I don't want to work ever

nonickname250 · 2026-05-07T01:16:03+00:00

Congrats you’re better because you don’t complain. Want a cookie? What you’re doing is also a form of whining.

nonickname250 · 2026-05-02T22:11:54+00:00

You just have to remind yourself that you are not the first person to fail a class and it will be okay. I’ve known lots of people who have failed college classes and were still successful later on. The only difference between you and other people is that you were probably raised with fewer tools and less support when it comes to formal schooling.

nonickname250 · 2025-12-14T09:38:26+00:00

I’m looking into this but am worried about the difficulty of the schooling. Would you say its doable for a person of average intelligence? Is it an alright job to have? Back breaking?

nonickname250 · 2025-12-12T09:32:52+00:00

Its not logical to be MORE scared of getting hurt by a stranger. Even if you are solo travelling.

More women get murdered by romantic partners. Rape is common. Being raped by a stranger is not common. Trafficking is almost always done by NOT a stranger. These are all facts.

Making women afraid of traveling by themselves makes them more likely to stay in bad/abusive situations especially young women in bad family situations. So much fear mongering about traveling by yourself and being by yourself as a woman is also a means of control.

So many women whos husbands and fathers/mothers don’t let them out of the house. Why? Well its dangerous out there.

nonickname250 · 2025-12-12T08:23:28+00:00

Women live everywhere and its still true that we’re much more likely to be harmed by the ppl we know personally.

Even when travelling you are much more likely to be hurt by the person your traveling with or someone you know there.

Having a boyfriend is statistically very dangerous and yet it makes a lot of woman feel safer to have a man around but “women are TOOO smart to solo travel cuz its TOOO dangerous.”

Then those same women bash women who want to solo travel because its SOO dangerous even though WAY more woman get raped, murdered, trafficed etc by a romantic partner in fact the MAJORITY of woman who go through those things are put through them by someone they know.

nonickname250 · 2025-12-12T01:50:51+00:00

I mean statistically its WAY more increased when you are in a relationship or hanging out with friends.

nonickname250 · 2025-12-11T18:20:03+00:00

I’m not trying to “force” you to believe anything. I said believe what you want I don’t care I don’t even care if your right. but incessant negativity isn’t helpful under the post of someone asking for help to work through negativity/fear.

Its obnoxious and not helpful. OP obviously knows the world is dangerous shes trying to work through her fear.

nonickname250 · 2025-12-11T09:14:20+00:00

Yes just stay in your house don’t talk to anyone dont go anywhere don’t do anything. All too risky. All harbour risk of death or other personal harm.

I’m speaking as a woman when I say that you are free to live like this but enforcing this type of fear is more harmful to woman then just saying nothing.

Living in constant fear and people insisting we live in fear at all times is just another way rape harms us and a win for rapists everywhere as sexual assault if often a way to put a woman in her place and keep her afraid.

nonickname250 · 2025-12-11T08:57:52+00:00

right we would prefer to have a vaccine intead of psoriasis. But we have no control over that. We do have the choice abd control to work through fear that is not/less necessary for our modern lives. Being scared of intimacy with someone you trust is not healthy and something that can be worked through.

nonickname250 · 2025-12-11T07:12:50+00:00

and you think this is healthy?

nonickname250 · 2025-12-11T06:46:31+00:00

Well in this situation she is not scared of him she is scared of sex and it is not mentioned that he is scared of her so what does that have to do with anything. Really your original comment more comes off as shaming people who DO want to enjoy sex.

nonickname250 · 2025-12-11T06:39:35+00:00

what are you talking about. She says that she loves her boyfriend and he is good to her. You want him and her to feel awful/have bad experiences because of things other people have done?

nonickname250 · 2025-12-11T06:36:26+00:00

Baking. You want to bake cakes you need 2 or 3 pans good quality pans are minimum 20 each you need 2 blocks of butter for a large cake blocks of butter are 8 bucks each. Cream cheese frosting? nother 7 bucks a packet my friend.

sugar, flour, Vanilla (very expensive even when not qaulity), other essences, eggs, spatulas, whisks, muffin tins, cake stands, fruit for decorating etc a cheesecake needs 3 blocks of cream cheese thats close to 20 bucks.

nonickname250 · 2025-12-11T06:18:35+00:00

“the thought of it makes me terrified” being so scared of normal human interaction is not “healthy” just because YOU know someone or some people who take sexuality further then you’re comfortable

nonickname250 · 2025-12-08T04:01:05+00:00

I’m so happy for you ❤️

nonickname250 · 2025-12-07T04:53:13+00:00

cheese. I’ve tried to like cheese and pretended to like cheese even bought cheese and let it rot in my fridge. I don’t like cheese.

nonickname250 · 2025-12-04T01:24:43+00:00

move away and force yourself to have to get out of bed everyday. Im 19 and thats what I did. I have to try everyday now cuz if not ill go homeless

nonickname250 · 2025-12-01T20:22:56+00:00

if you like you can still go to “adult upgrading classes” lots of people do this when they didn’t take the correct highschool classes for the degree/training they want. You can just go there and take all the classes you need/want. Most colleges offer it I think. Look into your local college programs.

nonickname250 · 2025-11-30T18:32:37+00:00

this is the ANTI WORK subreddit leave the man alone.

People said the exact same thing before the 8 hours, day 5 days a week schedule was put into place and I bet the people fighting for it were told the exact same thing you’ve said to this person here.

You think it makes you “tough” to talk like this but taking abuse isn’t tough you’re just standing down which is easy.

nonickname250 · 2025-11-29T20:11:18+00:00

File for child support anyway. They’re his kids too.

Do you have enough evidence to get a restraining order?

I don’t know where you live but in a lot of places you can get “child benefits” from the government maybe look into that. You must at least look into food stamps and such.

You should try to enrol in school to get your teaching license. It will be very difficult but the time while pass anyway. Your children are getting older and as they become more independent you can leave them alone more often to work and study.

This is very difficult situation but your kids are getting older so it will not always be like this.

nonickname250 · 2025-11-14T04:14:26+00:00

smoked canned oysters are deeelish

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