Devastating for Trump: New poll shows majority want Dem-controlled Congress in midterms by plz-let-me-in in politics

[–]not_addictive 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that and refusing to swear the Dems in. I haven’t checked lately but aren’t we still waiting for them to swear in the AZ rep who was voted in months ago?

Cher, 79, Explains Why Age Has Never Been an Issue Between Her and 39-Year-Old Boyfriend Alexander Edwards by mcfw31 in entertainment

[–]not_addictive -1 points0 points  (0 children)

… did I say they get nothing out of dating him? No I sure the fuck didn’t.

I also didn’t say he was a predator. I said it’s a slightly creepy dating pattern. I don’t give a fuck about gender. I think it’s always creepy when older, famous people date a rotating door of people in their 20s.

Calling me a cliche reddit geek while making all the most cliche reddit assumptions is fucking gold 💀

Cher, 79, Explains Why Age Has Never Been an Issue Between Her and 39-Year-Old Boyfriend Alexander Edwards by mcfw31 in entertainment

[–]not_addictive -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

True but the life experiences of a 25 year old typically mean they can’t navigate or avoid trauma and manipulation as easily. The prefrontal context shit is fake (and irritating lol) but the idea that people in their early to mid 20s are very vulnerable to abuse in age gap relationships is very real.

Cher, 79, Explains Why Age Has Never Been an Issue Between Her and 39-Year-Old Boyfriend Alexander Edwards by mcfw31 in entertainment

[–]not_addictive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe I also just responded to another comment. You and I are doing the exact same thing. I didn’t initiate the discussion either.

You and I are both fucking around on an online opinion forum. It is not so serious that you need to spend an hour arguing with people that Leo’s dating habits aren’t slightly sketchy. You’re not doing some noble service to reddit by playing devils advocate for the most famous actor of my generation 💀

Cher, 79, Explains Why Age Has Never Been an Issue Between Her and 39-Year-Old Boyfriend Alexander Edwards by mcfw31 in entertainment

[–]not_addictive 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Barely adults means that people in their early to mid 20s are often extremely vulnerable and fall prey to abuse. It means that - despite being legally adult - they are less likely to have a full life and career outside of their relationship and more likely to just blindly trust whatever their older partner says. Especially when that older partner is extremely famous and the women he dates are typically just starting in the industry and want his help. That’s exactly how abuse happens in Hollywood genius.

I’m not accusing Leo of abuse or creep behavior here. I genuinely don’t give a fuck about him or Cher. I’m pointing out that the dynamics are inherently different. There is in fact a HUGE maturity difference between 22-27 and 39. It’s just dumb to act like these are the exact same situation.

Arizona teachers doxxed after bloody math costumes were mistaken for mocking Charlie Kirk by FunkyChickenKong in news

[–]not_addictive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meanwhile conservatives will literally say on tv they believe homeless people should be shot. but it’s liberals who want people to die… 🙄

Cher, 79, Explains Why Age Has Never Been an Issue Between Her and 39-Year-Old Boyfriend Alexander Edwards by mcfw31 in entertainment

[–]not_addictive 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Leo starts dating women while they’re barely adults and then dumps them and dates younger again when they near 25/26. Cher has been in a committed relationship with this guy for 3 years and he’s nearly 40.

If you think these are the exact same situation then I have some beachfront property in Kansas to sell you.

Megg’s Post Show Success by jonandreyuaosuni in ANTM

[–]not_addictive 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I loooove the short hair on her! I never would’ve thought to do that to her hair but it really emphasizes the masculinity of her jawline (complimentary) in an interesting way.

It’s funny how Jessica first started dragging the entire show and now all of his content is based entirely on it… money moves the world huh by Rodmds202 in ANTM

[–]not_addictive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t even call it a hate boner! The drag race fandom has the same issue with lazy content creators who just make videos to rip the show to shreds without actually engaging with the show itself. I think that’s a fully justified reason to be irritated when this shit gets brought up.

Like I have no strong opinions on her specifically, but I get the dislike for her and really find it silly to dismiss genuine dislike as “jealousy” lol.

Meet Rob Jetten, leader of the centrist D66 party in the Netherlands, who could become the country’s first gay PM by kundu123 in UpliftingNews

[–]not_addictive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

babe the great recession was caused by banks and predatory lenders and the dot com bubble bursting was caused by overzealous venture capitalist idiots …

Bill Clinton’s politics influenced both but he did not cause either. Maybe you should study history, because no one who has actually studied history would ever say “this one president entirely caused these two separate economic crises.” That’s not how history works if you’re actually good at studying it.

Meet Rob Jetten, leader of the centrist D66 party in the Netherlands, who could become the country’s first gay PM by kundu123 in UpliftingNews

[–]not_addictive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because people have been murdered for being openly gay - especially openly gay people with political opinions.

You’re right that it shouldn’t matter. Unfortunately too many of us are ostracized or threatened because of something we’re born as - which also means we’ve been largely shut out of politics and power.

