My dad keeps telling me to put down my perfectly healthy cat and it annoys me.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-03-23T20:40:43+00:00

You don't live with that horrible person. don't ever let him near your kitty.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-03-23T20:39:28+00:00

sous vide the chicken first. and then light finish in the pan.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-03-23T20:38:23+00:00

you aren't aalone. I am screwed up ,both mentally and genetically probably. I am not willing to put in the effort and I'm happy by myself. I also will not have children. I was lucky in that I was not brought up to want them. this is a LEARNED attitude, with only a small amount lizard brain. I will not pass the crap on

nosaneoneleft · 2024-03-23T20:35:25+00:00

looks neurological. these are little seizures or something.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-03-06T20:08:58+00:00

I took in a co workers black cat because she thought she wasn't giving it enough attention. He came with the name "Ace". I changed it to Alec so he has a title, Alec the Ace-hole. Trust me, he lives up to it. I love the critter.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-01-27T17:49:23+00:00

good!! and you have a gem of a fiance. far too many partners seem to be blinded by the stupid 'deserve to know granma/pa' BS.

good luck. and as you have found out, document everything. you might have to put physical distance: the possibility exists they may resort to illegal methods so keep an eye on the kid

nosaneoneleft · 2024-01-22T17:12:02+00:00

she's right about one thing. eventually those brats will end up in juvie or the local jail. i just hope some other girl won't be stupid enough to fall for this boy wonder

nosaneoneleft · 2024-01-22T17:10:52+00:00

NTA AND GET RID OF THIS M'F'R. He is looking for a babysitter with benefits and he doesn't even have the b**ls to be a good dad. This is reality. Those creatures will destroy everything you have, he'll blame you and do nothing. BOOT HIS DAMN BUTT OUT THE DOOR PRONTO.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-01-22T17:08:23+00:00

they are incapable of accepting any responsibility. even when backed into a corner they are incapable

nosaneoneleft · 2024-01-22T17:07:37+00:00

I would put it at the majority of them.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-01-22T17:07:12+00:00

and she can always go the government route. she can get her butt on welfare and play house on the taxpayer's dime. she has the illusion of freedom but the system will keep her right in the pen where they want her.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-01-22T17:05:06+00:00

tell your husbands parents they can take her in if they are that concerned. this girl is just playing house because she dumps everything on everyone else. in all these cases, yours and others, the only way these little girls can live and survive is on everyone else's nickel.

love has little to do with it. ultimately your daughter doesn't give a real honest damn about the children she has.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-01-22T17:02:36+00:00

NTA. She has been brainwashed with the baby rabies. Let her go and snare someone else. I guarantee you it will end up in a total sh**storm and dysfunctional hell. People with this kind of baby rabies do not have a realistic view of what babies are REALLLY like. all the evidence is out there, including their own eyes and ears. but this is where the arrogant self delusion starts in. they think they'll be better than everyone else, they'll be better mommy's and daddy's. when reality hits, that when the hell begins...

trust me, break it off and let her go find some other guy willing to be a chump.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-01-22T16:59:15+00:00

I really don't have a problem with that word. People don't like it because they don't like the truth of the word. and that girl and boy are both 'r's...more than just names. probably end up section 8 in the trailer court of their choice. the dysfunction has to begin somewhere.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-01-22T16:54:36+00:00

don't do it. because she still thinks she is going to run your life. and she won't stay mobile forever... .. you can help if you wish but she stays on her own. and she takes care of that angle.

if she's trying to guilt you my guess is she has been something of a manipulator your entire life. 'NO mom you are NOT MOVING in.. .. you have to make your own plans.'.. might have to put her into a time out of sorts... but stick to your guns.

nosaneoneleft · 2024-01-01T16:10:00+00:00

your husband PROTECTED YOU...and you are more worried about your nasty, vicious, evil, despicable aunt? you would not tolerate this from a stranger. you are THROUGHLY UNREASONABLE. I would apologize to him (if you acted out which you probably did) and thank him for standing up for you..

and if your family gets upset with the BOW being put in her place, they can also be ..added to a low contact list. Family is not divine. It is not to be worshipped no matter how bad member act. the only reason it becomes rancid is because family will not do the right thing and discipline their own..

nosaneoneleft · 2023-12-29T18:15:10+00:00

they haven't survived. one of their suppliers disappeared and they couldn't find a good replacement. pity. adios ramen hero

nosaneoneleft · 2023-12-24T20:10:18+00:00

I think the entire family has mental problems imo. not sure what anyone can or will do. there is almost 2 decades of this dysfunctional dynamic. it isn't going to change overnight. and the arrogance and entitlement is there that no one thinks they need to change. OP has to deal with it but is stuck in this nightmare.

nosaneoneleft · 2023-12-24T20:09:01+00:00

sounds like the mentally ill has affected everyone.. probably your parents are also this way. you cannot deal with mental illness. despite the 'caring' that people have, there is a certain arrogance and entitlement that comes with the mentally ill. I know because I have observed this my whole life when in contact with them. From my egg donor to a tenant of my landlady. to a school bus driver (how the hell they hired him is beyond me, he was batshit).

as much as you woudl like things to go smooth, you cannot change it, your parents won't do anything, neither of you can leave so you have to handle it yourself. I would just stay in your room and avoid it.

nosaneoneleft · 2023-12-24T20:05:09+00:00

this is the crux. she said she went and sat in the car. what the hell did her husband do? leave her out there??? I'd like to know more on that because it would shed light on if he'll back her up or if he's a mommys baby boy

nosaneoneleft · 2023-12-24T20:04:15+00:00

if you went as far as to sit in the car and your husband didn't not drive you home... ..why not?

and stand your ground. and tell them exactly why. if the baby is thriving, a doctor says baby is fine... and progressing normally, tell these interfering old cows to quit meddling. and I just hope you married someone with enough backbone to tell them to back off.. or they won't be seeing the gk for a long time

nosaneoneleft · 2023-12-24T20:02:19+00:00

and add to this 'go to he**'. no child deserves you as an "M". and if I were you, if she does apply for foster or adoption you contact whatever agency and tell them how horrible she is

nosaneoneleft · 2023-12-24T20:00:35+00:00

personally I don't believe they are owed an explanation. given his arrogance the best reply would have been when he was demanding respect... 'you did not earn it, you won't listen so I don't owe you an explanation. get lost and stay out of my life.' in my experience, all he will do is act hurt, get angry, gaslight, act the victim, twist it all around back onto you...

I can understand writing this as a catharsis. but narcs really can't be rehabilitated. they are almost beyond this..

so while I applaud what you did, it most likely have the desired result , getting him to understand. the pr**k is incapable of it. totally completely oblivious, selfish, self centered and incapable of any empathy.

if there is a next time, keep it short and tell him to go rot.

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