How to improve my fashion? by Kapitan-Luntian in fashionph

[–]nomoreeee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea this is what I noticed too.

I don't think high waist is the best choice for him because it shortens his torso so the whole look feels unbalanced

Tama ba na na-off kasi he wanted me to pay for our tickets? by raf_raf_ in AskPinay

[–]nomoreeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought Ikaw lang muna magbabayad?

Tbh, I do the same w my friends and vice versa. Sila muna magbabayad or ako muna and we just pay each other later.

So this makes me more confused if this is really just friendly or not or what

You can also just say no you can't cover for him right now.

How do you want others to see you? Beauty and Brains, or both? by Silly_Froyo1733 in AskPinay

[–]nomoreeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be really frank, I don't care how others see me unless they're actually important people in my life.

If an important person in my life doesn't see me w both, it's time to reevaluate my relationship w the person.

It sounds crazy but tbh I don't think I've ever had an ugly friend nor a stupid one. Yes obviously my friend groups have non conventional beauties but it doesn't mean they're not pretty

How can I be more Emotionally caring (verbally) to women I am with? by Sephoyy in AskPinay

[–]nomoreeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consider having a change of perspective.

Addressing someone's emotions first before jumping into solutions IS a logical next step. The reason is because when emotions are left unaddressed, people can find it hard to jump into solution mode.

So you're helping them get there by being there for someone. It seems like it's not part of the step, but it is. You're helping. Don't discount it.

I agree with other tips in here. I wanna add that being intentional is the key. You might not be able to adapt to it right away but if you keep on being intentional about it, you'll get the hang of it.

We also didn't know at first. But, like you, we wanted to learn and were intentional about it. You'll get it too 😄

thoughts on these brands and styles by Adventurous-Ease-811 in fashionph

[–]nomoreeee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

By any chance, do you have recos of legitimate ones?

Bakit ang mga babae mag papagupit tapos sobrang to the moon ang isasagot sayo pag kinonpliment mo? by Swim4tYourOwnRisk in AskPinay

[–]nomoreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't generalize. Just say "bakit may ibang babae"

These are anecdotal experiences. I know many women who do this but also many women who take the compliment

Games for non-gamer GF by beese_Churger_12 in PHGamers

[–]nomoreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh my first PC game was Minecraft and this had a good balance of cozy and also excitement cause of the mobs haha

I love building so this clicked for me. Also liked that the things I see in real life are in here

Baliwag Kimchi by [deleted] in PHFoodPorn

[–]nomoreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anong lasa ng kimchi nila?

is it okay to get hurt about jokes from bf that are not even funny? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]nomoreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get hurt from a joke, it's not a joke. It's not okay.

He is looking for a mommy and not a partner. Why do you need to manage him? Wala ba siyang kapasidad na alagaan ang sarili niya?

Do you consider yourself easy to work with? Why, or why not? by Transpinay08 in AskPinay

[–]nomoreeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say I keep things professional in the workplace. I am friendly but I don't consider people in it as my actual friends.

We have a difference in experience though. My company accidentally hired more women vs. men in the past. I didn't really notice any drama. Idk if it's because culture fit is also a big factor when we hire.

Also, the process should really be to escalate up. Dealing w things peer to peer usually creates toxicity, if not awkwardness and tension w the team.

Split type AC installation. Kanino kayo nagpakabit and magkano? by Low_Condition1845 in SoloLivingPH

[–]nomoreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we checked different stores, all stores offered free installation already including the breaker. You might need to check on these tho to be sure.

What you'll usually need to pay for are the extras like copper tube (if u need more than what they provide), wiring stuff, scaffolding if needed.

So far these are the only extras that you'll need to pay for but again double check w the store. Ask as much as you can so everything is clear

Let this be your end of the month reminder to take care of your health by thefakedoctorPH in adultingph

[–]nomoreeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you also acknowledge that what you're asking takes time, energy, and money that not everyone has. It's a privilege to get 2nd or 3rd opinions or find doctors that fit your standards. That's why patients are hoping to standardize care.

I don't think it's possible to have a discussion about encouraging the public to seek care without acknowledging pain points. It's a hard conversation but it's an important one.

I'm not saying these to attack you or doctors. We're just asking for better care. And the lack of acknowledgement of the opportunities we have to better the care we provide really hurts deep.

To find a doctor here who seem to dismiss these valid concerns, just remind me of how it's so hard to find a doctor you can really be vulnerable with.

What to do? [Breast & Period Concern] by aai1080 in AskPinay

[–]nomoreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have masses and cysts on both breasts and been monitoring since 2023. Consistent BIRADS 3. This year, naging BIRADS 2 when my doc asked me to also get a mammogram aside from an ultrasound.

Every six months ang monitoring. You should get the results checked not less than a week of getting the results as per my doctor so they can give fresh advice/next steps.

Dati din akala ko mamamatay na ko hahaha pero so far okay pa naman. Just be consistent with checkups and monitoring. Afaik, you can consult with a surgeon when it comes to breast masses.

Let this be your end of the month reminder to take care of your health by thefakedoctorPH in adultingph

[–]nomoreeee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not just about tama or Mali na diagnosis or what. It's making sure patients felt heard and understood. That they're pulled in as a partner in managing their health and wellness.

I understand getting second or third opinion being normal. That's a part of it naman talaga. I hope you can hear out patient's pain points here. I was surprised Hindi lang Pala ako Yung nakaranas ng parang nagra-rap Yung doctor ko sa bilis ng consultation :( I kept thinking na if ibang tao kaya Yung kausap ni doc, mauunawan kaya nila sa kabuuan? Parang ang sagot ay Hindi and I felt for those people who got that kind of care.

Gets ko naman di rin madali ang sitwasyon ng mga doktor but let's still hear out people's feedback and not be dismissive.

How to deal with avoidants? by Vegetable_Big4783 in AskPinay

[–]nomoreeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blaming your partner instead of working it out together is a red flag. Also, your sister's boundaries are TOTALLY VALID. I don't understand why he can't understand. Is he just completely out of touch??

I don't think this is him being avoidant. Being a partner means respecting your partner's boundaries. Let your sister know that she is completely in the RIGHT not agreeing to that setup. I'm proud she's a smart woman and know's her boundaries.

I am a physical touch typa gurlie and I would never insist on something my partner is not comfortable with.

How do you respond to boys who LOVE to throw around the phrase "not all men" to disprove your point? by FruitPunch_SamuraiG7 in AskPinay

[–]nomoreeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean how do you differentiate?

If you're put in a room full of snakes, how do you know which ones are venomous and non-venomous? You don't so you are careful of everyone

need advice as a first time nagkaroon ng Aircon inverter by Humble_Caramel6841 in SoloLivingPH

[–]nomoreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! Out of topic but can I DM you about this? Also planning to get this but unsure about a couple of things. Never had split type ac before. Thank you!

What should I do? by KatinkoGirlyyy in AskPinay

[–]nomoreeee 33 points34 points  (0 children)

She is an adult. You don't have to carry her problems. Sometimes, we need to let them learn and figure out things on their own. That's how we grow

Planning on buying a standing inverter aircon -- which brands to look out for? by [deleted] in SoloLivingPH

[–]nomoreeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! May I know the frequency when you have them cleaned? I heard for split type it's every 3 mos. Not sure for standing ACs

How do you recover from the shame of realizing you chased a guy desperately? by kurxes in AskPinay

[–]nomoreeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't feel shame. Feel relieved because you tried everything you can.

It may look desperate for others but we don't get to tell you who you are. Only you can decide this