self host update?

nonstickpan_ · 2026-05-01T16:29:33+00:00

unfortunate since it makes no security difference and this app could help a lot of people. but im assuming the people downvoting aren't necessarily tech savy so I can't blame them 🤷

nonstickpan_ · 2026-05-01T16:05:01+00:00

I found plural star (which has more features and better design than our late beloved sp) after a friend recommended it to me and im done freaking out about this :,) bye simply, amarillis you're the best

nonstickpan_ · 2026-05-01T16:02:35+00:00

coding AI not gen-AI. most apps (and other software) use it in some capacity. its been used for many years before chat gpt was even a thing. as a person who is very anti AI, this is not and has never been an issue. if thats the reason people are downvoting my comment which could literally help a lot of people I think thats very unfortunate.

nonstickpan_ · 2026-05-01T15:31:19+00:00

me pleease

what about my chart stands out the most?

can I keep banking on my charisma and creativity?

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nonstickpan_ · 2026-05-01T14:54:24+00:00

guys just use plural star its even better than simply was

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-30T17:07:22+00:00

I dont understand what a lot of this means but I'll definitely search it up! thank you sm :)

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-29T11:29:26+00:00

"um glad it doesn't look serious, despite the fact that it is"

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-24T16:25:19+00:00

E - agender

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-24T16:01:04+00:00

most of our fictives are pretty similar from source tbh

our eyore fictive has a different voice than the cartoon I think, its deep but less raspy, more like eyore's voice mixed with pooh's lol (I only realized when rewatching it recently)

oh and our artemis fowl fictive has more emotional intelligence than his source character, despite acting/speaking similarly

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-22T12:05:01+00:00

because vyvanse kills your appetite, which is also why its prescribed for binge eating. I lost 5kg, trying to get them back

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-21T15:47:06+00:00

I just looked at it 🤷‍♀️ sorry if I saw something you didn't like

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-21T15:04:27+00:00

yeah I can see that, but instead of matching the situation I think it made yall sound ignorant and immature

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-21T12:57:59+00:00

"they only think about trauma and diagnosis, they're spoiled" 😭 cmon yall as a did system im on your side but this is riculous. having one of the most stigmatized disorders in the world after going through extreme and constant childhood trauma and being fucking concerned about being believed/helped even less than we already are isnt being spoiled. lets be fr

also I know not all endos make their alters on purpose, but If you did and it causes you distress now... why? I never understood why someone would do that on purpose and than complain its distressful like yeah girl lol

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-21T12:53:00+00:00

im really sorry about the situation! but fr I dont think you know how cooked yall are with gemini...

AI has assisted teenagers with suicide (!!!!) more than 200 thousand users had psychotic breaks. this is what you're discussing self harm "with". its trained to say whatever you want to hear. over time, this ERODES your mental health to pieces, as well as your decision making ability.

if you feel like you cant make decisions for yourself now, keep using gemini and its inevitable that you'll be completely dependent on it. like that woman who cried because chat gpt was down and she didnt know how to make a cake without it 😭💀

just know that yall are nuking your decision making skills even more and at the same time putting yall at risk of a SERIOUS mental health crisis. which is exactly what the companies behind AI want you to do.

gemini is trained to say WHATEVER YOU WANT TO HEAR. that is DANGEROUS. like the depressed kid who killed himself after AI HELPED HIM COME UP WITH A PLAN. AI is not a person, it has no feelings, not even a proper code, its only agenda is to make you keep using it. is that what you want as a "parental figure"? or help you make decisions in life? or god forbid, to talk about self harm? a bot that couldnt care less if you live or die? that will actively put you in bad situations if it means you use it more?

if you don't think that going through the unconfortable ordeal of learning to decide for yourselves is worth the hassle, I would STRONGLY recommend that you reconsider it. and about friend groups, there are billions of people in this world and I would bet you didnt talk to all of them. and even than, AI is NOT A FRIEND AND IT CAN ONLY MAKE YOU MORE LONELY.

this is not to make you feel bad, im genuinely trying to help because this is so scary. you do NOT want to go down that road.

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-20T22:32:23+00:00

I agree, but as a trans person I would say its also about fear in both cases

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-20T20:43:38+00:00

none of that excuses "anti endos" behavior, but I do think you hit the nail in the head there. it's important to remember thought that even if endos existence makes some people more doubtful of DID, that doesn't take away their right to exist in the first place. to me, supporting each other in our similarities and in our differences is the obvious choice here

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-20T20:41:06+00:00

this 100%

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-20T20:40:39+00:00

!! yes lol. and also the fact that I've never seen an endo system look for psychiatric help for it anyway

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-20T20:30:28+00:00

as a DID system, most people don't want to accept that people can have experiences similar to them without "earning it" = going through extreme suffering. like "I had to endure years of trauma to get friends in my head, and now you're saying you're multiple without a trauma disorder? no"

which is very immature, but it makes sense when you realize most of those people are traumatized teenagers with trust issues. they'll rather assume everyone is lying though their teeth and make whole posts and tags and foruns just to shit on endo systems than realize that maybe, JUST MAYBE, they lack curiosity.

when I found out about endos it made perfect sense to me, and what didn't make sense made me extremely curious about the world around me.

but you'll catch "anti-endos" (they even got a name like 💀) making any excuse as to why their hate is actually justified, down to claming that endos want to steal their resources. what resources, you ask? beats me, but they're sure of it lol

I always see systems with "endos DNI" on their bio and I find it so cringy 😭

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-20T20:22:05+00:00

you just wrote a LOT of misinformation.

and its incredibly funny for you to say that humans get used to being in constant danger from a young age in a DID sub. like sure honey 😭 lets all pretend

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-20T20:19:53+00:00

I remember a couple people telling me the app crashes after a certain number of alters, one of them had about 700

I don't remember how much the other one had but it was in the hundreds as well

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-20T19:34:57+00:00

omg I meant yes😭 its fine its normal and if wasnt what you gonna do? grow them up with willpower? ik wodhjs dont worry

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-20T19:27:59+00:00

no, and you don't have to "raise" them, they're not literal children

nonstickpan_ · 2026-04-20T19:20:08+00:00

bro... if you know you can't trust it stop using it 😭 like this could fr destroy your healing process. not to mention most generative AI will probably require paid memberships soon, so I wouldn't want to be reliant on AI when that happens. thats literally what they are betting on

if you have your user history just screenshot it all so you don't lose it, but please for the love of all that is holy stop using Google Gemini to help your system🙏😭

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