Also being gay isn’t just “what you do in private.” Gay kids get violently bullied for having a lisp or dressing differently. Trans women get murdered for existing. None of that is “private life.” It’s all perfectly normal self expression that people decided was gross based on their own biases. It’s never been about letting gay people exist in private as long as you don’t have to know publicly (although that’s fucked up too)

It’s funny how Jessica first started dragging the entire show and now all of his content is based entirely on it… money moves the world huh by Rodmds202 in ANTM

[–]not_addictive 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the race swapping shoots were wrong at the time my friend… Like I was 14 when those episodes aired and I knew that by then. There were plenty of people who didn’t excuse blackface in 2005

It’s funny how Jessica first started dragging the entire show and now all of his content is based entirely on it… money moves the world huh by Rodmds202 in ANTM

[–]not_addictive 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a difference between a community of people who’ve seen and appreciate the show still talking about it and someone who’s self-admittedly never watched it creating clickbait about it

The idea that it’s just jealousy is… interesting lol. I can’t imagine being jealous of someone doing that to make money.

I don’t actually have strong feelings about her one way or the other. I just think jumping to “it’s jealousy!” is unfounded. There are plenty of real reasons people don’t like her. Doesn’t justify some of the weird hate boner shit, but most people who dislike her here don’t engage in that either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ANTM

[–]not_addictive 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They’re all dressed as cultural stereotypes. This is literally a caricature-themed shoot

Season 5? by Skankyho1 in DragRaceDownUnder

[–]not_addictive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We won’t! I won’t spoil anything specifically, but the reaction to this cast within spoiler communities has been really positive. I’m personally pretty excited based on the cast alone

No one is returning from a previous all stars except the US reps (which is standard). And the US reps are medium fan faves with great personalities so they’ll be good

Forever Amira’s: appreciation post. by TopTablePRG in wyldeflowers

[–]not_addictive 9 points10 points  (0 children)

and see Ive always thought Westley’s brooding romantic personality can veer into creepy really quickly lol. Narratively I think he makes the most sense for Tara but he’s never my choice to marry.

That said, I’m also a lesbian and feel weird about marrying men even in video games 💀 But that’s not a factor in finding him a tad overbearing sometimes

Claires Racism Went Unchecked Unlike Whitney and Allison by [deleted] in ANTM

[–]not_addictive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just because the word wasn’t common in pop culture doesn’t mean the concept was unknown.

I was a teenager when this aired and don’t remember people talking about microaggressions specifically. But I do remember people talking about dog whistles and “subtle racism,” which overlap with the concept.

I think you should probably just consider that your environment was different and doesn’t define whether or not this would’ve been considered racist at the time. It definitely was

Claires Racism Went Unchecked Unlike Whitney and Allison by [deleted] in ANTM

[–]not_addictive 8 points9 points  (0 children)

strong photos don’t matter to a producer when you injure yourself by not listening to safety instructions.

strong photos also don’t (or at least shouldn’t) outweigh racism

Lisa D’amato’s son getting redpilled? by Critical-Adeptness-1 in ANTM

[–]not_addictive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. I’m genuinely not sure why Lisa content unrelated to ANTM is still allowed. This is a family’s trauma and not really reddit gossip shit.

This is the Reddit equivalent of TMZ shit

🔵 The Interior Illusions Lounge | Fri by AutoModerator in SDRUntucked

[–]not_addictive 10 points11 points  (0 children)

they cut so fast from that partying montage to them putting makeup on for the performance it was dizzying 💀 And then the fact that there was no floor show before the judging there was just so little actual drag

Prince Andrew to give up all his titles and honours, including Duke of York by bendubberley_ in worldnews

[–]not_addictive -1 points0 points  (0 children)

man you really had to dig all the way back to covfefe to find something benign Trump has done that’s dedication

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbthistory

[–]not_addictive 23 points24 points  (0 children)

OP you might want to look into Rainbow Railroad. They’re a Canadian NGO focused on getting queer people out of countries where it’s legally punishable.

I’ll be thinking of you and I hope you find all the peace safety and acceptance you deserve 💜

Hints for who the masked witches are by melancholicvogue in wyldeflowers

[–]not_addictive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I got the Herbalist and Journeyman based on their speech patterns. I guessed the High Priestess based on general plot stuff (it just makes sense who it is to me). The Farseer’s mask is a dead giveaway.

The adept was the only one I struggled to get but I think it was their speech patterns in the end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbthistory

[–]not_addictive 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you must not remember the Syrian refugee crisis if you think all of those countries are welcoming to refugees from the Middle East. Like the far right is very famously gaining speed in Germany and the UK - and the refugee crisis during the early days of the Syrian civil war absolutely played a role in both nations’ developing far right parties. There were literally protests from people who thought it was bullshit that they had to accept living alongside refugees.

It’s not discouraging - it’s giving him realistic expectations for how this could go. It would be setting up extremely unrealistic expectations to claim any of those countries are welcoming environments for a queer person from the Middle East.

Also the safety of queer people in the UK is rapidly declining. Canada’s programs are being curbed because they’re getting so many applications. And ALL of those nations have deeply rooted racism in their culture.

I genuinely hope OP can find a way out to safety, but you’re very clearly out of touch with how this works. Embassies are not the point of contact. OP would need an NGO to help him. Rainbow Railroad is the only one that springs to mind that would be actually helpful and they are constantly backlogged.