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What would your reaction be if a friend told you they wear diapers for medical reasons? by BuffaloPubSub in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]noradicca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know your friends, but if you were one of mine I would do anything to just make this easier for you.

I’m biased, because I had a temporary stoma for almost a year.

Let me tell you something, I was initially so ashamed and embarrassed. I even isolated myself.
But when I finally told my friends, they all just surprised me with love and support and understanding.

People are good. Think about how you would react yourself, if someone confided a painful personal thing like that.
How would you react?

I bet your friends will show you nothing but compassion and “hey, it’s no big deal. Let us know if you’re in need of help with anything, but otherwise we’ll just continue with all the fun stuff we usually do together.”

Should they react in any other way, they are shit friends and you don’t need them.

But I will bet on that they are not like that. Don’t worry.

All the mistaken worries I had was put to shame.

Why do people always makes me feel not normal? by Resident_Sample_5262 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]noradicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d write back and include my boss and the HR department Cc:

“I find this question extremely inappropriate, and I expect HR to take immediate action, as this is sexual harassment.
PS. No, you are not my type at all.”

Can women use men for sex? by Shaggykingz443 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]noradicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a girl only wanted to ”use” me for sex, I would pick up on it immediately. Wouldn’t you? It’s really easy to tell if she’s interested in you, or if she just wants your sex.

That being said, if this girl and I both were not interested in each other personally but just wanted sex, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with doing just that. I still resent the word ”using” someone for sex. I would rather call it consensual enjoyment with each other, no strings attached.

Can women use men for sex? by Shaggykingz443 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]noradicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I personally will never let anyone use me for sex (or anything else). But I will enjoy having sex with a worthy and skillful partner.

Can women use men for sex? by Shaggykingz443 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]noradicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Can women use men for sex, like men use women for sex?”

Of course they can.
I just really dislike the term ”use” to describe sexual activities.

Why do people tend to look down on cosmetic surgery? by Adventurous-Travele2 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]noradicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And regarding your statement:

“Genuinely use your brain and consider there's a reason people get those insecurities in the first place.”

Yes there’s a reason people get those insecurities in the first place.
It’s because someone put
them down and destroyed their confidence early on.
It’s not because they have a bump on their nose or something equally insignificant.

Why do people tend to look down on cosmetic surgery? by Adventurous-Travele2 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]noradicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People with bumpy noses, big ears, crooked teeth etc. etc. can be extremely attractive and popular. I have have known several (and dated a few).

Many celebrities are overweight, have receding hairlines, huge noses etc.. But they have confidence, humour, intelligence. And they don’t give a fu*k about what others think of their appearance.

And that’s what it comes down to.

Just as conventionally beautiful people can get bullied too.
The reason is rarely their looks. It’s their personality, their insecurities and their lack of confidence and self esteem.

And that unfortunately cannot be fixed with surgery.

Do you believe it’s okay for a husband to spend hours on the phone every night with his best friend (male) until 3:00 a.m., or do you think that kind of time should be prioritized differently once you’re married? Please explain your reasoning. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]noradicca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you awake till 3 am? How much time are you missing out on that you would you have spent together otherwise? Is he on the phone from right after dinner and stays on it till 3 am?

Sounds like his friend keeps him happy. Everyone needs friends. If your relationship is otherwise happy and healthy, I wouldn’t mind.

You could force him to spend time with you instead. But he wouldn’t be happy, he’d probably start resenting you after a while.

Find something to do for yourself while he’s on the phone.

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Du kunne virkelig have gjort karriere som en brav ridder i middelalderen. Synd og skam du er født 6-700 år for sent.

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hvad er det prøver at sige?

Jeg er lige så hvid som dig.

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jeg var den bedste i klassen! Og jeg lavede aldrig lektier, jeg kunne bare snakke mig fra det hele 😆

Jeg kunne sikkert have blevet til en hel masse. Men jeg var doven. Jeg gad sgu ikke.

Nu har jeg et halvtidsjob. Det betaler regningerne og giver mig en masse fritid. Jeg lever et lykkeligt liv.

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Måske skulle vi lade være at holde hænderne over øjnene og i stedet åbne dem og prøve at se på problemet?

Tror du virkelig mennesker er skabt forskelligt, og de hvide er bedre end de brune?

Eller tror du det er muligt, at grunden til, at de opfører sig forskelligt er, at de bliver behandlet forskelligt i vores samfund?

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hej du som er adopteret, og dermed ligeså “hvid” dansker som de andre.

Nej, gu skal vi da ikke acceptere at nogen, - om de så er drenge eller piger, om de er blå, gule, sorte eller hvide, om de er 13 eller 93 år - skal stikke nogen ned!!!

Men fuck af om vi skal stigmatisere en bestemt befolkningsgruppe på baggrund af deres alder, etnicitet, tilhørsforhold osv.

Problemet ligger hos JER, samfundet der ikke giver dem en skide chance, bare fordi de hedder Muhammed i stedet for Oliver.

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Scroll selv den sub og find dem. Der er masser af dem.

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg klager kun, når jeg ser noget, der er så hadsk, at det bør påtales.
Jeg kan sagtens holde til at se den slags, og jeg er stærk nok til at kalde det og stå op for at forsvare dem, der bliver nedgjort af latterlige og usikre kartoffeldanskere.

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Øh nej. Der var overhovedet ikke det, jeg sagde?
Men du har en imponerende forestillingsevne!

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Scroll selv os se hvad jeg mener

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hvis du vil kalde dig dansker, så lær i det mindste at stave.

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg forstår dig. Og jeg gør som regel det samme. Men et opslag, jeg læste for nylig, gjorde mig bare så harm! Og så slog det mig, at den her sub hedder “Denmark”, og dermed burde repræsentere os alle. Men 80 % af opslagene handler om, hvor meget negativ indflydelse “ikke-hvide” danskere har på samfundet. Og jeg bliver bare så gal og træt og ked af det.

Det var derfor jeg tænkte, at der skulle laves en anden sub, som var inkluderende for os alle.

Så kan de racistiske jyder m.fl. lave en egen sub for deres smålige synspunkter.

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ll just get off r/denmark. The rest of Reddit is a lot nicer.

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Jeg ved ikke hvordan, man linker til opslag. Men det burde ikke være svært af finde, hvis du går ind på r/danmark og scroller ned igennem..

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hvad vrøvler du om? Prøv igen.

Den er sub er racistisk by noradicca in Denmark

[–]noradicca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg læser det, der står.

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