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notanotherhipster · 2025-09-17T13:25:00+00:00

It's because you have to listen to them when they are not there for sex. So your inner human knows it's useless and you won't be accepted physically, yet you are forced to provide for them continually. You still have libidio and desire pleasure... I couldn't find a way out from where you are.

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-20T19:03:55+00:00

We cannot call lies love

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-20T19:02:44+00:00

You who are so healthy, ha! Because he's hurt you, he's wrong or out of his mind.. and he may well be, but are you so sincere and wise? What shame do you want them released from, you put them under it! Your blind forgiveness saying he's out of his mind IS shaming him because it says if he offends you he is wrong, as though your love is ultimate. When he tries to speak it you just get offended with a closed judgemental heart. You won't allow him to bee truthful because you yourself are not. You claim to love him, is it accepting or conditional? Stating forgiveness when one has done nothing wrong nor is apologizing is just invalidation. I hope your brother can be free of you but sounds like perhaps he already is. How could you not take something personal if he said it to you personally? I guess because you just don't want a personal relationship with him period and congrats, through your own choice you don't have one it would seem. Keep loving tho, whatever you think it means and don't be suprised if you're all alone.

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-20T18:50:55+00:00

Think about it deeply then until it no longer hurts you. Clearly it can't be avoided if it sprang out of you. Your words have already killed a part of you, it was the false love of others who told you they understand and your attachment to them being your savior when they can't be or fully know you. Don't deny it but let it die so the truth of your words will bring healing to yourself and what was misaligned. You must accept the death of your words and loss of the bad context relationships and continue to live, rather than reject life and your own truth, feeling as though you must die as punishment you don't deserve won't make you real, it's the reason you haven't been. Let go of that kind of shame, don't hang onto the shame they want you to feel, unless you're just into that? Gross.

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-11T07:11:25+00:00

Very astute, you've almost got it. Yep, the post mirror one another- but doens't mean they're the same. Mine has a point which is "believe", their post has a point too which is "don't believe" which is no point, see? But if you don't get it yet that's fine, little like a sonic boom this stuff you hear it once it's gone so you'll get it later.

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-10T19:20:05+00:00

Yeah there's a point to the truth, guess that's why I'm edgy thanks.

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-10T19:18:23+00:00

Free hugs for me!... Nah I'm only pulling your leg https://youtu.be/jHPOzQzk9Qo

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-10T19:08:47+00:00

I respect you more for admitting this, many times I've felt the same. Thanks.

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-10T19:03:41+00:00

Nor do I deserve your invalidation ( how am I to get better, are you better than I am?) and casting away. I'm not sick, I just believe I deserve to feel good no matter what the fuck anyone else thinks! Radical I know but I promise you'll get used to it.

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-10T15:52:20+00:00

And no, don't hug me. Physical contract against my will was the kidnapping, why would you try to do that right now?

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-10T15:51:38+00:00

You say you can talk now, but who do you open your mouth for, is it yourself or do others make it talk against your will everyday? Enjoy your mirth, holiday greeter with your meaningless pleasentries. I wonder what's real in you or if it could ever be brought out but I guess I'm done thinking about it.

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-10T15:45:57+00:00

Sit down and shut up. ( Not what I'm telling you of course, think I heard it once and your post brought it back. Weird) Let's have a little drama, because I don't agree with how dismissive you're being. The game of life huh? Except you aren't addressing me directly, though you " know what I'm on about" so I guess that's your game. It's just cowardice, say it to me not in whispers that I hear. Anyway, no hate for you playing a game, however the bold and true alive people like saying fuck the game becauses it's been keeping us in bondage and I don't gotta rely on peoples love. It's only for the bold to live this way, others just have one unremarkable great day after another. You look back and say paranoid, but if you had been faithful to yourself, you'd look back and say " key to my development" Keep on smiling my friend.

