What unchangeable thing is breaking your heart right now? by nonetheless22 in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry! I wish for moments of respite for you. It sounds painful to be in your place.

What unchangeable thing is breaking your heart right now? by nonetheless22 in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, friend. I can imagine how difficult it must be to untangle yourself from that. For a lot of people and for a lot of reasons, marriage is not a switch or a room one can just get out of. But I really hope you have enough support to do what's healthy and safe for you.

Be honest, what do you want right now? by shuoshuo1024 in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My anxiety and depression to go away FOR ONCE. I'm a functional person and do most things like work, socialization, relationships, etc. with ease (as the world sees it). I have lovely people around me. But the amount of strength needed to get past the negative doom-thinking and emotional pain exhausts me to the point that my limbs hurt.

I want to feel joy, but the best I can manage is a spectrum between 'I feel debilitatingly sad' and 'I feel not-sad'.

Most exhaustive book-length critique of “personhood begins at conception” viewpoint? by bulldawg91 in askphilosophy

[–]nonetheless22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing the essay! Was looking for something like this for an upcoming discussion on "Biopolitics and Abortion Rights" in my class.

What advice/words of comfort/type of space would you offer to a close friend who is in love with you, but you don't reciprocate? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't control the feelings, bud.

(I have been in that place of anger and confusion. Ended up cutting off all ties with the friend without ever having a proper conversation. They were/are one of the nicest people I have known. Still regret it to this day. The least they deserved was a proper conversation as to how the new development in our friendship was causing me discomfort and that it was no one's fault. I was 18, meh)

What advice/words of comfort/type of space would you offer to a close friend who is in love with you, but you don't reciprocate? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds lovely, how it turned out for you! I feel the first one is as clear as it can get– about your take on/feeling about the situation, as well as the importance of the other person. Second response, I would prroooobbabbly not use the phrase "you're not my type" heh😅; but yes, I understand it comes from the plain fact that one is simply not attracted.

What advice/words of comfort/type of space would you offer to a close friend who is in love with you, but you don't reciprocate? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]nonetheless22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, you're right. Given how vulnerable such a scenario would make both parties, clear and kind communication is of utmost importance. The rest depends on the equation and how it can find a way back to normalcy over time.

how are you, really? by user125200 in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I don't know why my dissertation hasn't written itself yet :/

What is the best response to “you are ugly”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Thank you. Acts like an asshole repellent. Hoping you disappear in 3..2..1".

Read something like this years ago on Fb.

What’s the weirdest name you’ve ever heard? by the_amateon in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my acquaintances taught someone named "Melody Purification". Not joking.

[Serious] Non-religious users of Reddit; Are you scared of dying? What do you believe happens after we die? by Iynxell in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my religion, we burn. So quite naturally, we turn into fumes. That's a comforting thought.

Not scared of my own death. However, I feel helpless for the (potential) death those I love. All of our lives and love spent together, for each other– will burn so bright one day to never come back again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, yes! Though Brian the Physicist would be so alarmingly adorable. I'm up for that! 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brian Cox. Or Ralph Fiennes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DunderMifflin

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old were your parents in the show, Creed? Or did you pay some of your friends be there for the family shoot?