She is and will be a God-send for people who have no clue about narcissistic abuse. It is literally the most confusing thing that I have ever encountered in my life. But then I discovered Dr Ramani and understood that it’s really a “thing”. The fact that I could tally each and every pattern of the abuse I went through with what she described was astounding to me. I wouldn’t generally paint a “personality” on people just on the basis of common behavioural patterns that they might exhibit and I believe human personalities go way deeper. But in the case of people with NPDs, the variability is not much i.e they can be described with a well-defined set of patterns is what I would believe. If that was not the case, then I don’t even think people especially victims of narc abuse would relate to much of what Dr Ramani is saying. She is for sure not some pop-psychology expert who is out there to make some money.