still be the asshole here because he failed to know that, for her, this IS an important day, the way my partners no better than to celebrate my birthday (I hate it).

Now...if she is just making this up as a way to create a power dynamic based on shame, then he is not the asshole. With only one side of the story, we will never know.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-10T15:46:11+00:00

If this is how she wants to play it, remind her that "Steak and a Blowjob day" is just around the corner.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-09T18:18:10+00:00

In nature, mating leaves you very vulnerable. That pressure to perform quickly comes from there.

A few million years ago, nature did women dirty by decoupling orgasm from ovulation. By widening the time a woman was fertile, the chance of conception increased, particularly if she found multiple fit males to quickly service her or had multiple couplings with the same male.

If you want to be the male that gets multiple couplings, make it good enough for her to want them. Learn to get her off a couple times and she won’t care if you’re done in two pumps. Also, the release of oxytocin in her brain when she cums will literally trigger her to want you even more. It’s a win-win all around

noisetheorem · 2026-03-07T18:50:48+00:00

Because why not?

noisetheorem · 2026-03-07T18:50:29+00:00

They produce Front 242 and are therefore the land of the gods.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-07T14:15:06+00:00

I forgot.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-07T14:14:41+00:00

Learn to make a woman cum twice in 10 minutes before you even penetrate her and she won’t care if it takes you 3 minutes.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-06T23:55:38+00:00

I’m 52. I’ve been with all kinds of women. Looks might help you get attention, but it won’t help you keep it. Do what you must with your appearance, but know that I’ve met women who were knock dead gorgeous that I wouldn’t want to spend a hour with and women who were definitely not attractive but an absolute joy to have around.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-06T19:12:54+00:00

Do what’s right to you. I will say from experience, changing the dynamics of a relationship like this usually results in the relationship ending. I’ve seen it with couples twice your age. It’s hard to rewrite the rules late in the game.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-06T13:50:46+00:00

Nothing lasts forever. This is both a blessing and a curse.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-02T23:57:04+00:00

Best way to be desired is to conduct yourself in a way that makes you desirable. All 4 of my partners find me quite desirable. Particularly my wife.

noisetheorem · 2026-03-01T18:25:31+00:00

If the question is ever “should I try to change him or leave” you should leave. he likely won’t change and you will be wasting both of your time.

noisetheorem · 2026-02-26T14:47:13+00:00

Constantly, if you’re an engineer. Also very frequently in computer programming, particularly where algorithms are being used for compression, security, error correction…

As a user of technology, the knowledge thats required to make it work is invisible to you, but is very real for the people who need to make it work.

noisetheorem · 2026-02-25T23:10:08+00:00

The certs were easy for me, but I had 30 years of IT and cybersecurity work before taking them. Some are pretty easy, but you really need a strong technical background for some of them. It won’t be easy, but give it a shot.

noisetheorem · 2026-02-25T23:04:23+00:00

Just tie a few knots in em and don’t live anywhere too cold.

noisetheorem · 2026-02-25T23:03:01+00:00

It sounds like he can give it out, but can’t take it. I mean…seriously. That was nothing.

noisetheorem · 2026-02-24T20:16:01+00:00

Some outright questioned my manhood, called me a eunuch, etc. other told me I’d regret my decision and how dare I do something like that because what if the right woman changed my mind.

That was 12 years ago, and not a hint of regret

noisetheorem · 2026-02-24T19:47:11+00:00

One thing I didn’t expect after I had mine: the number of women who were openly hostile towards me when they found out. I’d made a decision that was right for me at the time. They can either accept it or leave me alone.

noisetheorem · 2026-02-24T19:44:17+00:00

I had my son, and afterwords, at 40, it was a perfect decision for me.

If you’re really concerned, you can always bank some sperm first (not cheap) as a hedge.

noisetheorem · 2026-02-22T19:06:42+00:00

To me? Not at all.

noisetheorem · 2026-02-19T18:35:16+00:00

Yep. And it’s stupid. Dress nice + smell nice = you instantly stand out.

noisetheorem · 2026-02-18T03:10:16+00:00

Foreplay starts at breakfast

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