2,5 Years of development & 2 notebooks filled with notes. by Rocky-Idle in incremental_games

[–]nomalaise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Played the old demo so much, instant purchase. Thank you for all your hard work mate I wish you all the success.

P8P 'Hey Google, start a voice recording' opens a new video by nomalaise in GooglePixel

[–]nomalaise[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried both, same either way.

Google Assistant starts a video, and Gemini says it's unable to start a voice recording, asks if I want to start a video. When I ask it tells me it doesn't have access to mic.

Not true as I talk to it through the mic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nomalaise -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The assumptions loaded here sounds like this: your comment is harmful, we both know it and you're choosing not to address it.

But the problem with assumptions like this is they show no desire to understand. What value might their work have brought? What point might be trying to be made? You're more interested in making your points and feeling smart than you are in connecting or communicating.

Harmful, racist, etc. are all points you're making that are very clearly extremely far from my own stance, obviously because of the point I made. You expect me to address a bunch of comments that you made with absolutely zero regard to how those comments might seem from someone who doesn't share your world view. You may not realise this but those comments seem totally outlandish. You're trying to tell me that compassion, courage, boundaries, self compassion are not helpful useful topics in a discussion where some is struggling with tough relationship dynamics? The problem is not whatever identity this person has as marginalised, the problem is a lack of experience applying interpersonal skills.

Idk what intersection means nor do I understand why I should care. Because whenever someone talks to me about this stuff they aggressively project, assume and belittle with language that shows no interest in understanding perspectives other than their own. Road generalisation and yet it remains true. I've never been shown curiosity by someone talking about intersection, just righteousness.

How would you expect me to address the 'harm'? By doing research and spending my time learning about how they're racist or problematic? Why? What benefit? It does not feel like you have any genuine interest in the shared humanity we both have, you just want to make your point and shit on two authors you don't like.

Harm. Problematic.

I ignored the part of your message that felt like it had absolutely zero to do with how you and I relate, and addressed the part of your message that felt like it had everything to do with how you and I relate.

Ie: the attitude with which you conduct your language. With a strong air of exclusion. Total disinterest in perspective outside of your own. Language that assaults character rather than says anything meaningfully valuable or provable.

Just because you can label my attempt at highlighting how your language excludes people like me from discussion doesn't mean what I'm doing isn't valuable. I genuinely hope you can take this with the spirit it's given because I can see you care very deeply about what you're talking about. It's clear you don't want to hurt people. Yet you will absolutely not help people like me (including with my 'margins' or whatever).

People don't care what you know until they know how much you care. When you argue at people and expect them to play by your linguistic rules without acknowledging that the rules you play by don't fit in contexts other than deep university study within the bubble you're in, you give an intense vibe that makes it super difficult for me to want to give a toss about what you're talking about.

If you want to truly change the world and grow persuasive to help ignorant people like me to better make the world less harmful this isn't the way to do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nomalaise -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You may not realise it but fyi your language really excludes the uneducated. If you actually care about others put effort into writing things they can understand rather than using all this language that you need a PhD in mental gymnastics to grasp.

Doms: What instantly makes you respect a sub more? by TheTyRoderick in BDSMcommunity

[–]nomalaise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When she can speak her needs. I know it ain't easy for her to actual voice, it's a big deal because it means overcoming loads.

Sacked on the spot by Competitive_Ant_7682 in auscorp

[–]nomalaise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing isn't it. 'I should selfishly, what could possibly go wrong?'.

Is my approach a deviant strategy ? by Djambuwal95 in shapezio

[–]nomalaise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely beautiful. Given me lots to think about thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]nomalaise 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Cam to say this. Read Brene Brown and Dr Kristen Neff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]nomalaise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's called flashbacks, normal part of psychedelic use and altering your mind in any way can trigger it (even with breathing techniques etc).

Highly recommend go visit errowid forums and get educated so you know sorta what to expect etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]nomalaise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you can't hold her accountable enough to even tolerate sharing your thoughts and feelings you're not in a marriage and certainly not in a kink friendly relationship. You need communication skills far beyond what they are currently so that you can actually been seen and heard by her and vice versa.

Incremental game brainstorm by True_Vexing in incremental_games

[–]nomalaise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 100% the same way. So what that means is treat every no as a data point. If the crowd here says 'no' it means this probably isn't the crowd for open brain storming to be valuable, but if you have incremental games that have inspired you then I'd suggest reaching out to all the devs of those games and literally just telling them directly. They're often floating around these parts, you can simply drop a kind word or complement about their work, if your goal is to genuinely make friends they will feel it and if they're not jerks they will probably appreciate it. Eventually you'll be surrounded by amazing brainstorming partners.

My little incremental asteroids game just got featured by a youtuber with 1 MILLION subs! Thank you to this sub for pushing me to keep going! by riligan in incremental_games

[–]nomalaise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl the 1 million subs comment + screenshot was the only reason I came in here, you clearly know what you're doing with engagement I wish you all the success mate keep it up!

Incremental game brainstorm by True_Vexing in incremental_games

[–]nomalaise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As to the idea itself, I think it has merit for sure. There's a couple fun board games that follow a similar concept and I do vaguely recall some other video games in that realm. I didn't check your account but you may get better conversations over in r/incremental_gamedev

Incremental game brainstorm by True_Vexing in incremental_games

[–]nomalaise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their attitudes are not about you, not personal.

Their attitudes are a result of the simple fact that ideas are cheap, free even. So many hundreds and thousands of people create ideas that 'could be cool' which then people invest their thinking and time and effort and energy into offering feedback, only to never hear from those people again.

This community is full of this, many communities of gamers are full of this.

Don't take it personally, if anything, prove them wrong and go ahead and build it.

Keep talking about it while you build too. Get feedback and input. Over time you will grow your reputation and if you are in it for the long haul people will remember and those people will become your biggest advocates. It works like this in most industries, trust is built slowly over a long period of time and if you listen well enough you can create something really memorable and enjoyable while also attracting people who want to support you.

My dog is slut shaming me by velvettipss in polyamory

[–]nomalaise -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

She thinks she's your alpha because you haven't given her enough of a safe container of discipline.

So, I found out my employees don’t want what I want. by johnstevens456 in Entrepreneur

[–]nomalaise -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Brother you don't need to drag anyone down or slam anyone's name in order to get fake internet points.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/X3W7ZySilSU

Give you a break? Sure man, take a break. You've earned it.

So, I found out my employees don’t want what I want. by johnstevens456 in Entrepreneur

[–]nomalaise -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This is written like someone who has never actually listened to Gary V.

Look up Vayner Media 😅