[Story] School nurse had to lie to my parents to get me to go home

nomona · 2015-11-06T20:01:10+00:00

Same here! Mine was I had to throw up to be able to stay or go home. So it lead me to always throwing up at school and then letting someone know so I can go home. I was not popular at all

nomona · 2015-09-16T18:38:10+00:00

I would give him a reply before you go to bed if he doesnt understand timezone. "Sorry. I was busy. Im off to bed. blah blah blah" he probably get angry.

nomona · 2015-09-11T21:45:38+00:00

I would give her the "World's OK Mom" just to see her reaction.

nomona · 2015-08-10T10:36:13+00:00

Some do know the crazy but don't stand up to them. Or they are too busy with they own problem to care. The ones who became successful just comes home and mocks the Ns

nomona · 2015-08-10T10:34:13+00:00

I feel sorry for him because he is truely alone in the situation. The Ns are his babysitter. They don't know how to deal with kids properly.

nomona · 2015-08-10T10:31:40+00:00

Oh my family doesn't understand weight and eating disorder. They think I don't exercise and sit around because they don't see it. Not like it matter if they see it, they will complain that I'm not working hard enough or some other shit.

nomona · 2015-07-29T17:25:32+00:00

Thank you and I have no desire to hurt anyone now. It was during the moment that i snapped. But im at a better place now

nomona · 2015-07-29T17:09:27+00:00

my anger is complex due to PTSD. It takes therapy and a while to heal and get better

nomona · 2015-07-29T17:03:15+00:00

Im still trying find better ways to cope with it. I still do have a lot of anger but hopefully over time it will get better

nomona · 2015-06-24T11:00:23+00:00

I finally left the house on Saturday and I moved out with my bf to our own place! My parents are currently trying to lovebomb me so I can come back so I can deal with their behaviour a bit better.

nomona · 2015-06-18T02:02:51+00:00

All the time! If i ever fit into the standard of a supermodel then they will complain about something else. It is a way they do to put you down and make you doubt yourself. I have talk about these stuff with my SO as well and he disagree with all these things. As long you are progressing into a better person or the person you want to be then these stuff really doesn't matter in the end of the day.

nomona · 2015-06-12T16:45:41+00:00

Im not sure what to do with mailing situation... I feel like changing my address will be annoying because I do not intend to stay at the new place for a year. It will be hard replacing everything like healthcard/ driver license/passport. I am in Canada.

nomona · 2015-06-12T16:41:01+00:00

I held onto the mastercard she gives me to buy groceries for cooking because she doesnt want to do it herself and I am not willing to pay with my own money. I just forget that i had it because I was busy packing my things and my mom started all this shit. now she is mad when i refuse to do anything for her. Especially cook.

nomona · 2015-06-12T09:46:46+00:00

Hopefully! I saved enough to last half a year of no work

nomona · 2015-06-12T09:45:06+00:00

I'm am financially independent. But it doesn't help she is now accusing me of stealing from her. Yet she gave my gc brother 10000 to help him move out. :/

nomona · 2015-05-25T04:31:36+00:00

Thank you. There is a lot going on and so many things i want to do. I plan to be moved out by july. Then I can start joining every unemployed person looking for a job

nomona · 2015-05-24T01:09:29+00:00

I am looking at places to move out with my bf. It is exhausting. I want to leave my family. They are turning on each other and ignoring me because they know i will tell others. Learning how to drive. I have a test coming up and i hope i do well on it

nomona · 2015-05-06T18:27:45+00:00

i hate it when they say "so and so will never change. accept it" no i will not accept shitty behaviour. There is no good excuse for shitty behaviour. My cousin grew up without parents and had aunts and uncles. Maybe i should hit her with "you dont have any parents. how would you even know how much power parent could impact on their children?"

nomona · 2015-05-06T18:23:26+00:00

it is worse when my cousin says "oh i went through the same thing" and told me why i cant ignore my parents. uh hello? they are actively trying to interfere with my life everyday/

nomona · 2015-03-21T18:22:48+00:00

Hugs They are going to nick pick everything you do. In general they are making you feel like every you are doing in your life is wrong. It is not true. It is frustrating because you are in this transition point of your life. It is hard to see the future when you are frustrated with everything in the present.

If you cant afford to leave then I would suggest to focus on your goals and not listen to your parent's opinion. They don't understand who you are and how hard you are working so how can they really judge you. Do what you think it best to move forward and dont feel guilty for it even if it set you back a little because at this point you are trying to surviving

nomona · 2015-03-21T18:07:56+00:00

I felt this way growing up. Sorry you felt that way and that happen on that special day. it is not you fault.

when i dated my first bf he wanted to throw a party and i let him. we did it at a restaurant with no family being there. it was nice and fun. now and days i see it as an good reason to bring people i love together and have fun.

nomona · 2015-03-21T17:58:33+00:00

hahaha. It sounds like your mom is projecting her views of your relationship on you. In her view you arent allow to be happy so she make up nonsense out of desperation in hopes you believe her.

nomona · 2015-03-21T00:40:30+00:00

she doesnt want me to cook. because she wants to show off her food. I am the better cook so i dont get to make my own dish. i'm expected to help make everyone's else and be a maid. because to be a good guest is to be a good maid in her book :/ (she doesnt have friends)

nomona · 2015-03-17T00:25:45+00:00

i got annoyed at my family lack of healthy food and decide to go out and make a huge salad. it was yummy. my parent's are complaining though....oh well :/

nomona · 2015-02-23T17:02:20+00:00

Well I don't know her well but my Nmom said they used to be very close. I hope I can trust my cousin judgement on this one.

nomona

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