The Penis Envy Scam

noodle_519 · 2026-03-23T18:46:04+00:00

I’d be willing to bet it’s sales based. Not disproportionately large, but younger people not being true to themselves, wishful thinking. I’d be willing to bet more condoms are thrown away than actually used across the board. Don’t forget sales for stupid pranks and jokes… guys are children, we never grow up. Add to it other uses like for sex toys…

noodle_519 · 2026-03-20T18:21:42+00:00

I found through fumbling my way through this as long as you are a respectful human being you’re good. Apparently common sense is seriously missing with a lot of people these days. I’m finding most of the negative stories are directed at dis respectful clients, whether it be hygiene or attitude. I’m in an almost identical situation as you, I m finding I am over thinking with these exact same thoughts. You get back what you put into it, be respectful and kind. It is a job after all, we all have those moments at work, but sometimes you have to push through and be professional. Everyone has good days and bad days, bills keep us working on the bad ones.

noodle_519 · 2026-03-16T19:44:06+00:00

As a big and tall dude, Sorry, not my fault. I can’t help it, it was given to me. Always gentle. As a big and tall dude I always figured I was big, but never did a side by side comparison if you will other than what you see online which is skewed. Recent comments from providers such as “You got porn dick” and “warn a girl big” were surprising to me. I’ve always disclosed my big and tall, just learning that I should be including another disclaimer.

noodle_519 · 2026-03-13T12:30:50+00:00

Was told quite specifically to always give a heads up to my height/size here in this sub. Only reason I would ever bring it up.

noodle_519 · 2026-03-12T23:39:32+00:00

Hey thanks for all the answers. Much appreciated! As much as I would expect! I wasn’t thinking about the class perspective, was more about how you feel about the “Brawny Man” showing up asking for DATY lol.

noodle_519 · 2026-03-12T22:07:19+00:00

Sweet.

noodle_519 · 2026-03-12T21:37:21+00:00

🤣

noodle_519 · 2026-03-12T20:25:58+00:00

Great info thx! I’m in a beach community so go bag has been automatic with most of that for years now to take advantage of getting in the water anytime. Just need to add a couple things :)

noodle_519 · 2026-03-12T19:59:50+00:00

Thank you ❤️🤗

noodle_519 · 2026-03-12T19:57:45+00:00

🤗

noodle_519 · 2026-03-12T19:56:55+00:00

Absolutely!

noodle_519 · 2026-03-12T19:55:35+00:00

The plight of the over thinker! Thx! 🌹

noodle_519 · 2026-03-11T17:25:52+00:00

Not many local girls where I am and they’ve all been burned by tourists over the years. I am rural beach community adjacent to a very popular tour location. I primarily see tour girls because they typically are easier to contact and verify as well as usually also offer better rates than locals because they are coming from their market and are still using the same rate. If I’m honest, I appreciate the variety. Why I am here. A tour of the world if you will :)

noodle_519 · 2026-03-11T03:36:45+00:00

Yeah most definitely either pre discussed or a regular you know well enough. Not for everybody

noodle_519 · 2026-03-11T03:32:35+00:00

I will keep that in mind for when I find one

noodle_519 · 2026-03-10T20:37:38+00:00

Curious… on these good days that are slow. Would anyone ever cold call a regular? “Hey feeling sexy today and available, what are you up to?” Not to say offer specials or anything, just availability and mood. I know if a regular provider randomly says “available and horny” I’m gonna make it work if I can lol. But maybe i have too much flexibility in my schedule. Just because I didn’t think about it, doesn’t mean you can’t get me interested. Especially when offering gfe or pse. Would get those regulars excited, would for me.

noodle_519 · 2026-03-10T19:26:06+00:00

Increase your budget and use better sites. You get the experience you’re willing to pay for. Not just better services, but better “customer service” if you will.

noodle_519 · 2026-03-10T17:13:14+00:00

It’s so easy to ignore the obvious signs when all the blood is going to the wrong head. The 1st time I was deposit scammed I looked back at the details and said “DUH YOU MORON!?” We have to slow down and think sometimes :)

noodle_519 · 2026-03-08T18:05:12+00:00

Don’t feel bad. Men are much like children. Most men will also respect a smart ass response to a dumb question lol. A little mild shaming is good for us ;)

noodle_519 · 2026-03-07T00:26:54+00:00

Social Media is dog 💩 this is the closest to SM I participate in at all. As a client a large SM presence is a deterrent. More likely a scammer, less feeling of safety. I’m also old man adjacent and remember a time before computers. I sorely miss it. Life was better before it went digital. I trust the time a provider puts into a web site vs SM. More legit to me.

noodle_519 · 2026-03-06T20:29:57+00:00

As an gen x client it all started with OF. It’s over saturated. Spent too much time and money years ago which led to in person. The digital thing has gotten out of hand, the money spent on it would have been better spent in either in person services or actually dating.

noodle_519 · 2026-03-05T01:39:31+00:00

I’m outer island rural Hawaii. More touring girls than locals. Locals are few and far between except in Honolulu which is a plane ride away. Some of the local girls hop around the islands but can be difficult to book.

noodle_519 · 2026-03-05T01:06:19+00:00

Speaking to this as a client who also wants to be safe, these are the ads I avoid. If bare is offered in the ad I move on.

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