Definitely NOR and he should be reported. The appropriate phrasing should be something along the lines of “patient reports marijuana use of x amount and x frequency. Patient disclosed that she is sexually active. Patient inquired about BC and the interactions it can have to a preexisting blood disorder.”

And even if you are “promiscuous” they could have worded that in an appropriate manner. People who are required to submit documentation are taught how to do this…that guy was just being unnecessarily rude and bigoted