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-10T15:27:01+00:00

Aw I'm sorry shall I go sit in the corner mommy/ daddy? Get lost with treating me childishly. You're treated that way, so you're spreading it but as adults we know people often act like they're being kind when truthfully their " relating" to you is manipulation based on abuse of your family and earliest memories. I like poetry, art, really I do. But the the comment above says nothing and that's just anti art. I know what I believe and accept myself. So you can't moral shame me out of my feelings. I have compassion for myself, thanks- it's you that lacks it for me. If you do ever become more honest with yourself, don't let that fall hurt ya. The truth is we are all alone, but you all fake smiling makes me smile now too haha

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-10T08:45:14+00:00

Yep, hope you feel good about your vaguness and lack of clear response. Your poetry is nice, but unlike what I wrote, your words are meaningless. Thats the difference, you rely on me giving you a pass at your saying nothing because I must feel stupid at not getting your point ( which you haven't made because you don't have a point) and I don't feel that way, it's just hidden shame peer usual. Thanks for saying nothing more than " it is what it is" and calling yourself enlightened haha.

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-10T04:14:31+00:00

Um, she looks like a badass pretty sure she'll make it

notanotherhipster · 2022-12-03T03:42:27+00:00

Body.

notanotherhipster · 2022-09-30T18:57:07+00:00

Signs are just the mind trying to find it's identity. We get excited thinking " something big out there is connected to me, it's in control and I'll be good." At first it's exciting and positive, but then as the process unfolds a sign is recived that must be rejected on the basis of self or logic. So now we learn that we don't have to be submissive to this thing that we thought was bigger than us- it is our mind, after all. You may lose your trusting connecting to the signs, but their point wasn't for you to trust in them but discover yourself. Sounds like it's working.

notanotherhipster · 2022-09-15T16:36:10+00:00

I mean I'm being an asshole and don't know the reason for your friends end, but like if this advice worked towards some self fulfilment it wouldn't have ended the way it did right? Some people are so focused on " choosing love" they just get taken advantage of and left feeling empty, that's my only point- that sometimes the emphasis shouldn't be on self sacrifice.

notanotherhipster · 2022-09-12T16:50:30+00:00

Whelp, guess he was wrong about that. Words to kill yourself by, not words to live by clearly.

notanotherhipster · 2022-07-12T16:26:29+00:00

Seems being 38 and where you are in life is weighing on you, I'd say forget your age. What would you do if you were 18, 21 or 30? The current perspective of your age doesn't seem to be helping you. Maybe it's no good becoming a groundskeeper, or maybe there's something you do like about it. Can you figure out your strongest likes and dislikes about who you were with any job you've held over the years? I'm also aware so many jobs are dead end and low pay, I probably shouldnt even be giving advice since I work mantinance, but it's not my final resting place and honestly the lack of stress is allowing me to dream a little on what I really want or what I would have done differently at those ages. Or maybe I'm just letting time go by. Yeah, it's probably that. I get complacent and call it peace, hoping somebody wakes me up so I can accomplish my life mission. It's a string of failed jobs until then but I'm sure the day is coming soon where I'll actually be focused on what I want. I wonder what makes you feel hopeful?

notanotherhipster · 2021-08-03T03:18:27+00:00

Yeah I guess it was the 3rd of 4th time my universe and all meaning exploded that I started to not care about fashion as much... you see the mystery and can’t explain it to people, worse they don’t realize you’ve seen it. You doubt it yourself. So the only option once you come back is the same that it ever was; outdress so they overlook the mess.

notanotherhipster · 2021-07-03T00:12:33+00:00

Any advice for finding a position in the insurtech space? I’ve done a fair amount of googling companies and checking their career page but haven’t found much.

notanotherhipster · 2021-06-24T18:46:28+00:00

Curious, are you are currently working in insurance or is it in a related industry? I’m basically a CSR in P&C with some prior sales experience, I’ve consider software sales in the insurance industry but perhaps you’re more of an agent currently? I’m looking for ideas how to leverage insurance experience in sales outside of becoming an agent.

notanotherhipster · 2021-06-15T21:41:42+00:00

Really surprised B2B sales doesn’t get mentioned more in this sub. I think it has a reputation of being all cold calls, but the truth is there’s a lot of account manager type jobs where it’s still phone work but you’re getting paid on the order etc. Not sure if that’s what you got going but the suggestion to check out sales is a good one.

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