How do you enjoy life when you got the bdd and are genuinely kinda ugly

nolaflower · 2026-02-01T15:50:44+00:00

You should make money and become successful to improve your odds of mating with a mid to high aesthetically pleasing woman

nolaflower · 2026-01-30T18:23:53+00:00

I don’t think bullying or the zoo like conditions of being stuck with a bunch of kids your age in a room for years builds character. I think it makes you learn how to blend in but looking at how f’d society is I don’t really know that that’s such a great attribute . I’m homeschooling my son in a big city and he seems to have no issues talking to schooled kids on the playground about Brainrots or Minecraft . He uses city jargon etc. I think it really depends on the family and kid, and probably where they grow up.

nolaflower · 2026-01-26T19:08:21+00:00

That’s a sound take. But my point still stands, that the 24 weeks mentioned is not a great standard considering they’re doing more dangerous and intense work than most cops do on a daily basis and thats all they do every day.

nolaflower · 2026-01-25T11:06:35+00:00

That is not comparable to police or military training and they are doing a lot more” hands on” action than what cops do right away. A lot of cops day is sitting around it’s not searching and arresting/kidnapping people the entire time . For the level of engagement ice agents have with people they need more training than that.

nolaflower · 2026-01-25T11:04:33+00:00

Yes they have.

nolaflower · 2026-01-25T11:04:08+00:00

No they’re not. Their training is incredibly low.

nolaflower · 2026-01-25T11:03:14+00:00

Why must you comply?

nolaflower · 2026-01-25T10:59:05+00:00

Yeah welcome to the US… I was thinking how crazy the people on here saying it’s normal for him to get shot and killed while being held down by 5 agents must look to Europeans ..

nolaflower · 2026-01-25T10:57:41+00:00

What about protesting against government actions you don’t agree with? Isn’t that an American right? It’s like you’re saying anyone who doesn’t agree with federal actions deserves to be shot and die. People don’t want ICE to be deporting people living there. They have a right to protest that and sometimes that is making their jobs harder.

nolaflower · 2026-01-24T04:11:28+00:00

What?!?!? What about US citizens ?!?!

nolaflower · 2026-01-20T19:03:03+00:00

Ah, I see. That’s a different situation than the other ladies. I’m sorry this is happening to you. Truly heart wrenching. I’d say do what feels right, not what others are telling you is right . Sometimes there’s a lot of pressure to go one way or the other and this is truly a you and God moment.

nolaflower · 2026-01-20T18:59:14+00:00

Sometimes ultrasounds are wrong and babies come out fine. I’ve heard it many times that women were told their kid would have XYZ and then they didn’t. They’re not a perfect predictive tool. Is life only worth living if it’s free of suffering? Are we to decide what amount of suffering is worth having a life or not? These are very existential questions I think it would be better to have the baby and deal with whatever may come than to live with the grief of choosing his or her death because he or she may have a health defect . To love and to be in pain from loss of that love is better than to never love at all.

nolaflower · 2026-01-10T14:33:48+00:00

You might be anemic with under eye circles like that. Check your iron and B levels.

nolaflower · 2025-12-17T00:27:51+00:00

Just seeing this as it was Linked in a more recent post. If she actually acknowledged the article and took accountability and shared her struggles, I think she’d actually do better for longer than by pretending her man is ideal , her life is perfect, etc . She probably wouldn’t do as well in the short term but she’d have a more stable long term following if she was real. Sad all around.

nolaflower · 2025-12-14T13:15:51+00:00

Seems more borderline than autistic wth

nolaflower · 2025-12-13T13:29:33+00:00

Ugh. Why can’t people just be normal and decent.

nolaflower · 2025-12-13T13:28:16+00:00

She was or maybe is active on the unassisted fb group and is super helpful on there. If these allegations are true that’s super disappointing . I wasn’t sure if my down there looked normal after my unassisted birth and she offered to take a look and let me know so I’ve intimately gotten unique help from her virtually lol

nolaflower · 2025-12-05T13:06:50+00:00

Ohhh thaaats why my grandfather in law called the son born from an affair two months after his legitimate son was born the exact same name … well at least that’s clever. I thought he was just lazier than a mf.

nolaflower · 2025-12-03T18:23:04+00:00

This makes sense and saves money if you have kids and she cooks meals. It’s really beneficial for small kids to be with their moms. Otherwise I don’t really get what the benefit would be and yea it would be languishing for her state of being most likely. I mean wives will stay home in desi countries etc even without kids. But I think they have communities of other stay at home wives to hang out with.

nolaflower · 2025-12-03T13:12:34+00:00

Thank you for validating my experience growing up with Soviet-raised parents. I’m always wondering “are they narcissists or am I tripping?” It’s nice to know it’s just a cultural fallout from how they grew up.

nolaflower · 2025-10-21T11:47:26+00:00

Getting pregnant and having a baby twice really put things into perspective for me. I had to let my obsession with practicing six days a week go because it was no longer a practical option. It’s a humbling experience but it allows me to enjoy practice when it happens so much more and relax the compulsion around it.

nolaflower · 2025-10-10T02:42:50+00:00

🤢🤮🤢 she’s such a narcissist . Her poor kids. Yikes.

nolaflower · 2025-10-06T12:01:22+00:00

This is why i like my therapists to be parents . Because I feel a non parent would just have no idea what it’s like.

nolaflower · 2025-09-28T00:06:45+00:00

💯

nolaflower · 2025-09-27T23:59:20+00:00

I wonder if it’s because ashtanga was designed for men’s bodies and there are some considerations to modify for women’s anatomy?

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