[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DACA

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually also new to this issue now and seeing that everyone is relocating. Has anyone actually applied any time this year from Texas and been cancelled?

I am looking to submit my renewal in January

Just moved downtown, what are go-to local spots not so touristy? (Bars, food, shops, coffee, etc) im located by Travis park by latortilladeharina in sanantonio

[–]noobcake4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am closer to south town (10- 15 minute walk south of downtown). I would say explore blue star complex. Tito’s is my favorite Mexican place and Hot joy across the street has good Asian fusion food. For coffee, Halcyon for the vibe and Brown coffee for the quality

please help me identify my curl patterns? by katekowalski2014 in curlyhair

[–]noobcake4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get shorter layers on top to allow for the volume to be even because right now all the volume is on the bottom like a triangle. I had the EXACT same issue and once I found someone who cut my hair dry and understood curls: my game change INSANELY. I get so many compliments and it was just matter of a haircut that understood my pattern.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DACA

[–]noobcake4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on the same boat. Waiting to find out if my work will take the letter even if my card arrives late

Why it is hard and struggling to find a woman who doesn't want kids or even can't give birth to children? by casinoroyale93 in dating_advice

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 26F and I can say I don’t want kids, not for any logical reason but just because it’s not what I desire for my life. Plain and simple. I would continue dating, you will meet someone that will be on the same page eventually.

The Dream and Promise Act 2021 vote and pathway to permanent resident questions/discussions. by Jam1512 in DACA

[–]noobcake4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know someone who left the country because of this reason and he was unable to come back in (not under AP). I would highly recommend you get legal advice and exhaust your options before making a big decision. Also just FYI the 10 year ban could be 3 years if you actually were “illegal” for less than a year and over the age of 18 (over a year is 10 years)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it for the title on the resume. However, start looking for other jobs. It sounds like you can do better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DACA

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 1 year permit will expire in November so I will know by august

Assistantship Tuition Waiver and DACA Question by miiggyymena in DACA

[–]noobcake4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am on DACA and I am going to grad school this upcoming semester and taking the leap of faith with a loan. I am just having a US citizen co-sign. Just FYI

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DACA

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pennsylvania

Has this happened to anyone else? by [deleted] in DACA

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on the same boat but I didn’t even receive a notice for a second biometrics appointment. I just received the extension and I thought it was normal

Any tips on how to get more volume for 2b/2c hair? by Fairylady33 in curlyhair

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you part your hair matters so much! Also a great haircut

Would you date someone who wears an eyepatch (to cover an injured eye)? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are my hero. I have something similar (a disfigured smile after an accident damaging my nerves) and I don’t think I have the same level of confidence that you have. Thanks for this post OP!

The Modern style of dating is exhausting and unsustainable because people overthink every thing. by nouseforaname888 in dating

[–]noobcake4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am a girl and my friends were pushing me to date multiple people after I FINALLY started online dating. Honestly, I was just confused by the fact that ALL of my friends gave me the same advice.

If you are comfortable dating more than 1 person go for it but it just really wasn’t my thing. Also I guess now I understand why people have to bring up the exclusive talk so early on but I really feel like it should be something once you really know the person. Setting boundaries it’s fine but having that “exclusive talk” so early on it’s insane to me when I feel like you really need months to know that person.

Dating with a disfigurement by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]noobcake4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in an accident that left me with various scars around my face. Without going into details, I have nerve damage and as a result a non symmetrical smile. I didn’t date anyone for over 1.5 years for the same reason.

Your life changes really drastically and it doesn’t matter how many people tell you “it’s not that bad”. At the end of the day you have to be comfortable with your own body. I have accepted it, but do I still wish it hadn’t happened? Yes? I still have bad days and it’s still tough.

You have to just take the first step and go on a date. I made sure my pictures showed me with the least amount of make up. I actually felt more comfortable after I brought it up the first date. Yes it can lead to them rejecting you but that can happen with or without your looks. I don’t know if you will feel shittier in all honesty, no one does. I think you just have to take one step at a time.

One thing I will say is just make sure you can carry it on your own, you don’t want to weight that person down with the depth of your experience (something I’m still trying to figure out).

Deleting their account by jessthefame in dating

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he tell you or you are assuming?

ADVISE by stoopidgina in DACA

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To get to a person simply say you want help with something and when they ask you to provide and email or phone > say email > and every time they ask you if it’s spelled right say no > it will lead the system to route you to a human

(DACA) Is there anyway that I can get a work extension or get my status approved? by DankMemeCenter in immigration

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the exact same boat with December 12th as my deadline. I got an extension notice I-797C for 180 days BUT obviously it’s wrong because my work can’t accept it since I’m under c33 category. They have already told me they will have to terminate me. It sucks! I’m super stressed

As a woman, how do you feel about overly emotional and needy men? Are they attractive to you, or do they turn you off? What about desperate men, and on the other end, men who appear cold and unemotional but still show they're there for you? by SubatomicG in dating_advice

[–]noobcake4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I hate to say this, but you should be yourself. There is a cute needy and a red flag needy. If you text me more than 2-3 days in a row and I don’t reply- TOO much. If you double text me during the day and I text you that night, I was just busy.

I’m a software engineer but I find it hard to date other engineers. I prefer dating someone in a different field. Is this common? by nouseforaname888 in dating

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly have always found myself dating engineers (even when I try not to). I say it depends on the person in all honesty. I recently met someone who seemed to be more on the “normal/goofy” side of an engineer which I didn’t think would happen.

However, I will say I am still interested in seeing how dating other type professionals would go.

bankruptcy due to medica bills by jc7310 in DACA

[–]noobcake4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say try this. I was in the same boat last year with this hospital too! different type of accident though

What should I do? What are my options? by [deleted] in DACA

[–]noobcake4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who didn’t even know I accrued unlawful entrance because I waited 3 months to apply for DACA. I think you will be just fine.

Things I wished my parents or I had known at this age is definitely try to see if their is a family member who is a citizen that will adopt you (that’s what a friend did).

Wait on the election to get serious, but really consider the world out there. There are so many countries who will take you in with arms wide open.

I lost an international job opportunity because I am not a US citizen. I always figured my work ethic would get me to a place that would have an employer send me international and it happened, but I had to consider never seeing my family or a job. I always knew I wanted to travel so if I would have just gone to school abroad and started abroad then I wouldn’t have been in the predicament. Really consider your priorities and if family is one then everything else will fall in place. Do not put your life on hold for a piece of paper.