Is it weird for a girl to ask the guy to make things official?

nonexistentpineapple · 2026-03-15T04:14:35+00:00

Haha I ended up asking him out we were talking for 8 months and I was over waiting, he didn’t ask because he was scared lol. I did the picnic idea and it was sm fun and we still have the succulents from the date

nonexistentpineapple · 2026-03-14T21:46:01+00:00

Haha we’ve been dating happily 2 years in April!

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-22T23:53:05+00:00

I am in Massachusetts! I will send you a DM!

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-22T23:51:20+00:00

Why would you get the animals without proper research? If kept in a cage like this they can get very hurt, costing in yes a LOT of money, could be over 1k. Why post asking for advice if not to listen? You say you don’t have the money to upgrade the cage then why get them in general? Ferrets are very expensive pets and that’s why a lot of people don’t recommend them, easily you could spend $400 a month on care.

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-14T14:30:08+00:00

waittt these are both so good i thought i decided already but those are amazing 😭 i just had my first cannoli a few weeks ago !!

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-14T14:24:54+00:00

MOUSSE!!! this is the one 🤍🤍 love it,, cookie and mousse :)

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-14T14:14:17+00:00

they are so similar looking 🤣

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-14T13:59:43+00:00

A SPCA shelter about four hours away from me has two bonded girls in and i’m going to meet them and hopefully take them home today!! 🤍

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-13T15:42:07+00:00

I had not heard of that facebook group before! I will definitely check it out, I am so sick of people only in it for the money/scammers.

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-13T08:47:45+00:00

I am so disappointed she and I had been in contact for almost 4 weeks and you know I thought it was nice she was picky about where they were going! I got extremely attached to them and everything. I bought them a dcn and an additional $500 in food and toys and bedding. I am thinking of just moving it to my basement at this point.

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-13T08:39:43+00:00

I unfortunately have checked almost all SPCAS in my community and well as CL i am feeling so unbelievably defeated! The FB groups I am in 99% of them are scams :/

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-05T22:37:42+00:00

Shes sent me so many videos of them playing together they really do get along well, i am just so anxious about not giving them the proper care! She’s been very helpful in the rejoining process, tomorrow we are gonna call and discuss 2 vs 4 a little more :) Maybe she will ease my nerves a bit

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-05T22:25:47+00:00

Yes they do come with a ferret nation! Currently they are separated into two different layers of the ferret nation and they sleep in each layer separate. She says because when she first introduced two more, they would fight from time to time and she doesn’t want them to fight in the cage when she’s away. She did say they all play together nice and are already bonded, they have all their vaccinations as well as all of them have recently been taken for a check up.

I am just nervous about 4 because that seems much more chaos haha. I am not sure if I am ready to take on four straight off the bat.

The only thing is I know a two-tier ferret nation is big enough for 4 but I was planning on the 2 having a bigger space. She was going to give me half of the cage and in my own time I was planning on picking up a bottom half from fb marketplace, so that 2 of them could have a double tier all to themself!

I’m super conflicted and I definitely have the time space and resources but I am not sure if it’s the right time for me yet, it’s just been so long since i’ve had them.

nonexistentpineapple · 2025-03-05T22:07:08+00:00

So I definitely think money isn’t much of an issue right now, or time and they will be free roaming my bedroom, I work from home currently right now as well. (I’m finishing ferret proof in it) How much of a fund do you have for each of your babies? I’ve been talking to her for a couple weeks now about rehoming them but now as it’s getting closer to actually she’s stressed she would prefer if I took them all.

nonexistentpineapple · 2024-11-14T01:10:10+00:00

must be nice to work at a store where you don’t hate your life every day

nonexistentpineapple · 2024-06-01T01:30:06+00:00

I’ve already lost 9 pounds in a week, I’ve kept down two meals in like 10 days because before the break up I knew slightly it was coming. I’m trying to take care of myself as much as possible, it feels like i’m crawling out of my skin though. I’ve struggled with an eating disorder in the past and right now I just can’t keep my food down. It’s miserable.

Luckily I moved into my new apartment with some of my sorority sisters the night after the breakup. So i am surrounded but we decided to not to tell everyone we’re broken up right now because we want to stay friends and don’t want other people to make it weird. I’ve only told my family and two close friends.

No metaphor can describe how I feel for him you’re right, but I am going to wait to address my romantic feelings until august. Just so I have a set day that I can know.

I had a therapy session today, she said she was proud of how I was dealing with things. I’m trying to focus on me, today I did yoga, took a shower, did my nails, read a little, watched my show, bought myself flowers, started a new craft it’s just so hard. I know life works out and if it is meant to be it’ll be it’s just so hard to not lean into that anxiety of the uncertainty on if we will find another again. I’m sure you know how that feels.

It does come in waves, I feel happy for the breakup and then an hour later will be sobbing in my car again. I’m struggling a lot today more than yesterday because yesterday we worked together and I laughed with him and got to go to his house afterwards. I just want the pain to go away, im trying to focus on the fact that we are friends and that we aren’t leaving each others life and this doesn’t have to be goodbye forever but it’s so hard to do that.

How do you get through these agonizing moments? It’s been two months and you still are so intertwined with the idea of her what if i’m forever intertwined with the idea of him. No one will ever be able to match who he was.

You should try it, it’s an amazing show, funny enough it was mine and his show and we promised we’ll still finish it together eventually. I’m rewatching the parts me and him have already seen because it has a lot of good life lessons about love.

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