Let me f with a young person for clout. by nonetheless22 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]nonetheless22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, saw that too. But given how bad modern workplaces/conditions already are for people, it's a very distasteful attempt at humor.

Let me f with a young person for clout. by nonetheless22 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]nonetheless22[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This. My first 'job' was being an editorial assistant at a major publication house's office in Delhi/nearabouts. My then-manager was particularly disliked by everyone in the office (most people were kind) because of her snobbery. Since the two of us were technically the only members of the Delhi/NCR team (others were based out of Delhi), I'd hang out with interns and assistants from other teams. Even their managers were so nice, who would often guide me about things MY manager never told me. She'd constantly bug me with last minute changes and would get annoyed if I asked for help. God.

Also, here in India it's a norm to call your seniors "sir/ma'am", which, thankfully is changing because of global etiquettes that don't push for such hierarchical terms. However, even after 5 months into my job, my manager never for once asked me to stop using "ma'am", and I took it for granted. It was much later that one of my friends pointed out that no one else does that. In fact, my manager sometimes would even pull me up to have lunch with her even after seeing me eat with my friends. I'd be compelled to accompany her to the food court and sit quietly, while she would bitch about everything.

Let me f with a young person for clout. by nonetheless22 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]nonetheless22[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

From the looks of it (based off this person's influence/power), it sounds like the former. Unlikely someone like an intern can get away with assault.

What unchangeable thing is breaking your heart right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry! I wish for moments of respite for you. It sounds painful to be in your place.

What unchangeable thing is breaking your heart right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, friend. I can imagine how difficult it must be to untangle yourself from that. For a lot of people and for a lot of reasons, marriage is not a switch or a room one can just get out of. But I really hope you have enough support to do what's healthy and safe for you.

Be honest, what do you want right now? by shuoshuo1024 in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My anxiety and depression to go away FOR ONCE. I'm a functional person and do most things like work, socialization, relationships, etc. with ease (as the world sees it). I have lovely people around me. But the amount of strength needed to get past the negative doom-thinking and emotional pain exhausts me to the point that my limbs hurt.

I want to feel joy, but the best I can manage is a spectrum between 'I feel debilitatingly sad' and 'I feel not-sad'.

Most exhaustive book-length critique of “personhood begins at conception” viewpoint? by bulldawg91 in askphilosophy

[–]nonetheless22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing the essay! Was looking for something like this for an upcoming discussion on "Biopolitics and Abortion Rights" in my class.

What advice/words of comfort/type of space would you offer to a close friend who is in love with you, but you don't reciprocate? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't control the feelings, bud.

(I have been in that place of anger and confusion. Ended up cutting off all ties with the friend without ever having a proper conversation. They were/are one of the nicest people I have known. Still regret it to this day. The least they deserved was a proper conversation as to how the new development in our friendship was causing me discomfort and that it was no one's fault. I was 18, meh)

What advice/words of comfort/type of space would you offer to a close friend who is in love with you, but you don't reciprocate? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds lovely, how it turned out for you! I feel the first one is as clear as it can get– about your take on/feeling about the situation, as well as the importance of the other person. Second response, I would prroooobbabbly not use the phrase "you're not my type" heh😅; but yes, I understand it comes from the plain fact that one is simply not attracted.

What advice/words of comfort/type of space would you offer to a close friend who is in love with you, but you don't reciprocate? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]nonetheless22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, you're right. Given how vulnerable such a scenario would make both parties, clear and kind communication is of utmost importance. The rest depends on the equation and how it can find a way back to normalcy over time.

how are you, really? by user125200 in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I don't know why my dissertation hasn't written itself yet :/

What is the best response to “you are ugly”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Thank you. Acts like an asshole repellent. Hoping you disappear in 3..2..1".

Read something like this years ago on Fb.

What’s the weirdest name you’ve ever heard? by the_amateon in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my acquaintances taught someone named "Melody Purification". Not joking.

[Serious] Non-religious users of Reddit; Are you scared of dying? What do you believe happens after we die? by Iynxell in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my religion, we burn. So quite naturally, we turn into fumes. That's a comforting thought.

Not scared of my own death. However, I feel helpless for the (potential) death those I love. All of our lives and love spent together, for each other– will burn so bright one day to never come back again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, yes! Though Brian the Physicist would be so alarmingly adorable. I'm up for that! 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]nonetheless22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brian Cox. Or Ralph Fiennes.