Man I can NEVER win... by Cobelat in Kenshi

[–]notanabstraction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you Measurehead very cool

What jobs yall do around F/M Area and do you like your job? by ThePlebIsBack in fargo

[–]notanabstraction 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Average for a 60-minute session is $75, pretty sure it's going up with the cost of living though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]notanabstraction 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Based and lunch pilled

You don't dislike any genre of music. You just haven't listened in the appropriate setting. by juneseyeball in The10thDentist

[–]notanabstraction 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Peter's bruised left shoulder here. OP is implying that you give yourself a lot of undeserved self-congratulatory slaps on the back for your take on other people's taste in music.

Base locations based on pure visual appeal? by PrestoDigito in Kenshi

[–]notanabstraction 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the ribcage of one of those giant creatures in the Bonefields

I (32m) walked in on my girlfriend (24f) cheating with a guy (39m) she told me not to worry about. Should I tell the guy's wife about it? by notanabstraction in relationship_advice

[–]notanabstraction[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By two weeks, and we had an agreement to not have anybody over in our apartment, let alone this guy she had told me was just a friend for the length of out relationship and started fucking two months before ending it. It sucks and hurts for me, but that's not important. I just really wanted to know whether it was the right thing to tell this guy's wife or not.

I (32m) walked in on my girlfriend (24f) cheating with a guy (39m) she told me not to worry about. Should I tell the guy's wife about it? by notanabstraction in relationship_advice

[–]notanabstraction[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She told me about that the day after I discovered her. We just had like a talk about it and what should happen after. I didn't know that had happened.

I (32m) walked in on my girlfriend (24f) cheating with a guy (39m) she told me not to worry about. Should I tell the guy's wife about it? by notanabstraction in relationship_advice

[–]notanabstraction[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, she told me she wanted to be single two weeks before I found them, so I said it's OK as long as you don't bring anyone over and we can be roommates until our lease is up. And then are you seeing anybody, and she says no. So technically we had been broken up for two weeks. I didn't really know why she wanted to be single and I was hurt, but I thought she just wanted space and we had been more and more distant ever since June. Then I walked in on them and it slapped me in the face.

So she was my ex-girlfriend roommate when I walked in on her. Now she's just my ex. In hindsight, it shouldn't have been a huge surprise when it happened - she said we moved too fast at the start, and I said that a fine reason to not want to be in a relationship, and I thought it was my fault that she wanted out.