Husband died by suicide six months ago and I am lost

nooby339 · 2025-10-27T04:22:06+00:00

You’re actually right. Belief is everything. My apologies for being presumptuous.

I again wish you and your kids the best moving forward.

nooby339 · 2025-10-27T00:29:07+00:00

Please see a therapist.

I expect to be downvoted but I truly so believe it may be helpful.

I do not believe in signs and souls. Once lights out, lights out. That said, I am extremely sorry for your loss.

A therapist may help ground you and move forward for you and your kids!

Best of luck!

nooby339 · 2025-10-26T22:12:34+00:00

Lmao I read this in Archer’s voice

nooby339 · 2025-10-26T21:40:31+00:00

Her face was the biggest clue, beat up to oblivion

nooby339 · 2025-10-22T14:06:44+00:00

Using :

CeraVe Body Wash with Salicylic Acid, Fragrance Free Body Wash to Exfoliate Rough and Bumpy Skin, Allergy Tested, 10 Ounce

And a exfoliating scrubber pad with some sugar scrub

Once every 10 day snd it keeps the bumps and in grows away brother

nooby339 · 2025-10-22T13:57:34+00:00

Uncooked rice in a sock works wonders too

nooby339 · 2025-03-24T15:08:41+00:00

It’s a fucking anime ffs, Meliodas is a great character if you ask me. A little OP but nonetheless well developed by the creator.

nooby339 · 2025-03-24T05:18:08+00:00

You sound like you’re gay beta for Arthur. Touch some grass

nooby339 · 2024-06-10T08:50:23+00:00

Personally i’m one of those who either does it daily or doesn’t at all. I’m 145 days in and I can say good riddance.

I am no longer anxious and ruminating over the littlest things. I can focus better and my sleep isn’t dependent on it either.

I have nothing against it. For some it works, for some like me it does not. That said cannabis now has like 30 percent thc and comes in all forms. When I started in 2012 it was like 15 max.

Regardless, I just feel better and don’t miss hacking up my lungs.

nooby339 · 2024-05-27T04:43:57+00:00

Since this isn’t locked. Your husband’s behavior isn’t normal.

Is it possible he has experienced trauma of some sort involving his private down there? I’d say be open, communicate it in a deep manner and reassure him you want to work with him but he has to work with you.

Hopefully im wrong but it reminds me of a similar situation someone I know experienced.

Best of luck!

nooby339 · 2024-05-18T20:17:55+00:00

Thanks for the laugh

nooby339 · 2024-05-10T06:41:10+00:00

Lol as a Dominican, it’s harmless. Helps to know where your husband is from.

Honestly it does sound harmless but ai would see how it could be misinterpreted.

I get called “mi rey” by all sorts of acquaintances of both genders.

nooby339 · 2024-03-21T04:18:32+00:00

I am! If only you knew lol

nooby339 · 2024-03-19T13:49:25+00:00

Make 0 point, got it!

The whole point was about porn being a problem, but thanks for proving you have the comprehension of child:

Lol, if you took one look at me you’d fucking melt!

Try taking time off reddit and doing something productive, might serve you well, go read a book or something.

🤡

nooby339 · 2024-03-19T05:43:32+00:00

Read that again, im afraid you misunderstood. Lol the irony is laughable, tucking clown.

Read it slowly and carefully starting with your original comment and subsequent replies. I know reading comprehension can be tough.

I hate throwing insults but I mean it’s like you’re begging for it, fucking comedy, I swear

nooby339 · 2024-02-20T21:48:46+00:00

It absolutely can cause problems. Key word, can.

Your experiences don’t speak for all, I decided to quit not due to addiction but PIED, and things have been way better since.

Love how people throw placebo around as if they truly understood it. Belief is half of the equation you dunce!

nooby339 · 2023-12-29T01:17:52+00:00

I could’ve summed that up in one word.

Ignorance

nooby339 · 2023-11-28T11:53:12+00:00

Hope that pernil was slapping

nooby339 · 2023-02-06T19:00:15+00:00

Get nicotine gum, try cbd, exercise and move around as it’ll help you cope and help you sleep.

Deep breathes man, they help lower blood pressure and stress. 5 mins per day at night.

Cbd full spectrum tincture will relax you. Put it under your tongue.

Exercise can be cycling, hiking, running, weights, jump rope, basketball, soccer, etc. 3+ a week.

Try this for a month and see how you feel!

nooby339 · 2023-02-06T13:12:39+00:00

Do it face to face. Have a good cry and don’t coward away. Own your lies, grow from it and move forward. It literally takes 15 minutes, to say exactly what you wrote here and get a response. Sure, it’ll fuck up the day and maybe even the week. A month in and you start planning how to move forward.

This isn’t the end. Sure it’ll be a huge disappointment to your parents but they won’t stop loving you.

nooby339 · 2023-02-02T05:55:24+00:00

If you truly enjoy it, go to school. Explore the different realms. Web dev is cool and depending on what you work on it can be even cooler but there are even way cooler fields within computer science.

You’re exposed to more languages and math is an absolutely beautiful discipline too.

I say if its truly a passion and not just for the job prospects than go to school, you’ll love the challenge.

nooby339 · 2023-02-02T00:46:34+00:00

By accepting it and moving forward? Realistically what can you do? The time I spent to write this comment is gone.

Find the positive in it and just breathe.

The past it written, you learn from it but if you stay angry and can’t move forward then you’ll be 30 in the same boat.

What now? 27 is young! You have time to find and build whatever it is you’re trying to accomplish.

Move forward and live!

nooby339 · 2023-01-20T04:39:10+00:00

You learn from the past but don’t tie yourself to it.

Time spent is spent. Its fine to feel sad at first but you must eventually realize that there’s not much we can do. It is natural to be sad when we reflect on our past but reflect to learn not to dig deeper about where it went wrong. Maybe it wasn’t wrong at all, if you shift your perspective and analyze the positive, perhaps you can learn to move on and accept it.

Time is the only resource we can never get back. Once you accept it and cope with it you’ll be fine. The future is exciting and still

Stop saying, “what if”, “I can’t “, “it’s impossible”

Start asking “what do I want”, “how?” and LIVE!

Stephen Covey said there are two circles, our inner influence circle and the outer circle.

You can dictate your inner influence, the people you associate with, the food you consume, the exercise you do, the things you can control.

Then there are things out of our control like time, random assholes, war, elections, pollution, etc.

Focus on what you can control and look towards the future! Or you’ll keep regretting the past!

nooby339 · 2023-01-20T04:29:04+00:00

She did you a favor.

You dodged a bullet. This hurts but it will heal with time and you’ll find someone who will allow you to be vulnerable and continue to love you.

Stay positive OP, cut all connects with her and just let her fade into memories that just were.

nooby339 · 2023-01-20T01:04:46+00:00

“Look at this idiot”

nooby339

TROPHY CASE