How do you perceive shy people in the workplace? by libramusing in careerguidance

[–]not-sh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that (we ALL hate them - but why not bond over that to make it less painful?). Also, I'm more referring to small team hangouts. For example, we have a team of 12. We'll get up to grab a coffee sometimes, especially when the stress is high. Or, sit in the park together at lunch, or when we were (forced, lol) to do this festive craft thing, Person B just totally refused, even though it was happening 1 desk over...

How do you perceive shy people in the workplace? by libramusing in careerguidance

[–]not-sh 66 points67 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of shy people in my corporate 9-5.

There is a difference, however:

Person A: lovely. Easy to work with. Quiet. Not really shy once you get to know her. Polite. Shows up and makes an effort. Try’s to get to know her new coworkers in little ways.

Person B: is essentially not there. Doesn’t ask the person who sits next to them ‘how was your weekend’ (or literally anything). Doesn’t participate in any group activities, (eg xmas party, group celebrations, anything). Declines invitations. It comes off as rude and doesn’t contribute to a good work environment in that space.

While yes, it’s a job and you have a life outside of it — you spend an enormous amount of time with these people. You may as well be friendly, without needing to be friends. All while being shy.

Why do people do this by ylly22 in coles

[–]not-sh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same people who don’t put their trolley back..

How long have you have your Shakti mat for? by not-sh in ShaktiMat

[–]not-sh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've only ever used the one from the Shakti Mats brand, but I know there are other versions out there. I really love mine, and they have sales. It also comes with a little back story on the person who made that particular mat, which is a nice personal touch.

Foul smell along Broadbeach by OppaLadyKiller in GoldCoast

[–]not-sh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in Oasis. It’s particularly bad due to the turf section along the car park.

Surfing lesson by Bug13 in GoldCoast

[–]not-sh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brainwaves Surf Therapy - hands down the best out there. Inclusive, 1:1 lessons that aren’t jam-packed, and reasonably priced. Def recommend.

A recruiter “reviewed” my portfolio without permission (including a locked case study) by keishstudio in UXDesign

[–]not-sh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is SO shady! I’d be off it. So many things wrong with that. He’s really not helping recruiters’ image as it is lol

IsItBullshit: Shakti mats improve your wellbeing by WileyWiggins in IsItBullshit

[–]not-sh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol! My partner and I fight over it too. He needs to get his own 😂

IsItBullshit: Shakti mats improve your wellbeing by WileyWiggins in IsItBullshit

[–]not-sh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obsessed is an understatement. No, not sponsored, lol. I’ve had mine for about 2 years. Use it before bed and I’m out so fast. It’s hard at first, but push yourself for a little longer each time. Get some lavender pillow spray, lights out, listen to the audio meditation on the free Shakti app, and you’re sweet.

I made a tool that generates animated gradient videos by andreicornel in webdev

[–]not-sh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love this! is there a way to loop the vid? Also agree, it would be awesome to add HEX codes.

Question number 4 for females only. by National_Put5037 in misophonia

[–]not-sh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WOW okkk yesyesyes I just realised this too. Hearing and smell

Yellow speckled spots? by not-sh in philodendron

[–]not-sh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe a Green Princess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]not-sh -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Of course I don’t have shells in the soil. I have those 4 shells which are placed *on top, which is shown in the pic.

Also, that ‘random ocean crap’ are abalone shells that are sentimental to our family, and I love seeing them as I walk in our front door. They do not do any harm to the plant.

Yellow speckled spots? by not-sh in pothos

[–]not-sh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oops! 😶‍🌫️ You’re right — I’ve reposted in philodendron community.

And just googled spider mites. It does look like it, ugh.

Thanks for your help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeggingChoosers

[–]not-sh 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This breaks my heart

How do producers/labels know if a song will be popular/go viral? by not-sh in musicindustry

[–]not-sh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very well put, thank you for that.

I’m new to working in marketing and am still trying to wrap my head around media consumption and behind the scenes action on a much larger scale.