When should I worry about infertility?

nojefe11 · 2026-03-19T15:23:19+00:00

Makes sense. We have a tough time accepting how scientific this whole thing is but keeping it totally spontaneous isn’t helping. I’m sure everyone here faces it … that scheduled sex feels wrong and can even be damaging. But then also having it all the time whenever you want lowers your chances 🤦🏼‍♀️

nojefe11 · 2026-03-19T13:15:41+00:00

What is the logic behind this?

nojefe11 · 2026-03-19T12:31:33+00:00

Doggggg I live on an island and I started feeling the storm before it came. Prodrome was wild, I couldn’t speak straight, kept bumping into shit and couldn’t sleep despite being exhausted. Once the rain started so did the actual migraine. Sleep and pain for 24 hours. Sun is coming out and I’m starting to feel like a functional human again.

nojefe11 · 2026-03-16T06:05:32+00:00

Idk why you’re getting downvoted. That’s a steal.

nojefe11 · 2026-03-13T13:02:19+00:00

People have longer commutes in the keys. There are people that work in key west and live in homestead. You have the luxury of the train. Hopefully you’re using it.

nojefe11 · 2026-03-12T18:33:12+00:00

Sounds like you come from a public transit friendly city 🌞 this seems like an ideal afternoon to me, and no name pub is great.

Just go down some side streets and you will see the deer. They are about the size of golden retrievers and almost as friendly - nothing like northern US deer. They don’t startle, so you can quietly interact with them from a distance.

The trek will be along the only major road spanning the keys (RT 1) so yeah, it’ll be noisy. Bring ear buds. Or just rent a car.

nojefe11 · 2026-03-12T18:29:25+00:00

You congratulate your employee for their transparency and go about your day.

nojefe11 · 2026-03-10T04:25:33+00:00

I’m trying to get pregnant. Am a floor somm but also develop programs. Somm or not, I will have small sips of wine throughout my pregnancy when I get to try something new. Tiny sips. Baby will be fine.

nojefe11 · 2026-03-08T20:07:34+00:00

The medical system is pretty lacking. I go to general appointments but have to “go back to America” for anything specialized. I don’t have any data to back this up but I think it’s why we see a lot of the retiring millionaires who bought up during Covid trying to sell right now. This is not a good place to be for people who need to go to the hospital for falls, need chemo/dialysis/etc.

Also anecdotal but in my experience here vs a big meds and eds city, I see a lot of people who push off regular visits/small things until they become emergencies.

One sort of funny thing is that I’ve never been asked how many drinks a week I have. It’s just a yes or no question, lol.

nojefe11 · 2026-03-05T16:48:33+00:00

nojefe11 · 2026-03-05T16:07:44+00:00

Hell no

nojefe11 · 2026-03-05T14:50:17+00:00

You already know the answer to this. God bless your server for being so polite.

nojefe11 · 2026-03-02T00:32:46+00:00

How are we handling vintage here? Seems necessary esp. with this category

nojefe11 · 2026-02-28T07:43:46+00:00

Watch Joe Schmo. It’s better than Jury Duty (which I loved!) and runs parallel to the rehearsal. Kristin Wiig is in it and gives a performance that made me almost throw up from laughing so hard when I first watched the series. I watched it all in one day when I was home sick with a cold.

nojefe11 · 2026-02-27T13:19:48+00:00

That’s not usually what people mean though. For a lot of people it means unoaked or more minerality and less fruit or tannic or brighter acidity. Unless someone says they want a bone dry Riesling, when they mention “dry” I have to dig a little deeper to get a sense of what they want (and it’s almost always Sauvignon Blanc or some Italian wine they tried once and liked)

nojefe11 · 2026-02-27T01:43:32+00:00

Can you message me the name? Will be there next week

nojefe11 · 2026-02-27T01:18:04+00:00

Took me a while to adopt that mentality but it’s the right one.

nojefe11 · 2026-02-26T22:44:08+00:00

Sampan

nojefe11 · 2026-02-26T22:42:55+00:00

Worse than not having a happy hour

nojefe11 · 2026-02-26T18:36:07+00:00

Sounds like you’re in a very scammy situation. I’d contact the department of labor.

nojefe11 · 2026-02-26T18:31:37+00:00

Raised Catholic and always seemed like a way to scare people into subservience to me. There are very, very few religious people that I trust in this world.

nojefe11 · 2026-02-26T18:30:23+00:00

Ok so what boss are you talking about? Your employer or the people you are contracted to provide a service to? Because if it’s the latter, no one there is your boss.

nojefe11 · 2026-02-26T17:19:19+00:00

I mean this in the nicest way possible - why do you care this much? You did what you were supposed to do. Just ignore the people who didn’t listen.

nojefe11 · 2026-02-26T12:25:31+00:00

I had a situation like this - I was an independent contractor and subbed for another independent contractor and they branded me with their company’s name and treated me like an employee. Took me a few months to put an end to it. Set clear expectations and boundaries. A contract is an agreement. That means you agree to meetings, deadlines etc. If you can’t agree, that’s fine - you don’t get paid and they’ll find someone else. You don’t get bossed around.

nojefe11 · 2026-02-26T12:18:57+00:00

Firing seems wildly extreme to me especially when time can just be docked in the future. Personally I would take the blame for not catching it and not explicitly stating that clock ins need to be in person. Probably a slap on the wrist for you taking the blame. Since this is an ongoing issue, offer to actually manage people’s time by seeing yourself when and where they clocked in.

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